The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is hosted by Roy Biancalana, a certified relationship coach, three-time #1 best-selling author and nationally-recognized expert in the field of attraction and conscious relationships. His podcast is devoted to supporting single people in their desire to attract a healthy, sustainable, intimate relationship. The perspective shared is a mindful or conscious perspective on life, love and the pursuit of intimacy.
Roy does not focus much on telling single people where to go, how to approach or what to say to a potential partner. Rather, he focuses on helping people identify and let go of the barriers, blockages and self-sabotaging patterns that keep them single. Roy's work and this podcast are in alignment with the advice given from the famous 13th century mystic poet, Rumi, who said, "Your task is not to seek love, but instead to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."
To one degree or another, we all have "baggage." Everyone has been hurt, betrayed, deceived, ghosted, gaslighted, lied to or disappointed.
That pain can cause us to build a wall around our hearts i…
Michael Singer, the author of The Untethered Soul, is Roy's mentor from afar and his favorite spiritual teacher.
In this episode, Roy shares a recording of talk he heard Michael give in 2019 at The…
In this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, shares that people with a feminine essence seek a "soulmate," while people with a masculine essence seek a "teammate." Those are very different things.
A …
One of the most powerful issues to explore in your love life is how your childhood and past experiences have affected and influenced your view of love, relationships and intimacy.
In this episode, …
If you are interested in personal development, real spirituality and great relationships, then you need to read what Roy (the host) believes are the 7 most important and powerful books ever written.
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Why is "The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast" talking about spirituality? What does that have to do with finding a life partner?
Everything.
In this episode, Roy shows that true spirituality and healt…
If you're human and don't live in a cave, you get triggered all the time, right? It happens to all of us. The issue is, what do you do when you're triggered? Well, most of us become aggressive, passi…
In this episode, relationship coach and #1 best-selling author, Roy Biancalana, explains that curiosity is the key to attracting a healthy, sustainable relationship.
Let's face it: most people are …
What is it that makes us attractive to our ideal partners? That is such an important question, and in this episode, Roy discusses the physical, emotional and energetic issues that can allow us to be …
We don't like to admit it, but we all have something called, "A Core Story of Deficiency." It's believing that we are, for example, not good enough, unlovable, or unworthy, to name just a few.
In t…
The fear of rejection is probably the most common fear among single people, and if it's not overcome, it will sabotage your love life and keep you single.
In this powerful episode, Roy shares some …
Decisions always come up in relationships: Should you go out with them? Should you go on a second date? Should you take your profiles down? Should you have sex? And so on.
In this episode, relation…
Believe it or not, in this episode, Roy teaches us how to talk! We all know how to talk in a way that creates drama and conflict but very few know how to talk in a way that creates clarity, connectio…
We all know that communication is the life-blood of any relationship, but in this episode, Roy challenges the listener to pay more attention to the motives behind their words rather than what actuall…
Most people say they want a relationship characterized by authenticity, transparency and honesty. But what does that really mean? In this episode, the host, Roy Biancalana, invites the listener to be…
Do you ever feel like trying to find your life partner is like trying to find a needle in a haystack? If so, you're not alone. In this episode, Roy talks about two ways to find your "needle" (your li…
I tried so hard to come up with a title for this episode that would cause you to listen—because it's that important. I hope I succeed, because I interview Jim Dethmer, one of the world's leading voic…
In this episode, Roy explains something most of us know—that we are our own worst enemy. The mind functions like our "inner relationship coach." It's our Matchmaker, Translator, Secret Service Agent,…
Even though Gary Chapman's blockbuster book, "The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts" is extremely popular, it's actually based on a dangerous premise. The commitment to speak in anot…
None of us like drama and conflict, and yet not many of us understand its root causes and how to put an end to it. If you want to learn how to end conflict—with partners, parents, siblings, children,…