The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it’s actually a crazy way to live and love.

Even though mindful wi…

The Attracting Lasting Love Podcast is all about relating consciously and mindfully, and although that sounds good on the surface, it’s actually a crazy way to live and love.

Even though mindful wi…

In this current podcast series, I’ve been using the analogy that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.

There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There’s the purchase phase, the mai…

In this current podcast series, I’ve been using the analogy that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.

There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There’s the purchase phase, the mai…

I got to thinking the other day—probably because I have too much time on my hands—that an intimate relationship is a lot like owning a car.

There are 3 major phases when owning a car. There’s the p…

The issue of "Trauma" brings up some very important questions, the first of which is, how do you know if you have Trauma (with a capital "T") or just basic baggage/pain from the past and its correspo…

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, but in this, the final episode of the series, there’s a big twist.

Instead of addressing another…

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.

But where do you go for answers you can trus…

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the third question.

But where do you go for answers you can trus…

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, we address the second question.

But where do you go for answers you can tru…

There are some very important questions that single people ask concerning their pursuit of intimacy, and in this episode, the most frequently asked question is addressed.

But where do you go for an…

Dr. John Gottman, a famous couple’s therapist and relationship researcher, has identified four warning signs that a relationship is doomed. They are criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewallin…

In the previous episode, Roy shared something that no one had ever told him (and something you’ve probably never been told either): That although masculine people crave freedom at their core, they wi…

The host shares, quite candidly, that he's been struggling in his personal life. He talks about being in an angry, dark, whiney place and it hasn’t been pretty, to put it mildly.

He explains that a…

This is part 2 of a 2-part series where Roy, the host, offers very practical, down-to-earth wisdom on how to let go of the past.

In the previous episode (#179), Roy discussed the first two steps to…

Most of us know how important it is to let go of our past and its pain. If we hold on to the past, we live with suspicion, projection, and worst of all, repetition (if we don’t learn from the past, w…

If you are interested in changing the trajectory of your love life—and after listening to the previous episode, how could you not be!—you are probably considering working directly with Roy. But becau…

This is probably the most important podcast Roy has ever recorded. Yes, on the surface it looks like he’s simply promoting his coaching practice, but in reality, something much, much deeper takes pla…

Perhaps you’ve heard the phrase, “You just can’t make this stuff up!” It speaks to how reality is often stranger than fiction. That is certainly true in our world today—have you been paying attention…

In a playful, tongue-in-cheek, reverse psychology kind of way, Roy shares how each of us can be utterly miserable and ruin our lives. (LOL!) If you want to feel stuck, angry, and unmotivated, if you …