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Strangers on the Internet

Want the academic take on dating in the modern world? Legal scholar Irina Manta and psychologist Michelle Lange bring you the latest on how to swipe your way through dating apps, find love, navigate complex relationships, and avoid narcissists and other predators. Come learn about cutting-edge research and find out how to make online dating work for YOU!

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Marriage Society & Culture Technology Love Sexuality Sex Relationships Dating Health & Fitness
Update frequency
every 12 days
Average duration
50 minutes
Episodes
87
Years Active
2022 - 2025
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Guest Chat: Recovering from Narcissists with Justena Kavanagh

Guest Chat: Recovering from Narcissists with Justena Kavanagh

On this episode, Irina speaks with psychologist Justena Kavanagh who specializes in helping people to overcome coercive control and other narcissistic abuse. Justena talks about the different insidio…
00:57:29  |   Mon 23 Sep 2024
Guest Chat: Closing the Deal with Carlos Farini

Guest Chat: Closing the Deal with Carlos Farini

Irina's special guest on this episode is no other than her husband (and "Strangers on the Internet" sound editor) Carlos Farini. They discuss the beginning of their relationship, from Bumble to exclu…
00:51:23  |   Mon 09 Sep 2024
Guest Chat: Interracial Dating with Prof. Solangel Maldonado

Guest Chat: Interracial Dating with Prof. Solangel Maldonado

In this episode, Irina discusses all things interracial dating with Prof. Solangel Maldonado of the Seton Hall University School of Law. Solangel introduces listeners to her new book "The Architectur…

00:44:03  |   Mon 26 Aug 2024
Guest Chat: Fierce Desires with Dr. Rebecca Davis

Guest Chat: Fierce Desires with Dr. Rebecca Davis

Dr. Rebecca Davis, the Miller Family Early Career professor at the University of Delaware, recently completed the first major account of the history of sex and sexuality in America in three decades. …

00:46:05  |   Mon 12 Aug 2024
Guest Chat: Fighting Coercive Controllers with Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko

Guest Chat: Fighting Coercive Controllers with Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko

On this episode, Irina speaks with clinician Dr. Christine Cocchiola and divorce coach Amy Polacko about their new book "Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld." These coauthors describe the de…

00:58:08  |   Mon 29 Jul 2024
#metoo Coverage: Dilan Esper Follow-up on Joshua Wright's Lawsuits

#metoo Coverage: Dilan Esper Follow-up on Joshua Wright's Lawsuits

In the fifth part of this coverage of the sexual misconduct allegations against ex-George Mason University (GMU) law professor and former FTC Commissioner Joshua Wright, Irina invites back Dilan Espe…

00:48:51  |   Mon 10 Jun 2024
Guest Chat: The Neurobiology of Relationships with Dr. Dixie Meyer

Guest Chat: The Neurobiology of Relationships with Dr. Dixie Meyer

What are the neurobiological underpinnings of relationships? Irina and Michelle delve into that question and its implications with St. Louis University professor and director of SLU's relationships a…

00:43:52  |   Mon 27 May 2024
The Dating Professors: How to Deal with Commitment Phobia

The Dating Professors: How to Deal with Commitment Phobia

One of the chief complaints of dating app users (and especially straight women) is that commitment phobia abounds in those they meet. Can people with commitment phobia ever change? And if so, can the…

00:51:06  |   Tue 14 May 2024
Guest Chat: The Philosopher and the Engineer with Dr. Michele Merritt and Paul Hiebing

Guest Chat: The Philosopher and the Engineer with Dr. Michele Merritt and Paul Hiebing

On this episode, Arkansas State University philosophy professor Michele Merritt joins us from Tennessee with her engineer husband Paul Hiebing. The couple discusses meeting online and navigating life…

00:49:48  |   Mon 29 Apr 2024
The Dating Professors: Should You Ever Date at Work?

The Dating Professors: Should You Ever Date at Work?

According to recent data and media reports, Gen Z has some enthusiasm for dating in the workplace. Is that a good idea, however? Irina and Michelle dissect the pros and cons of finding a significant …
00:41:57  |   Mon 15 Apr 2024
Guest Chat: Sex Addiction with D.J. Burr

Guest Chat: Sex Addiction with D.J. Burr

On this episode, Irina and Michelle chat with psychotherapist and sex addiction specialist D.J. Burr. In recovery from sex addiction himself, D.J. explains the condition and the path toward improveme…

00:50:17  |   Mon 01 Apr 2024
The Dating Professors: Do Opposites Attract?

The Dating Professors: Do Opposites Attract?

"Opposites attract," the old adage goes. Is that really true, however? Irina and Michelle delve into the ways that disparities are a drawback versus advantage in relationships. What are some of the D…

00:50:40  |   Tue 12 Mar 2024
Guest Chat: The Artist's Way with Sebastian

Guest Chat: The Artist's Way with Sebastian

On this episode, Irina and Michelle talk to German visual artist Sebastian, whom Irina met on a long train ride in Europe over a decade ago. He is a photographer, comic artist, graphic designer, illu…
00:45:19  |   Tue 27 Feb 2024
The Dating Professors: Should You Meddle in Others' Relationships?

The Dating Professors: Should You Meddle in Others' Relationships?

When and how should you intervene in loved ones' romantic relationships? The Dating Professors address the issue in this episode. Irina and Michelle talk about the things that make them uncomfortable…
00:42:34  |   Mon 12 Feb 2024
Guest Chat: Surviving and Thriving Post-Betrayal with Cassie

Guest Chat: Surviving and Thriving Post-Betrayal with Cassie

Cassie, a NYC professional in her 40s, did not see her live-in partner's cheating coming. She tells Irina and Michelle about the way her 49-year-old boyfriend--whom she met in a physical therapist's …
00:50:50  |   Mon 29 Jan 2024
The Dating Professors: Never Too Old for Love

The Dating Professors: Never Too Old for Love

Is there hope for finding love late in life, including after being widowed or divorced? The Dating Professors explore in this episode the stereotypes and true challenges--but also advantages--of look…

00:46:31  |   Mon 15 Jan 2024
Guest Chat: A Match Made on Friendster with Dr. Aislinn Black and Prof. James Grimmelmann

Guest Chat: A Match Made on Friendster with Dr. Aislinn Black and Prof. James Grimmelmann

Season 3 begins with the feel-good tale of how Rutgers emergency physician Dr. Aislinn Black and Cornell information law scholar Prof. James Grimmelmann met in the early days of social media. Learn h…

00:51:27  |   Mon 01 Jan 2024
The Dating Professors: A Retrospective Celebrating Our 50th Episode

The Dating Professors: A Retrospective Celebrating Our 50th Episode

Irina and Michelle guide listeners through a retrospective of the "Strangers on the Internet" podcast on the occasion of the show's 50th episode. What lessons have the Dating Professors learned from …

00:57:24  |   Mon 18 Dec 2023
Special: Exclusive Interview with Award-Winning Writer L.L. Kirchner

Special: Exclusive Interview with Award-Winning Writer L.L. Kirchner

Award-winning screenwriter and author L.L. Kirchner takes Irina and Michelle through the whirlwind of her life in this episode you will not want to miss. While living in Qatar, L.L. received a phone …

00:50:55  |   Mon 04 Dec 2023
Guest Chat: Finances and Dating with Serise Lange

Guest Chat: Finances and Dating with Serise Lange

On this episode, Irina and Michelle interview marketing consultant Serise Lange, who moderates the popular Facebook group Women's Personal Finance. How do finances impact dating, and how do we figure…

00:55:28  |   Mon 20 Nov 2023
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