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Strangers on the Internet

Want the academic take on dating in the modern world? Legal scholar Irina Manta and psychologist Michelle Lange bring you the latest on how to swipe your way through dating apps, find love, navigate complex relationships, and avoid narcissists and other predators. Come learn about cutting-edge research and find out how to make online dating work for YOU!

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Marriage Society & Culture Technology Love Sexuality Sex Relationships Dating Health & Fitness
Update frequency
every 12 days
Average duration
50 minutes
Episodes
87
Years Active
2022 - 2025
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The Dating Professors: Where You End and I Begin

The Dating Professors: Where You End and I Begin

What are boundaries and how do you enforce them? Irina and Michelle delve into why these questions aren't as simple as they may appear. People who weren't taught to draw boundaries as children (or in…

00:56:12  |   Tue 19 Aug 2025
The Dating Professors: Where Have the Men Gone?

The Dating Professors: Where Have the Men Gone?

A recent op-ed in the New York Times by Rachel Drucker asked "Men, Where Have You Gone?", followed by reader responses from men. Drucker lamented men withdrawing from the romantic public sphere and s…

00:55:45  |   Mon 04 Aug 2025
Guest Chat: Total Eclipse of the Heart with Monica and Will

Guest Chat: Total Eclipse of the Heart with Monica and Will

Irina and Michelle have the pleasure on this episode to talk to newlyweds Monica and Will. The academic mom and enrollment manager dad blended their families after a magical year-ish together. Find o…
01:01:24  |   Tue 22 Jul 2025
Pride Month Special: Hollywood Dreams with Chris Peckover and Shannon Short (Part 2)

Pride Month Special: Hollywood Dreams with Chris Peckover and Shannon Short (Part 2)

The Dating Professors continue their conversation with Hollywood darlings Chris Peckover and Shannon Short. You better get the tissues ready for this part as Irina and Michelle learn how both Chris a…

00:36:38  |   Mon 07 Jul 2025
Pride Month Special: Hollywood Dreams with Chris Peckover and Shannon Short (Part 1)

Pride Month Special: Hollywood Dreams with Chris Peckover and Shannon Short (Part 1)

Happy Pride! This episode follows the epic love story of filmmaker (and Irina's friend from college) Chris Peckover and costume designer Shannon Short. Hear how Chris randomly contacted Shannon based…

00:41:50  |   Tue 24 Jun 2025
Guest Chat: The Comic Con Artist with Kate (Part 2)

Guest Chat: The Comic Con Artist with Kate (Part 2)

Irina and Michelle continue their conversation with Southern attorney Kate, which traces the aftermath of her discovery of Doug's true identity. Just how dangerous was Doug? How did Kate unmask him a…

00:52:51  |   Mon 09 Jun 2025
Guest Chat: The Comic Con Artist with Kate (Part 1)

Guest Chat: The Comic Con Artist with Kate (Part 1)

Irina and Michelle have on this episode the wild tale of Kate, a successful lawyer and mom in her 50s in the Southern United States, and the same-aged man she met on Feeld while traveling, Doug (both…
00:51:02  |   Mon 26 May 2025
The Dating Professors: Happy Relationship Memories

The Dating Professors: Happy Relationship Memories

What makes for a happy moment in a romantic relationship? Irina and Michelle walk down memory lane to share some of their favorites. Travel, rain, cupcakes, protests, and discussions of "body counts"…
00:44:07  |   Tue 13 May 2025
The Dating Professors: Why Are U.S. Women Shunning Marriage?

The Dating Professors: Why Are U.S. Women Shunning Marriage?

As the Wall Street Journal and other sources have discussed recently, more and more women in the United States are stopping their search for a man to marry. Why is this happening? Irina and Michelle …

00:51:47  |   Tue 29 Apr 2025
Special: Exclusive Interview with

Special: Exclusive Interview with "Balloon Guy" Mike Schneider

On this special episode, Irina and Michelle speak with Portland-based creator Mike Schneider whose balloon art and other works have gone viral. Now with over 800K Instagram followers and a full-time …

00:53:35  |   Mon 14 Apr 2025
Guest Chat: When Your Partner Has a Trauma History with Dr. Karen Dwyer-Tesoriero

Guest Chat: When Your Partner Has a Trauma History with Dr. Karen Dwyer-Tesoriero

Irina and Michelle host trauma expert and NYC-based therapist Dr. Karen Dwyer-Tesoriero on this episode. She explains what distinguishes complex post-traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD) from other typ…

00:45:22  |   Wed 02 Apr 2025
The Dating Professors: Regulating Moods and Tempers

The Dating Professors: Regulating Moods and Tempers

How can you stop yourself and conversations from blowing up? In this episode, Irina and Michelle talk about bringing down the temperature, especially when it comes to conflict within romantic relatio…
00:50:36  |   Tue 18 Mar 2025
The Dating Professors: Surviving Catastrophic Politics

The Dating Professors: Surviving Catastrophic Politics

A month into the new presidency, many couples are facing existential questions. Perhaps one person lost their federal job, or the couple disagrees on just how unsafe the country has gotten. We discus…

00:50:05  |   Mon 03 Mar 2025
The Dating Professors: Work-Life Balance

The Dating Professors: Work-Life Balance

How do workplaces support or undermine people's personal lives, and especially romantic relationships and family lives? What happens when toxicity in the form of poor pay or other bad treatment affec…
00:50:57  |   Mon 17 Feb 2025
The Dating Professors: Can Relationships and Friendships Co-Exist?

The Dating Professors: Can Relationships and Friendships Co-Exist?

It is a tale as old as time: someone enters into a romantic relationship, and they let their friendships drift away or even suddenly cut them off. Irina and Michelle discuss why this keeps happening …
00:47:06  |   Tue 04 Feb 2025
The Dating Professors: You Seem Really Angry

The Dating Professors: You Seem Really Angry

A lot of women are angry today. As the United States inaugurates Trump as president (again), women feel like equality is slipping away in the personal, professional, and political arenas. Why is fema…

00:58:44  |   Mon 20 Jan 2025
Special: Return Interview with VulgaDrawings Cartoonist Lily O'Farrell

Special: Return Interview with VulgaDrawings Cartoonist Lily O'Farrell

Viral cartoonist and writer of VulgaDrawings fame Lily O'Farrell returns to kick off our fourth season of the podcast! With Irina and Michelle, she dissects the international political landscape in t…

01:04:03  |   Mon 06 Jan 2025
The Dating Professors: When Elections Meet Relationships

The Dating Professors: When Elections Meet Relationships

On the day before the U.S. presidential election of 2024, Irina and Michelle examine the impact of this event on relationships. First and foremost, what happens if two romantic partners disagree on t…
00:43:11  |   Mon 04 Nov 2024
The Dating Professors: Nobody Wants This?

The Dating Professors: Nobody Wants This?

On this episode, Irina and Michelle dissect the new Netflix hit show "Nobody Wants This," a tale of a non-religious woman who falls in love with a rabbi and of the mayhem that ensues. The Dating Prof…

00:47:44  |   Mon 21 Oct 2024
Guest Chat: Defusing Emotional Predators with Steven Wolhandler

Guest Chat: Defusing Emotional Predators with Steven Wolhandler

Irina speaks with dispute resolution specialist Steven Wolhandler, who uses his dual background in law and psychology to help people handle emotional predators. The author of "Protecting Yourself fro…

00:51:33  |   Mon 07 Oct 2024
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