"Without your entrance to greater reality in this life, greater reality has no entrance to this life. The meaning of all of this life [of yours] isn't as it appears. The meaning of this life is for greater reality to manifest through all the forms of this life." - John de Ruiter. New podcast Episodes are released weekly on iTunes. Visit www.johnderuiter.com for audio and video releases of John's meetings and to register for live seminars.
Interactive Live Stream - June 6, 2021 Morning
The man in this dialogue is ready to make whatever sacrifices necessary to let go of the self and move deeper into his being. He discusses with John his…
Interactive Live Stream - February 20, 2021 Morning
"How can I find me, again?" In the midst of the challenges of being a new mother, the young woman in this dialogue feels that she's lost touch with…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 1, 2016 Afternoon
“The use of sexuality can easily become frustrating because it promises so much and delivers so little.” John describes what human sexuality is reall…
Montreal, Canada Event - November 1, 2000
Even though his feelings can swing from one extreme to another, this man knows there is a place of stillness amongst it all. John describes what is happening…
Tiruvannamalai, India Event - January 27, 2018 Afternoon
Through the story of meeting with a beggar, a man speaks of his sense of continually coming up against a threshold within that he knows will t…
Tiruvannamalai, India Event - February 4, 2018 Evening
This young man asks for help to free his nervous system of all the conditioning and conflict he knows is there in his sexuality. John explains w…
Poleg Beach, Israel - November 3, 2018 Evening
With her husband in a coma, the woman in this dialogue shares the extreme difficulty she faces in parenting her children in the midst of this crisis. Jo…
Edmonton, Canada Meeting - May 20, 2019 Afternoon
Unusual experiences that seem to come out of nowhere prompt the woman in this dialogue to seek John's perspective. What's happening and how can she l…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - November 2, 2018 Evening
Frustrated by a lack of understanding, this man feels he’s not getting the help he needs to connect with his heart and the honesty John speaks of.…
Tiruvannamalai, India Event - February 5, 2018 Morning
"I need to know more about my soul." So begins this finely detailed dialogue with John describing the soul, how it develops, and all that must h…
Vienna, Austria Event - November 13, 2002
How could our relationship to food possibly reveal how we relate to people? This man has lived alone for many years and wants to know how to truly merge with…
Gillingham, United Kingdom Event - June 9, 2014 Morning
Though the man in this dialogue has awakened to deeper levels of reality, he wonders how he can give form to what's immaterial. John describes …
Rishikesh, India Event - February 25, 2019 Afternoon
How do you feed a hungry heart? A disturbing sense of not knowing how to give her heart what it needs brings a surprising answer from John, openin…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - April 6, 2019 Afternoon
Experiencing intimacy in nature comes easily for the man in this dialogue, but not so in being with people, to say nothing of sexual intimacy. John…
Edmonton, Canada Event - April 22, 2018 Afternoon
What does it take to return to the genuineness of a child after years of covering it up? John describes the fundamental shift that, sustained, return…
Munich, Germany Event - March 25, 2003
In life, we really have only this moment to be what we came here to be. Life will bring both great and small events from which we can learn, creating opportunit…
Rishikesh, India Event - February 14, 2018 Morning
'Why can't I enter life more fully?' The sense of isolation that comes from feeling like an observer in his life brings this man to ask for John's g…
Rishikesh, India Event - February 10, 2018 Afternoon
"I'm haunted by my abusive past. How can I let it go?" John shows us how our beliefs are embodied in our nervous system, creating experience we ma…
Cologne, Germany Event - January 27, 2013 Afternoon
It's understandable to want more and more of something we love, but through the simple analogy of a loaf of bread and a crumb, John shows how it's …
Moen, Denmark Event - September 22, 2014 Afternoon
A question about resistance opens up the power of conclusions we've drawn that we didn't know the truth of, and how they keep us separate from what …