"Without your entrance to greater reality in this life, greater reality has no entrance to this life. The meaning of all of this life [of yours] isn't as it appears. The meaning of this life is for greater reality to manifest through all the forms of this life." - John de Ruiter. New podcast Episodes are released weekly on iTunes. Visit www.johnderuiter.com for audio and video releases of John's meetings and to register for live seminars.
A rich and unusual dialogue on the subject of love, death and real humanness. We’re shown the fineness of the thread that can change our destiny, an…
Munich, Germany Event - November 4, 2013 Afternoon
A decision taken in childhood that it is not safe to love is opened up in this dialogue. John reveals the mechanism and the role of emotion in its c…
In this conversation John describes the effect on our subconscious selves of a lifetime spent believing what we don’t actually know to be true. H…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - September 11, 2014 Afternoon
Responding to a question about how consciousness and unconsciousness become one, John describes how realization, or its lack, forms the basis…
Bristol, UK Event - September 12, 2000
In response to a person who sees that her sexuality has deeper roots than anything she’s experienced, John explains what sexuality is really for. He describes …
Interactive Live Stream - November 2, 2020 Morning
“Something is wrong …” The woman in this dialogue began questioning her reality and it has left her feeling very disturbed. John explains why this m…
Chiemsee, Germany Event - May 26, 2014 Morning
How can we open our heart toward another when there are unpleasant emotions involved? John explains how the need to diminish these negative feelings onl…
Interactive Live Stream - June 20, 2020 Morning
The woman in this dialogue senses that her experience of a fear of disappearing stands between her and what is real. John explains the supreme importan…
Findhorn, Scotland Retreat - March 11, 2012 Afternoon
The woman in this dialogue is standing at the threshold of elderhood and needs to discern what's next for her. John invites her beyond all famili…
Moen, Denmark Event - March 30, 2018 Evening
Is there such a thing as life purpose, and do we have unique gifts to bring? John answers fundamental questions on what real destiny is and how it can cha…
Auckland, New Zealand Event - March 13, 2004
What's really going on when we're angry? Instead of relating to external ‘causes’ and working on anger as a problem, John takes us into a shift of perspec…
Cologne, Germany Event - September 19, 2011 Evening
In direct connection with John, this woman notices her heart and mind opening newly. John describes the price of having such a heart in everyday li…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 25, 2017 Afternoon
How much does a meaningful professional life matter? This dialogue delves into the unconscious beliefs driving the decisions we make in our personal…
Rishikesh, India Event - February 13, 2018 Morning
The experience of new knowing streaming through his body has faded for this person. Does that mean the knowledge is lost? John describes the delicat…
Interactive Live Stream - June 7, 2021 Morning
What's the difference between being taken into the deep in connection with John, or using the biological power of plant medicine? There's profound diffe…
Poleg Beach, Israel Event - May 25, 2015 Afternoon
Why is it that love in relationship often comes with mental, emotional and physical pain? John describes the belief systems and sense of individuali…
Interactive Live Stream - April 19, 2021 Morning
How can a person make the shift from self-centredness to being the magicalness of what we really are? John shares what stands in the way, giving vivi…
Edmonton, Canada, Winter Seminar - December 27, 2000 Afternoon
In what John describes as the legitimate and wonderful pull towards sexual union, there’s no room for want or need, hope or disappointme…
Interactive Live Stream, Spring Online Intensive - April 7, 2020 Morning
Finding home, within, is a painful struggle for this person. Even being in the world is difficult. John shows her an easy way …