It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email [email protected]. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
- Update frequency
- every 2 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 581
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
NO NMF: "Nothing to Celebrate On This Day"
The following episode contains discussions of First Nations issues. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to 13YARN at 13 92 76
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KIM KEMMIS: "I Had An Exorcism [To Change My Sexuality]"
In this episode, there is mention of severe homophobia, transphobia, and suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.…
SOLO NMF: "Can You Do The Splits?"
The following episode contains discussions of sexual assault and healthcare misconduct. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14
When this listener rocked up to her …
SOLO: A Feminist Dilemma And Gypsy Rose
Abbie is wondering: should she have a nose job? Also, why is everyone calling Gypsy Rose Blanchard a manipulator?
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CLAIRE WAKEFIELD: How F*cked Vaping Is
If you're struggling with a vaping dependency, please visit Quitline https://bit.ly/3RQtD8h or call 17 7848
It's weird how quickly we go from "this air tastes so nice" to hardcore addiction. Minderoo…
SOLO NMF: "Knee Deep In A Mangrove"
An icky one that shows you just how important it is to WASH YOUR BITS before going out on a date mmmkay?
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NMF WITH JESSIE HUGHES: "I'M NOT A MISOGYNIST!"
"Have you studied Freud?" is one question he asks on a date after cutting her off, talking over her and lunging over the table to try and kiss her (nonconsentually). We love an odd man but did that g…
JESSIE HUGHES: WTF Is AI?
WTF is AI? Will it be taking over our jobs? What's deep fake porn and should we be scared? Artist, technologist and screenwriter Jessie Hughes knows her sh*t.
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SOLO NMF: "Once The Plane Lands, It's DONE."
One minute he's "I want to break up with you" and the next minute he's cuddling and having sex with her. In one of the most confusing nightmare fuels ever, this one ends on a triumphant note. WTF, ri…
SOLO SUPERCUT: The Glug It Up Tutorial
If you're looking for a quick guide to sucking dick, this one's for you. A cutdown version of yesterday's episode all packaged up nicely for you to listen to while giving head. Erm... YOU'RE WELCOME!
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SOLO: The Evolution Of Glug It Up
It's been nearly 3 years since Abbie recorded her legendary guide on blowing cock titled "Glug it Up". Since then, Abbie has sucked many more a penises, received thorough feedback, and honed her skil…
ALEXIS FERNANDEZ'S NMF: "Was I The Side Chick?"
Do You F*cking Mind Podcast Host, Neuroscientist, and Author Alexis Fernandez finally reveals the full story behind the narcissist who charmed her, confused the f*ck out of her, and then FULLY blinds…
ALEXIS FERNANDEZ: A Masterclass in Dealing with Narcissists
In this episode, there is mention of coercive control. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by call…
LUKE'S NMF: "I'm Gunna Kick The Door Down!"
The one who blindsided him and the one who lied about why she's with another guy in the toilet. Luke's Nightmare Fuel are his two ex girlfriends...
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MARIEKE HARDY: It's Still A Cock Forest...
In this episode, there is mention of suicide. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calling 13 11…
SOLO: Ask Me Anything (including Bach goss)
A Chaotic AMA touching on Abbie's experience on The Bachelor set, our internalised misogyny, and Abbie now deciding to ditch her phone and a get a landline. WHAT?
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SASSY SCOTT'S NMF: "I'm Gunna F*ck That Ute Out The Front"
In one of the creepiest Grindr dates Sassy Scott has ever been on, he gets asked to watch a 55 year old rando f*ck a ute among other delightful things such as chewing on foreskin. TikTok stars and si…
NEVO ZISIN: "Assigned Zionist At Birth"
Trigger Warning: The contents of this episode are highly divisive. If you find this topic upsetting in any way, we advise that you skip this one. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you,…