It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Other than a much needed annual PSA about no alcohol on Good Friday, Abbie tells us all about one the kindest most emotionally intelligent men she's ever been with. AWWWWW!

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Abbie REALLY likes this person. She's cried about him (happy tears), has described him as "the kindest person ever" and even wrote a 5-paged letter to him. WTF? You'll know everything about him excep…

In this episode, there is mention of sexual assault and violence. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT

If you know men who are hesitant to ca…

Why do some of us "people please"? What's the difference between being polite and being a people pleaser? What does people pleasing look like in the context of a friendship? But even more importantly…

Second round of Josh Thomas because we can't get enough! If you haven't heard part 1, GO BACK AND LISTEN. Compared to the last one, this one is in Josh's words "gruesome". What more can we get out of…

How did comedian and creator of the TV show 'Please Like Me" end up in a d*ck cage with no keys? Check out part 1 of Josh Thomas' stream of Nightmare Fuels.

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Such great questions in today's AMA including: would Abbie prefer to have kids with a man or a woman? Why does the word "female" feel so wrong when a dude says it? And, would Abbie ever consider dona…

Why IWD can be SO F*cked!

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Please note that, on this episode, there is brief mention of animal harm in the context of a joke. 

What happens when having too much fruit juice makes you want to go so bad that your huge raver pant…

Trigger Warning: The contents of this episode are highly divisive. If you find this topic upsetting in any way, we advise that you skip this one. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you,…

This episode goes into sexual assault and harrasment. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT

This Nightmare Fuel offers a great insight into ho…

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How do I prep for anal? What about "the mess"? What if my partner gets intimidated by my desire to try out…

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How did Abbie get into anal sex? What's the story behind the creation of a vibrating modular butt plug kit…

This episode goes into stalking and harrasment behaviour. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by calling 1800 RESPECT

This isn't your average workplace drama. In on…

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That's IT! Abbie's done with casual dating, done with giving her trust away to men so easily, and is so re…

Two Nightmare Fuels in one day. Comedian and Writer Nazeem Hussain tells us about why the word "leukemia" almost got him fired and why a white man's idea of a boat party led to one of his worst comed…

The following episode contains discussions of body dysmorphia, depression, abortion, and suicide. If this raises any issues for you please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14

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She meets this guy on a kink app and they seem to be hitting it off until she finds out about his dodgy side business...

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That's it. Abbie's had enough of the Northern Rivers as it's SO not worth the hype. Rant vibes all over. In more important news, Abbie's going through a breakup and is not feeling the best...

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