Husband in Law

Things are shifting ever so slightly around here. You have probably heard me allude to it but today I am tackling it head on.  I have heard from women over and over again, "Jessica, I am feeling all …

Things change quickly and often when you have shared custody. This may be hard to believe but there are things that have happened in our lives’ that we have not shared with you. But we recognize, and…

It only took us 11 Years to get here...  This episode is sharing what happened this holiday in our little family. I kept thinking how did we get here?!  What are we doing?! And then reminding myself …

What does it look like when you add a third “Dad” to your child’s life? We can’t say how it goes for everyone but in this episode, we share what it has been like for us and our daughter. Jalen is bac…

Joining us today may be the most anticipated guest EVER in the history of podcasting… Okay, maybe just in the history of the Husband in Law Podcast. Any guesses?! How did you get that right?! Maybe b…

You had questions and we have answers… Kind of.  Haha! Okay we do answer your questions in this episode. Everything from finding a new community after coming out, to how pissed did Jessica and Steve …

This episode is a quick reminder as to why gratitude is so dang important AND some insight as to what gratitude can really do for you in your life.  Enjoy!  

Feeling the pressure of the holidays? Rea…

It's the most wonderful time of the year... except when it isn't. The holidays can be joyful or straight up stressful. More often than not they are a combination of both.  This holiday season set you…

Have you see the "Mormon No More" documentary on Hulu?  Whether you have or haven't won't make a difference as you listen to today's episode where the three of us sit down to share our own unique per…

Steve always tells me he doesn't want to live past 60. 😅 Which quite honestly pisses me off BUT he carries very strong feelings about "getting older" and until we recorded this episode I didn't reali…

This week we are talking about the process of mourning a relationship. It can look many different ways and can hit us at the most random times.  We share how it looked for Steve and me to mourn our r…

Was it embarrassment? Or was it a catalyst for change?  Maybe it was both…  Today we are talking about the moments that change us.  Sometimes they come at unexpected times and in unexpected places…  …

Someone is missing from this episode but YOU will not want to miss out on these insights into the ABCs of emotional cleaning. Are you an emotional cleaner? (This is not what you think it is...) And I…

We're back! This week we have a special treat for you. It is a live Q&A where we answer some of your most pressing questions. Have a question of your own? Don't hesitate to reach out to us on Instagr…

In this episode, Jessica, and Steve will talk about their first year of marriage, having a blast in college. Jessica will then share the story of how she came upon Steve’s gay porn on the computer wh…

In this episode, Matt, Jessica, and Steve will talk about the Boise Gay Pride Festival and what their experiences were. Steve will dive into being deeply involved in organizing the different pride fe…

In this episode, Stephanie May (we mentioned her in the last episode. Remember?) comes on to talk about how she introduced Steve and Jessica to each other. Steph will ask Steve and Jessica a range of…

So, how did Steve and Jessica even meet in the first place?!

In this episode, Steve and Jessica will dive into how they met and how their relationship developed - ultimately leading to their marriage.…

Getting to know you, Getting to know all about you... 🎶🎵🎶  Where did this crazy story begin and who the heck are Jessica, Matt, and Steve?  Great question and today you are going to get to hear how t…

This was the time of the most turmoil and stress in Jessica and Steve's marriage. It was the breaking point. Steve had an affair with a man in hopes that it would shut down the gay side of himself, b…