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Friendship IRL: Real Talk About Friendship, Community, and What It Actually Takes

Tired of hearing “just put yourself out there” when it comes to friendship or community? Same.

Friendship IRL is the podcast that skips the fluff and gets real about what it takes to build meaningful adult friendships and lasting support systems. Whether you're struggling to make new friends, maintain old ones, or just want people in your life who really show up, you're in the right place.

Each week, host Alex Alexander brings you honest conversations and tangible strategies to help you connect—for real. You’ll hear stories from everyday people (plus the occasional expert), learn what’s working in modern friendships—and what definitely isn’t—and walk away with ideas, scripts, and action steps you can actually use.

Think of it like a coffee date with your wisest, most encouraging friend—the one who tells the truth and hands you the playbook.

🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday. 💬 Want to share your friendship win or struggle? Leave Alex a voice message at AlexAlex.chat.

Follow along on Instagram or TikTok @itsalexalexander and join the movement to rethink how we build connection, community, and friendships in real life.

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Average duration
47 minutes
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145
Years Active
2022 - 2025
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Don’t Let Your Brain Run Loose: Creating Solid Friendship Beliefs with Sarah Siegert

Don’t Let Your Brain Run Loose: Creating Solid Friendship Beliefs with Sarah Siegert

What are your friendship beliefs? What stories do you tell yourself about your friendships?

Today’s episode might be one of the most important I’ve ever recorded because it gets at the heart of so man…

01:01:05  |   Thu 27 Jun 2024
The Case For Making Friends Who Are In Different Life Stages Than You

The Case For Making Friends Who Are In Different Life Stages Than You

I just want to make friends who are in the same stage of life as me.

In this business, I hear some of the same phrases over and over, and this is one of them. I love that goal, and it’s a big part of …

00:36:21  |   Thu 20 Jun 2024
How Creating a Community is the Ultimate Self-Care with Fresh Starts Registry Co-Founder Jenny Dreizen

How Creating a Community is the Ultimate Self-Care with Fresh Starts Registry Co-Founder Jenny Dreizen

One thing I always say is creating a community is the ultimate self-care.

In today’s episode, we dive deep into this idea with my good friend Jenny Dreizen, who is the co-founder of the Fresh Starts R…

01:08:05  |   Thu 13 Jun 2024
Flexible Expectations and Modern Friendships with Author Anna Goldfarb

Flexible Expectations and Modern Friendships with Author Anna Goldfarb

If you’re having a bad day, try bragging about a friend. Talk about that thing they did and why they’re so great – it will turn your whole day around.

Today I’m bragging about my new friend Anna Goldf…

01:03:57  |   Thu 06 Jun 2024
Finding Balance Between Community and Individualism With Donna Fields

Finding Balance Between Community and Individualism With Donna Fields

How do we balance community and independence?

This question is posed by today’s guest, Donna Fields, who, twenty years ago, moved to Spain, and experienced culture shock, going from the United States …

00:58:39  |   Thu 30 May 2024
Letting Our Historic Friendships Breathe in Their New Forms with Joseph Suttner

Letting Our Historic Friendships Breathe in Their New Forms with Joseph Suttner

Think about your closest friends. Have you ever felt yourself saying, maybe I just don’t know them anymore? Or, why is it so hard for us to get together? 

Here’s a question I’m posing for today’s epis…

00:50:55  |   Thu 23 May 2024
Checking-In: How’s Your Friendship Self Talk?

Checking-In: How’s Your Friendship Self Talk?

I’ve been paying more attention to my self talk lately, particularly my negative self talk.

It’s so easy to berate ourselves and give ourselves labels about our interactions. I’m a bad friend. I’m awk…

00:30:56  |   Thu 16 May 2024
Navigating Female Friendships and All Their Complexities with Danielle Bayard Jackson

Navigating Female Friendships and All Their Complexities with Danielle Bayard Jackson

Today’s topic is female friendship, and to be honest, I’m a little overwhelmed by the responsibility.

I hear your stories about the intensity, cattiness, and drama of female friendships, but to tell y…

00:59:03  |   Thu 09 May 2024
Losing a Best Friend and Navigating Grief with Michelle Cecil

Losing a Best Friend and Navigating Grief with Michelle Cecil

Today’s episode is all about holding space – and it’s a poignant reminder of the importance of friendship and how it can profoundly affect our lives, even after a friend has passed away.

Michelle Ceci…

00:51:20  |   Thu 02 May 2024
The Physiological Impacts of Connection (Which is Actually More Important Than Exercise) with Dr. Zarya Rubin

The Physiological Impacts of Connection (Which is Actually More Important Than Exercise) with Dr. Zarya Rubin

How much Vitamin J are you getting in your life?

In today’s episode, we’re talking with Dr. Zarya Rubin, a Harvard educated functional medicine physician, and one of the questions she often asks patie…

00:48:44  |   Thu 25 Apr 2024
The Power of Vulnerability in Small Doses: Embracing Small Intimacies

The Power of Vulnerability in Small Doses: Embracing Small Intimacies

Sometimes to feel closer to our friends there’s this pressure to share our most vulnerable feelings or unearth some deep, dark secret. 

But what if I told you there are more ways to feel connected to …

00:31:32  |   Thu 18 Apr 2024
Carving Out More Time For Connection With Our People with Career Break Coach and Author Katrina McGhee

Carving Out More Time For Connection With Our People with Career Break Coach and Author Katrina McGhee

How much time do you spend with the people who matter to you most?

This could be your partner, your kids, your family, your friends, your community. The answer will probably vary depending on your sea…

01:03:53  |   Thu 11 Apr 2024
Crafting Connections in Small Towns and Virtual Worlds with Wesley Stroupe

Crafting Connections in Small Towns and Virtual Worlds with Wesley Stroupe

In this episode, we cover something I’ve been DYING to talk about: friendship in virtual reality. When you put on the headset and enter the VR world, what’s it like?

Today’s guest, Wesley Stroupe, is …

00:50:33  |   Thu 04 Apr 2024
The Magical Combination of Intention and Small, Simple Actions With Zahara Williams

The Magical Combination of Intention and Small, Simple Actions With Zahara Williams

Never underestimate the power of the simple things, especially when it comes to friendship.

I love that we tackle the big topics on this podcast, but there’s a special place in my heart for episodes l…

00:39:40  |   Thu 28 Mar 2024
Separating Our Own Friendship Beliefs From Our Children’s With Pam Howard

Separating Our Own Friendship Beliefs From Our Children’s With Pam Howard

Do you want to teach your kids how to make and maintain friendships?

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: modeling is so important, but as today’s guest Pam Howard points out, what’s also cruci…

00:48:06  |   Thu 21 Mar 2024
Unpacking Learned Loneliness – and How We Can Impact Change

Unpacking Learned Loneliness – and How We Can Impact Change

When the term “learned loneliness” came across my desk, it made my ears perk up. 

The idea of learned loneliness – that loneliness is now our new normal – resonates with me; I often find myself wantin…

00:36:32  |   Thu 14 Mar 2024
How To Support Your Friends Through All of Life’s Fresh Starts with Olivia Howell

How To Support Your Friends Through All of Life’s Fresh Starts with Olivia Howell

Have you ever felt like a bad friend for not showing up for someone you care about?

Or maybe you’re frustrated that you’re ALWAYS showing up for everyone but feel like nobody reciprocates; or, MAYBE y…

01:08:57  |   Thu 07 Mar 2024
Breaking the Cycle: Rewriting and Modeling the New Rules of Friendship For the Next Generation With Annmarie Beatty

Breaking the Cycle: Rewriting and Modeling the New Rules of Friendship For the Next Generation With Annmarie Beatty

Many adults today say they weren’t taught to make and maintain friendships. I’m often asked how we might break this cycle and model something different for the next generation.

What I keep coming back…

01:06:31  |   Thu 29 Feb 2024
Navigating Friendships When You Decide to Drink Less with Hitha Palepu

Navigating Friendships When You Decide to Drink Less with Hitha Palepu

From happy hours to bottomless mimosa brunches, many friendships are held together by activities that involve alcohol.

Consequently, these friendships are often affected when one party stops drinking.…

00:43:33  |   Thu 22 Feb 2024
How Jenna Myhre Deyle Moved Across the Country to Live Closer to Friends

How Jenna Myhre Deyle Moved Across the Country to Live Closer to Friends

How close do you live to your friends? Next door? Down the street? Or do many of your friends live on the other side of the country? 

Today’s guest, Jenna Myhre Deyle, actually made a cross-country tr…

00:43:04  |   Thu 15 Feb 2024
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