Fake Love and Flying Monkeys
A Toxic relationship and Fake love looks real—until it destroys you.
Welcome to Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, the podcast that exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, and emotional manipulation. Hosted by Nova Gibson, leading trauma-informed counsellor and Director of Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counselling, this podcast is your guide to breaking free from the confusion, fear, and self-doubt that come with being entangled with a narcissist.
In every episode, Nova draws from years of experience working with survivors to explore the complex, often covert tactics used in emotionally abusive relationships—from gaslighting, triangulation, and the silent treatment to smear campaigns and intermittent reinforcement.
Whether you're struggling with a narcissistic partner, parent, boss, or friend, Fake Love and Flying Monkeys gives you the tools and knowledge to understand the abuse, trust your instincts, and reclaim your power—even if the narcissist has never been formally diagnosed.
This is more than a podcast—it’s a lifeline.
You’ll get:
Clear explanations of narcissistic behaviour patterns
Practical strategies for setting boundaries and detaching
Real talk about the emotional rollercoaster of trauma bonding
Validation, clarity, and a path toward healing from narcissistic abuse
If you've ever felt trapped in a relationship that chips away at your self-worth, this podcast will help you name it, face it, and finally break free.
You’re not alone, and you’re not crazy. You’re in the fog of narcissistic abuse—and Nova is here to help guide you out.
Visit https://www.brighteroutlooknarcissisticabusecounselling.com.au/
for more support and resources.
It’s time to expose the fake love, silence the flying monkeys, and rewrite your story.
- Update frequency
- every 3 days
- Average duration
- 31 minutes
- Episodes
- 169
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
5 Reasons Narcissists NEVER Give You Closure.
Narcissists don’t forget to give you closure—they refuse to.
If you’ve ever been stuck waiting for closure from a narcissist, you’re not alone. In this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we expl…
Narcissistic Abuse is "No Ordinary Love" - With Tracy Rector
This isn’t just heartbreak—it’s psychological warfare."
In this powerful episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I’m joined by Tracy Rector—award-winning film producer, speaker, author, and domestic …
Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With - Part 2
"The narcissist’s version of you isn’t real—it’s a weapon."
In the final episode of this powerful two-part series on Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we dig even deeper into the dark world of narcissist …
Top 20 Lies Narcissists Smear you With - Part 1
"The narcissist’s lies aren’t random—they’re strategic character assassination."
In Part 1 of this explosive two-part series on Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, I reveal the top 20 smear campaign lies na…
Understanding Narcissism in Manufactured Conflict
"Conflict isn’t chaos to the narcissist—it’s control."
In this revealing episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we dive deep into the narcissist’s obsession with manufactured conflict. Ever feel lik…
10 Behaviours of the Ageing Narcissist.
"They don’t mellow with age—they just master new ways to manipulate."
In this insightful episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys, we explore the 10 key behaviours of the ageing narcissist—from guilt-t…
How do You Set Boundaries After Narcissistic Abuse?
How do You Set Boundaries After Narcissistic Abuse?
If you’ve ever asked yourself, “How can I start setting boundaries after everything I’ve been through?” this episode of Fake Love and Flying Monkeys…
20 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Tips for 2025 – Happy New Year!
20 Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Tips for 2025 – Happy New Year!
Welcome to a brand-new year and a fresh chapter in your healing journey! In this empowering episode I share 20 transformative tips to hel…
Your first Christmas No Contact with the Narcissist.
This isn’t just about surviving this Christmas —it's about reclaiming your peace and setting boundaries that protect you.
In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of going no co…
"Wolf of Wall Street"s ex wife Dr Nadine Macaluso, shares her story.
"Wolf of Wall Street"s ex wife Dr Nadine Macaluso, shares her story.
In this episode I speak with the inspirational Dr. Nadine Macaluso, known to her patients as Dr. Nae. Dr Nae is the real-life ins…
The Female Narcissist Abuse Strategies
If you have a female narcissist in your life or you know someone who does, then you don't want to miss this episode!
In this episode, I talk about the female narcissist and the toxic abuse strategies…
Healing From Narcissistic Abuse - The Benefits of Journaling with Amanda Stern
In this episode, I'm joined by Amanda Stern. Amanda provides amazing insights into healing from narcissistic abuse through journaling. She empowers her clients and community to embrace journaling as …
Does the Narcissist Make You Feel Crazy Intentionally?
Have you ever felt like you’re losing your mind when dealing with a narcissist? Like no matter what you say or do, somehow, you’re the one who’s “too sensitive” or “overreacting”? In this episode of …
Is it Narcissism, ADHD, or something else my Abuser has?
What’s driving your abuser’s behaviour?" Is it narcissism? Could it be ADHD? Or maybe it’s something else entirely? And does putting a label on it even matter when the abuse keeps happening?
In this e…
How do you survive Christmas with a narcissist?
The holidays are supposed to be a time of joy, love, and togetherness, but what happens when a narcissist is part of the family? In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the chaos a narcissistic fam…
How do Narcissists get to be the Victim? - DARVO DEMYSTIFIED
DARVO is an insidious tactic narcissists use to flip the script and play the victim. DARVO, which stands for Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender, is a manipulative strategy that leaves vict…
How do Narcissists use Triangulation to Pit People against each other?
Have you ever found yourself caught in the middle of someone else's drama, unsure how you ended up there? That’s triangulation at play. Narcissists thrive on turning people against each other to main…
How do You Survive Post Separation Abuse? - with Sybil Cummin
Leaving a narcissist should mean freedom, right? Unfortunately, for many, it’s just the start of another battle - the cruel and calculated ways narcissists try to maintain control long after the rela…
4 ways Covert Narcissists destroy your Happiness
While their methods may seem less obvious than those of the overt narcissist, covert narcissists are just as destructive. They operate behind a mask of humility, kindness, or even victimhood, all whi…
5 Ways to Shut Narcissists Down!
Tired of constantly being pulled into arguments and mind games with a narcissist? In this must-listen episode, I unpack five ways to shut down a narcissist and protect your peace.
I explore the psycho…