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Ending The Sexual Dark Age - Podcast

Ending The Sexual Dark Age

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.

Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

Sexuality Advice Health & Fitness Society & Culture Sex Education
Update frequency
every 16 days
Average duration
47 minutes
Episodes
101
Years Active
2010 - 2022
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041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of Sex

041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of Sex

Listener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexu…

00:39:08  |   Wed 16 Nov 2011
040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms

040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms

Part 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can esta…

00:57:14  |   Tue 25 Oct 2011
039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and Bicuriosity

039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and Bicuriosity

Topics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questi…

00:49:35  |   Fri 30 Sep 2011
038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space

038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space

The first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline…

00:52:44  |   Tue 13 Sep 2011
037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The Gay

037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The Gay

Listener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on th…

00:35:27  |   Mon 22 Aug 2011
036.1 Audio Erotica:

036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"

NEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story…

00:21:06  |   Wed 03 Aug 2011
035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners

035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners

Listener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes with…

00:45:09  |   Sun 17 Jul 2011
034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys

034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys

Understanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease…

00:39:52  |   Thu 30 Jun 2011
033 Advice Quickie:  Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A Swinger

033 Advice Quickie: Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A Swinger

This quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset.  The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy…

00:09:34  |   Thu 23 Jun 2011
032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues

032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues

This listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological…

00:38:40  |   Wed 15 Jun 2011
031 Swinging Part 2:  BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships

031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships

We're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and th…

01:37:37  |   Tue 31 May 2011
030 Advice Line:  Anal & Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex & New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky Play

030 Advice Line: Anal & Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex & New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky Play

Topics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discu…

00:45:35  |   Wed 18 May 2011
029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers Online

029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers Online

This time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical nonmonogamy.  In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half th…

00:59:15  |   Tue 03 May 2011
028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant

028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant

Topics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a full …

01:04:29  |   Thu 21 Apr 2011
027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words

027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words

Some of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can enco…

00:57:11  |   Wed 06 Apr 2011
026 Gays In The U.S. Military

026 Gays In The U.S. Military

An in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight …

00:58:01  |   Tue 22 Mar 2011
025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration Hesitation

025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration Hesitation

A story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a …

Tue 15 Mar 2011
024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient World

024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient World

A discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly. 

 

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00:41:06  |   Tue 08 Mar 2011
023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side

023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side

A horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom lookin…

00:40:33  |   Mon 21 Feb 2011
022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And More

022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And More

Tips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home.

Show Website: S…

00:31:49  |   Mon 14 Feb 2011
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