Ending The Sexual Dark Age

After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think!

This is a laid back episode full…

On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several o…

A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online.

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A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this…

Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November

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For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough t…

This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full …

Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky pl…

Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trou…

A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery.

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This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this…

A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be f…

Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter

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Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way tha…

This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show.

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Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor…

This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other …

A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually.

This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got…

Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.…

A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much f…