What Would Love Do?
The focus of one of America's Leading Mid-Life Dating Coaches has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.
After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay’s grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.
He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.
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- Update frequency
- every 3 days
- Average duration
- 41 minutes
- Episodes
- 318
- Years Active
- 2022 - 2025
He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?
He Just Went Silent, How Should I React?
Men go silent for numerous reasons – fear, uncertainty, doubt – and when they go silent, they’re either avoiding or processing their feelings.
You have every…
Sat 14 Jun 2025
What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth
What Men Consider AMAZING Sex | The Truth
We’re going to have a spicier conversation today about sex and the emotional connection we have with our body.
A lot of men who approach sex from an ego per…
Tue 10 Jun 2025
Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You
Strong Signs He’s Serious About You And Is Committed To You
Commitment looks different when you’re in your midlife years and it’s very different from your 2os and 30s when most people are looking fo…
Sat 07 Jun 2025
Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True)
Why You Should NEVER Date a Dismissive-Avoidant (Unless This One Thing Is True)
We’re talking about love attachment styles today to unpack why it’s tough to have a relationship with a dismissive avo…
Tue 03 Jun 2025
Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG
Never Date A Man Without This GREEN FLAG
So often we focus on the RED FLAGS to avoid when dating but I feel like then we’re always focusing on the negative. And when you always look for negative ene…
Tue 27 May 2025
Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them
Why Men Shut Down After Loss and Love Feels Impossible For Them
Dating seems like an endless merry-go-round where we connect with someone for a short time and then it ends. Then we’re back on the ap…
Sat 24 May 2025
Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET)
Men Fall In Love and Bond When… (#1 SECRET)
Falling in love is so much deeper than having great chemistry and hormone rushes. When you let lust or limerence set the tone of a relationship, very ofte…
Tue 20 May 2025
Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Think Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship
Mid-life Love Drought: Why Men & Women Over 45 Are Like, “Single Is Better Than A Bad Relationship”
You’ve heard me say the dating world is a mess and even though there’s not a single cause, let’s f…
Sat 17 May 2025
A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS
A Man Who Cares About You Will Always DO THIS
Take a moment and think about your closest friend in the world. The friend that you can tell anything and know they will have your back. You can share y…
Tue 13 May 2025
Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse
Ask Men THESE Hard Questions Before Sleeping With Them Guest @LaurelHouse
Laurel House is the premier relationship coach at eHarmony and we’re diving into why it’s so important to be upfront with a …
Sat 10 May 2025
He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him?
He Gave Me The ICK | Should I KEEP TRYING With Him?
When you’re exploring a new relationship, it’s natural to talk about the similarities you have. A big part of my teaching is about making sure you…
Tue 06 May 2025
How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked
How To Communicate Your Needs To A Man Without Him Feeling Attacked
I’m thrilled to have my friend, Sabrina Rising, as my guest so we can dig into how to communicate with our partners effectively.
C…
Sat 03 May 2025
9 Reasons Why Men Push Good Women Away
9 Reasons Why Men Push Good Women Away
Wouldn’t it be wonderful if relationships developed like they do in the movies, following a predictable formula with a happily ever after ending?
In reality, p…
Tue 29 Apr 2025
Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like You
Men Will Do All of THESE Things If They Really Like You
Today’s hookup culture has us trained to think that sex is the predominant way a man shows that he likes you. But I disagree and we’ll talk ab…
Sat 26 Apr 2025
The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More He’s THIS
The Longer a Man Is Without A Relationship, The More He’s THIS
Being single allows you to figure out what you want in terms of life goals and you also have the independence to schedule your daily li…
Tue 22 Apr 2025
A Man’s Silence Means THIS | Don’t Chase, Do THIS
A Man’s Silence Means THIS | Don’t Chase, Do THIS
Think back to when you were younger, like in your 20s or 30s. Did you find dating easier back then?
That’s usually the case because younger people g…
Tue 15 Apr 2025
Can My Casual Relationship Become Serious?
Can My Casual Relationship Become Serious?
Many men don’t know how to process their feelings when a treasured relationship ends.
As a result, they might be reluctant to “go all in” and they prefer c…
Sat 12 Apr 2025
5 Feminine Skills That Turn a Man on Instantly
5 Feminine Skills That Turn a Man on Instantly
Socialization, religion, and cultural upbringing all play a part in how we each bond with others. We DO carry those beliefs with us into adulthood – an…
Tue 08 Apr 2025
3 Non Sex Moves That Turn A Man On | Men Crave THIS
3 Non Sex Moves That Turn A Man On | Men Crave THIS
Creating intimacy with your partner does not always involve sex. A healthy sex life is certainly important in long term relationships but not ever…
Sat 05 Apr 2025
How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready For Commitment
How Long Should You Wait Until He’s Ready For Commitment?
As we search for a partner in midlife, we risk wasting a lot of time if we’re not intentional about asking the right questions. Midlife is v…
Tue 01 Apr 2025
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