Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools Podcast provides practical and easy to learn tools and tips so you can have the lifelong marriage that you really want. Each episode offers suggestions that address the various challenges all marriages face. If your marriage is struggling, if you're engaged, or newly married, this podcast will help you learn how to be married and avoid making the mistakes a lot of couples make. If you've been married for a while, it also will help you grow closer to each other and address issues that could be causing you problems.
Another very common mistake couples makes is using "You" instead of "I" statements. This short recording will show you how to change that and have productive and healthy conversations that will stren…
How to resolve conflict in your marriage without losing your temper. All marriages have conflicts and challenges. Do you know how to resolve those conflicts? This recording will give you practical …
Jesus is waiting for you to bring him into your marriage. This recording will give you five ways to do that. As you bring Jesus into your marriage, he will bless it and help you be the best husband o…
Do you feel like giving up on your marriage? Or if you know someone who feels like giving up and ending their marriage, please share this with them.
If you feel like giving up, I understand that t…
Is there something in your life or marriage that needs to change? Perhaps there is something that isn't working or could be better. This recording will give you the Four D's of change that will help …
Why give grace to others? How would you like to be treated when you make a mistake? Would you like others to give grace to you? Would you like them to treat you with judgment and condemnation? Would…
Are you or someone you know getting married? Here are ten questions to ask yourself BEFORE you get married so that you can avoid making one of the biggest mistakes in your life and instead make one o…
Marriage gone cold? Here's how to turn up the H.E.A.T. There are lots of things in life that can cause a marriage that was once hot to go cold. Has your marriage gone cold? Could it be better? Are y…
Are your hobbies damaging your marriage? This recording will give you 5 steps to fix this. Hobbies like playing golf, going shopping, riding dirt bikes, are not bad but they can take over your life a…
Here's a great marriage tip - Accept your spouse's influence. Do you ever feel that you and your spouse are on different pages? You see things differently, have different ideas about what to do to …
Consider your perspective. How you view things determines how you do things. Another way to say that is: Your perspective affects your performance. If your spouse asks you to take out the trash or …
The first step to improving your marriage is to admit you need help.
What do you want your marriage to be like? If you want to get on the same page as your spouse, communicate better, solve problems …
Here's Valentines day tip: demonstrate your love. Do you demonstrate your love for your spouse? Most of us feel love towards the person we are married to. But do you consistently demonstrate that lov…
Do you know how to respond instead of react? This is one of the most common mistakes we all make in relationships, we react instead of respond. When your spouse is upset at you for something and tell…
Here's a relationship suggestion that will remove a common mistake couples make. Instead of asking for what you need or want in your marriage, you assume your spouse will provide that. When they don'…
Have you ever felt hopeless, helpless and powerless when facing a problem? I've felt that way. I found three powerful problem solving questions that helped me solve some problems and deal with the ch…
Are your words helping or hurting your marriage? Here's 20 words to use/not use that will help you have the marriage you really want. The way you talk to your spouse can either hurt or help your marr…
Do you know how to grieve or how to help someone going through grief? There are a lot of people in our community grieving today. If you are grieving the loss of someone you loved or if you love someo…
Do you want to have a great marriage? One way to have that is to regularly ask yourself and then ask you spouse the "connection question." Hi, I'm Kelly, pastor, police chaplain and marriage coach wi…
Do you know how to help someone you love share their feelings? It could be your spouse, your kids or a friend. Everyone needs a safe place to process and share how they feel about things in life. Thi…