We are Diana and Joy - two moms who each supported their children to transition in early elementary school to become their true selves. We are using our voices to reflect our child’s voices, and have navigated everything from family and friends, to health care offices and schools. We are here to share our experience and our learning along this transgender journey, to provide support and guidance, parent-to-parent, and if you find yourself on a similar journey, we want you to know that you are not alone. Beyond parenting, we are also excited about building a community of allies and chosen family who will stand together with us, Transparently Speaking.
Hugh (Small Town Dad) joins us for Episode 45. He and Joy reflect on: 1) their process of reviewing school records, 2) seeking to understand how school board resolutions drive policy change, and 3) …
Diana talks with her friend Kirby, who shares her journey of her child's transition. They discuss transition as well as navigating society's perceptions of gender diversity and neurodiversity.
If you…
Join us for updates as Joy shares the steps she and Hugh are taking to navigate the anticipated Parental Transparency school district policy. Joy and Diana share gratitude for all the “Mr. Rogers” h…
In episode 42, Joy shares the new resolution passed in her school district. She discusses the potential impact on her family. As Joy opens up about her emotional journey through their changing lands…
In Episode 41 we reflect on the universal parental desire to keep our children safe, and both Joy and Diana explore additional considerations for people of trans experience (especially as teens matur…
In this episode, Diana and Joy give updates on what has occurred over the past year.
Episodes referenced in the order mentioned are:
Episode 29: Have Courage Will Travel
Episode 23: A (Testosterone) Pat…
Join us in episode 39 to reflect on the importance of self-awareness and self-care during stressful times. Diana shares a lesson learned about knowing one's limits, and she encourages us to bring aw…
Joy explores the implications of Samantha's desire to play on a competitive volleyball team. She shares what she has learned about USA Volleyball’s gender competition guidelines and how she is naviga…
In episode 37, Diana and Joy explore how their children's gender journey has enhanced their lives, including a reflection of gratitude for the lessons learned.
November 20th is Transgender Day of rem…
In episode 36, Joy and Diana explore their increasing sense of fear, as mid-term elections near. In many places around the US, there are laws being considered that would eliminate access to transiti…
Diana & Joy reflect on their learning and insights from the podcast with Chris Hale. Join us as we share additional insights, including Chris’s perspective on his transition and Clark’s struggle wit…
Diana talks to her good friend, Chris Hale. They share with Diana their journey to understanding their identity as a non-binary person. Chris gives parents advice to consider the things that you say,…
In episode 33, Diana shares a conversation theme she’s hearing from parents - specifically, a concern that youth are identifying as non-binary and transgender to be trendy. Joy and Diana explore the …
Diana shares a new discovery after talking to Clark. She and Joy explore how he got there, and what it means to Diana.
If you’re taking something away from our podcast, we’d appreciate it if you’d su…
From challenging gender norms (e.g., boys don't cry) to exploring gender inclusive language, join Joy and Diana as they explore the opportunity for greater awareness and language shifts to create a b…
Hear how Joy and Diana have navigated health care offices to help them affirm their children. They discuss their experiences before and after a legal name change. They also share some obstacles they …
In episode 29, Diana and Joy explore their preparations for and experiences with transgender travel. Listen as Diana prepares for Clark’s journey to Israel, and as both Diana and Joy reflect on learn…
This is the second of the two-part series in celebration of Father’s Day. Joy and Diana reflect on the essential and supportive role their husbands have played in the lives of their kids, and intervi…
Joy and Diana kick off a two-part series in celebration of Father’s Day; they reflect on the essential and supportive role their husbands have played in the lives of their kids, and interview their h…
Join Diana and Joy in gratitude and celebration - one year of podcasting, and many years of pride celebration ahead! This episode reflects on a few pioneers who have inspired us, and ends with a not…