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There She Is

Welcome to There She Is, an intimate space for and about midlife women diving into all that's possible. I'm Aimee Ames, a spiritual, joy seeking sex and relationship coach.  Let's jump in!

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every 6 days
Average duration
30 minutes
Episodes
21
Years Active
2025
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(#021) Taking Center Stage in Midlife - An Akashic Reading with Jane Sterken

(#021) Taking Center Stage in Midlife - An Akashic Reading with Jane Sterken

This week I invited Akashic reader Jane Sterken to join me for a heart-opening conversation—and a mini live reading. I’ve had two sessions with Jane over the past year, each one a catalyst for growth…

00:45:04  |   Thu 11 Sep 2025
(#020) Why Women Need to Nourish Their Egos

(#020) Why Women Need to Nourish Their Egos

Welcome back to There She Is! After a summer of family milestones, travel, and soaking in presence, I’m kicking off a brand-new FALL season with a solo episode.

In this quickie I revisit a bold comme…

00:23:37  |   Thu 04 Sep 2025
(#019) Midlife Marriage & Keeping the Spark Alive with Melissa Murphy

(#019) Midlife Marriage & Keeping the Spark Alive with Melissa Murphy

In this candid continuation of my conversation with Melissa Murphy, we drop the filters and let you in on the kind of chat we’d have over coffee or on a hike.

We talk about marriage in midlife—how it…

00:31:13  |   Mon 11 Aug 2025
(#018) Living for Ourselves - with Melissa Murphy

(#018) Living for Ourselves - with Melissa Murphy

What happens when we begin to choose what lights us up — whether it fits into our identity as a mom or not? We reconnect with the woman we truly are.

In this heartfelt conversation, Aimee sits down w…

00:50:17  |   Thu 26 Jun 2025
(#017) The Power of Presence - Intimacy After Alcohol

(#017) The Power of Presence - Intimacy After Alcohol

Part 2 of 2 in the “Alcohol & Midlife” mini-series

In Part 2 of my conversation with coach and functional nutritionist Teri Patterson, we explore how our relationship with alcohol impacts our relatio…

00:22:50  |   Thu 19 Jun 2025
(#016) The Courage to Question - What Alcohol Is (and Isn't) Doing for You

(#016) The Courage to Question - What Alcohol Is (and Isn't) Doing for You

In Part 1 of this honest and empowering two-part series, I sit down with my dear friend and coach Teri Patterson to explore how so many women in midlife are courageously re-evaluating their relations…

00:40:28  |   Thu 19 Jun 2025
(#015) Finding Your Feet in the Fog - How to Stay Grounded in Times of Uncertainty

(#015) Finding Your Feet in the Fog - How to Stay Grounded in Times of Uncertainty

In this solo “Quickie with Aimee,” I’m sharing a gentle reminder—for both of us—on how to find calm in the midst of midlife transitions.

My twins just graduated high school, the future feels uncertai…

00:23:09  |   Thu 12 Jun 2025
(#014) Chosen, Bound & Held: What I Learned from My First BDSM Scene (with Daisy Fulgham)

(#014) Chosen, Bound & Held: What I Learned from My First BDSM Scene (with Daisy Fulgham)

In this powerful final episode of our three-part BDSM series, I share a deeply personal experience: the scene I participated in during a professional training—a scene that pushed my edges, met a core…

00:36:26  |   Thu 29 May 2025
(#013) BDSM: The Powerful Potential for Healing with Daisy Fulgham

(#013) BDSM: The Powerful Potential for Healing with Daisy Fulgham

In this second episode of our 3-part series on BDSM, Daisy and I go deeper into the heart of this often-misunderstood world—exploring its powerful potential for healing, agency, and joyful discovery.

00:21:48  |   Thu 22 May 2025
(#012) BDSM 101: Power, Play, and the Unexpected Turn-On with Daisy Fulgham

(#012) BDSM 101: Power, Play, and the Unexpected Turn-On with Daisy Fulgham

What if surrendering control could be the most empowering thing you’ve ever done?

In this juicy first installment of a 3-part series on BDSM, Aimee is joined by fellow Somatica® coach Daisy Fulgham t…

00:22:23  |   Thu 15 May 2025
(#011) My Birthday Self-Devotion Ritual of Love & Gratitude

(#011) My Birthday Self-Devotion Ritual of Love & Gratitude

It’s my birthday and There She Is is 2 months old! I have appreciation gifts for YOU!

In this special birthday episode of There She Is, I’m celebrating by sharing one of my most cherished rituals: a …

00:23:57  |   Thu 08 May 2025
(#010)  A Compassionate Check-In: Are You Having the Sex You Want?

(#010) A Compassionate Check-In: Are You Having the Sex You Want?

If you’re feeling disconnected from your sex life in midlife, you’re not alone.

Last week I shared some reasons why I am having the best sex of my life, and this episode is an opportunity for you…

00:22:24  |   Thu 01 May 2025
(#009) 4 Reasons Why I'm Having the Best Sex of My Life

(#009) 4 Reasons Why I'm Having the Best Sex of My Life

Welcome to our first "Quickie with Aimee" - a solo episode in 20 minutes or less. I'm getting even more vulnerable in this one and diving into a topic I promised this podcast would explore more fully…

00:18:26  |   Thu 24 Apr 2025
(#008) The Love of Friendship — A Midlife Relationship That Changes Everything with Marni Ilyse

(#008) The Love of Friendship — A Midlife Relationship That Changes Everything with Marni Ilyse

In this soul-nourishing episode, I’m joined by one of my dearest friends and chosen family, Marni Ilyse Rivera. We explore the power of deep friendship in midlife — the kind that sees you, supports…

00:44:14  |   Thu 17 Apr 2025
(#007) The Midlife Sleep-Over with Kelly Day O'Brien

(#007) The Midlife Sleep-Over with Kelly Day O'Brien

In this episode, Kelly Day O’Brien and I continue our conversation, this time with sleep in midlife as the focus. As a mindfulness and sleep coach, Kelly has some surprising and helpful insights an…

00:35:51  |   Thu 10 Apr 2025
(#006) Rewriting the Rules of Accountability with Kelly Day O’Brien

(#006) Rewriting the Rules of Accountability with Kelly Day O’Brien

In this episode of There She Is, I’m joined by my accountability coach, Kelly, for an honest and empowering conversation about what it really means to hold yourself accountable—especially in midlif…

00:24:38  |   Thu 03 Apr 2025
(#005) From Silence to Spotlight: The Menopause Monologues

(#005) From Silence to Spotlight: The Menopause Monologues

In this rich and revealing episode of There She Is, Aimee is joined by three radiant women—Carrie Vanhouten, Lisa Ann Morrison, and Lulu Braunstein—who are bringing light, hot flashes, and heart to t…

00:45:05  |   Thu 27 Mar 2025
(#004) The Death & Rebirth of Self: Finding Authenticity Through Transformation with Sarah Knapik

(#004) The Death & Rebirth of Self: Finding Authenticity Through Transformation with Sarah Knapik

In my very first interview on There She Is, I share an intimate and inspiring conversation with Sarah Knapik, a mother, spiritual coach, and Bufo priestess stewarding Oakland’s first 5-MeO-DMT church…

00:46:35  |   Thu 20 Mar 2025
(#003) Breaking the Cycle: Why Your Pleasure Matters

(#003) Breaking the Cycle: Why Your Pleasure Matters

What if the beliefs you’ve carried about love, worthiness, and intimacy aren’t actually yours? In this episode, we dive deep into the ways childhood conditioning shapes our sense of self — and how we…

00:15:24  |   Thu 13 Mar 2025
(#002) Reclaiming Pleasure, Power, and Boundaries

(#002) Reclaiming Pleasure, Power, and Boundaries

What if the stories you’ve been told — and the ones you’ve told yourself—aren’t true? In this episode, we dive deep into the process of unlearning the limiting beliefs that have kept us small, discon…

00:25:04  |   Sat 08 Mar 2025
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