The Unmentionables

What's it like for a straight, attractive white guy in the dating pool when he's HIV positive? Maeve and Jeremy talk to Gustavo about his life and dating experiences. 

What is emotional labor anyway? And why do we keep seeing the internet use that term when they mean "mental load"?

Carrying more than one's fair share of the mental load is the silent killer of otherwise good relationships. Often you feel overwhelmed and like something is out of whack but you just can't quite put…

Maeve and Jeremy give you some insight into just what an Incel is and why they feel so aggrieved that they believe an institutionalized program of state sponsored rape is the solution to their proble…

A brief run down of the lexicon - or as Jeremy insists, Sexicon - of the language we use to talk about identity, gender and lifestyles. 

Maddie is making the transition to being the woman she has always known she is. Grab your tissues, you'll be crying by end (Maeve and Jeremy were too). Her story is one of strength through adversity …

Continuing from last week, Maeve and Jeremy try to help listeners answer the question "I feel like I'm doing everything right, why am I still single?" This week, Jeremy gives his answer that maybe yo…

Jeremy and Maeve almost called this one "SexLand Podcast - True Crime Edition" because they walk you through two cases where people showed up for an internet date and became victims of crime. Its not…

Maeve and Jeremy have a very down-to-earth conversation with Mistress Elliot, a kink-aware therapist, professional dominatrix and proprietress of a dungeon. We take some listener questions and find o…

Ahh... another trending dating/relationship word. Does this one have anything of value to offer us? Maybe, sometimes. Maeve and Jeremy don't totally agree.

We all feel like we just can't get this dating thing right sometimes. How are you presenting yourself and how are you being perceived? You may be doing things that are turning dates off and you don't…

Ahh Valentine's Day. Love it or hate it, you can't avoid the hoopla every year. Do you enjoy flowers, candy and cards? Would you rather celebrate SAD (Single Awareness Day)? Maeve and Jeremy share th…

Do you want to listen to the one about pornography? Heck yeah you do! Maeve and Jeremy talk a little about the history of porn, benefits, dangers and the insights of statistics provided by the intern…

Jeremy and Maeve talk to Rose and Star, two college freshmen to hear what dating is like for young people today. Some of it never changes but so much is so different!

All technology is constantly changing and online dating apps are no exception. Jeremy and Maeve give you updates you need to know.