The Unified Team
How do we join with others to achieve, belong and connect more with less friction?
Humans aren't the strongest or the fastest. Our superpower is working together. We are a social creature.
We need to belong and be valued within our tribe.
But we hit 3 main friction points in teams:
1. We lack trust because of a lack of integrity, suspicion and past resentments.
2. We don't communicate well because of fear, insecurity and feeling unsafe.
3. We have divided goals because of politics, power struggles and personality conflicts.
A team is two or more people joined to achieve the same goal. It can be a marriage. Or a multinational organisation.
The principles still apply
Every team needs communication, resources and energy to flow to where we need it when we need it.
The barrier is friction.
How do we reduce friction and get teams to flow?
That is the question we address in The Unified Team Podcast.
- Update frequency
- every 5 days
- Average duration
- 85 minutes
- Episodes
- 145
- Years Active
- 2019 - 2025
Dating Dilemmas
Dating is full of dilemmas. Who pays? Should you kiss? Should you sleep with someone on the first date?
In this episode we discussed many and talked about the dynamics that cause dilemmas.
Chemistry and Compatibility
Chemistry and compatibility are elusive topics. In this episode we dug in to try to understand more.
The Gottman’s Shared House Relationship Model
In this episode our intrepid Rebels were challenged to work in teams and build a model of how to make a relationship work.
After this, we looked at the Gottman's Shared House relationship model.
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The Science of Attraction
In this podcast we talked about what attracted us to people.
What happened to attraction over the span of a relationship and what killed it or kept it alive.
We answered whether it can be re-ignited an…
The Four Agreements Book Review Discussion
The Four Agreements is a book written by Don Miguel Ruiz. In this episode we talked about the lessons we can take from it and how relevant it has been in our lives.
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The Three Keys To Successful Relationships: Part Three
This episode is the last of our three keys to successful relationships.
In part one of this three part series, we talked about connection being how we created our experience and that relationships wer…
The Three Keys To Successful Relationships: Part Two
There are three keys to successful relationships. Last week we discussed week 1, which was connection. This week we discuss the mechanism for connection.
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Welcome to honest talk about heartbr…
The Three Keys To Successful Relationships: Part One
When you analyse a problem, you'll find that most of the problem is in a lack of clarity and not defining the issue.
I believe one of the most misunderstood aspects of relationships are that we see re…
The Hill I’m Willing To Die On
Relationships often descend into pointless bickering.
The hill you'll die on is a way to clarify what's worth fighting for and what is a pointless argument.
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Welcome to honest talk abo…
The Artisanal Relationship
In this episode we talked about creating an Artisanal Relationship. That is a relationship that is perfectly designed for you and your partner.
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Welcome to The Thing Free Rebellion. Th…
The Path To Mastery
The only certain path to success is the path of mastery.
We can't master everything, but there are certain things that we can never be happy without achieving. In this episode, we looked at what those…
The Think Free Rebellion
The Think Free Rebellion is a personal choice. It is the choice to make yourself the authority and author of your life.
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Today is going to be a little bit different because it's not go…
How To Plan For The Relationship You Want in 2021!
In this episode as we draw 2020 to a close we looked at what we need to do to build a great relationship even if we don't already have a Partner.
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So we accept that if you a relationsh…
Why We Love? Why We Stray?
Helen Fisher has the broadest study of relationships. She is an Anthropologist and Biologist who has studied over 80 different cultures looking for the universals of relationships. This is a discussi…
The Five Levels of Relationship Operating System
Like computers have operating systems so do we. In this episode I tried to explain how our O/S affects our relationship.
This discussion is based on the following blog post;
https://makerelationshipssi…
The 5 Relationship Commitments
Commitment sounds like effort. It sounds boring and dull.
Yet total commitment is easier than partial commitment.
We're always committed. But what we commit to determines the level of quality of our re…
The Relationship Landscape
If, as we have said previously, relationships are a quest, then what is the landscape we have to journey through?
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Welcome to honest talk about heartbreak, dating and relationships, re…
Wired For Dating: A Summary of Stan Tatkin's Book
In this episode we discussed Stan Tatkin's book Wired For Dating and how that could help us in dating.
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So the topic tonight is we're going to talk about STEM Takins award for dating.…
The Lover’s Journey
Joseph Campbell popularised The Hero's Journey. Here we applied it to the journey of finding lasting love.
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Right. So I think we're all back shall we put if you want to put in the chat and an…
The Enchantment Dating Strategy
In this Meetup we discussed the Enchantment Dating Strategy. As usual we veered through a wide range of topics and brought a range of views and perspectives to the debate.
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So our top…