The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

What is emotional infidelity? Emotional infidelity refers to a situation where one spouse becomes emotionally involved with someone or something outside of the relationship in a way that undermines t…

We don't get to travel as much as we would like to, but the past couples of years we have had the opportunity to travel to a couple pretty amazing places that exceeded our expectations, and were very…

Getting along with your in-laws is an essential part of building a healthy and happy marriage. When things aren't going well with the in-laws, it works it's way into you marriage and can cause seriou…

We have been watching a really fun show called "Bahama's Life." The show is about couples looking for their dream property or retirement home in the Bahamas, and they look at several different proper…

We have been working on the Emotional Intimacy Workbook for about 6 months and finally got it completed! This workbook covers so many topics that can help couples connect on a much deeper level, and …

We all know marriage can be hard at times, but have you ever considered what makes it hard through those times? Sure, we can have financial difficulties, health issues, and many other things that can…

You hear us talk about "Ultimate Intimacy" all the time! We even branded our company that. But what exactly is ultimate intimacy, and how can you obtain it in your relationship?

In this episode Nick a…

Social Media is destroying peoples marriages, and on average, it can be more addictive to women than to men.  Although porn and social media are quite different, they both are very addictive and can …

So often in marriage it is the higher desire spouse that is ALWAYS initiating sex with the lower desire spouse. However, it is so important for the lower desire spouse to also initiate sex in the mar…

We were sitting in the marriage retreat talking about sexual and emotional needs in marriage and a husband asked, "How do I emotionally connect with my wife? What does that even mean?"

We all looked a…

In this episode, Nick and Amy talk about the typical stereotypes of men and women when it comes to sexual intimacy and emotional intimacy differences.  We know that not all couples fall into the typi…

We just finished the Intimacy And Adventure Retreat we hosted with Married For A Purpose and had an incredible experience that was life changing for the couples (including us) that attended the retre…

There have been many polls done on this subject and it is interesting that for most men, they value being respected more than they value being loved. 

This shows how important respect is in marriage a…

The other day we were laying in bed (after making love) and talking and laughing at all the ways women can loose focus when making love. Amy was joking that she was close! Then lost it. Then close ag…

Couples that have happy and successful marriages do a very good job at managing their time and priorities in their relationship. They prioritize the important things and put the less important things…

So many couples keep score in their marriage trying to keep things fair, or following the 50/50 marriage model, and wonder why it only makes things worse. When you keep score, you then become competi…

A transaction is an exchange of goods or services, and something that is typically a win win for both parties involved. For example, we buy groceries and our family gets the food we need to survive, …

Being a parent is amazing and so rewarding, and no parents would trade it for anything. But unfortunately for many couples, their marriages and intimacy often take a back seat to the kids, and becaus…

Are there one or two very little things impacting so many other areas of your marriage in a negative way? What if you were just a couple little things away from having a wonderful relationship?

In thi…

As there are so MANY distractions in life, stresses and other things that cause low libido or "lack of drive" with sexual intimacy, there are ALOT of couples that struggle with their sexual wellness/…