The Revolutionary Marriage Podcast

Have you noticed how anxious people have been lately? How can you tell someone is anxious? Because anxiety is often expressed with angry words. Learn 2 simple strategies to master anxiety. No wonder …

Perhaps the first to recognize the inherent value of women 2000 years ago, Christianity is still sometimes accused of putting women in subservient roles and promoting toxic masculinity. Unfortunately…

Where did we get the idea that masculinity is toxic? Why does this belief persist? I've been teaching women about masculinity for a couple of decades now, and thanks to two factors, the battle betwee…

Every man has something to hide. What he won't tell you, Dr. Debi will. As a couple's psychologist, I worked with men and their wives for more than two decades. Yes, I studied men academically, but t…

Seriously, can a woman be trusted with a man's heart? Every man experiences this phenomenon, but few women grasp what happens to a man the closer he gets to a woman. The experience of "male relationa…

When a man does something a woman doesn’t understand, she comes to a the conclusion that men don’t think deeply about anything, they don’t have feelings, and they do dumb stuff ... both frequently an…

Why does he disappear into the man cave? He's silent and emotionally unavailable. Is it stonewalling? An understanding of men includes a healthy respect for the Man Cave. But as women we typically ha…

How can a woman change a man? More specifically, how can she help her husband become a better man? Women want to see their husbands grow, but there is a trick to the process if you want to change a m…

Do you wonder about your marriage and mental health issues your mate may have? Perhaps your mate's mental health is what brought you to seek marriage counseling. When seeking marriage help, you must …

Do you know the secrets to decoding your wife? Most men don't, which is totally understandable. Your wife is not at all like you ... way beyond your physical differences. Because your wife has a very…

In the Beginning of the Story, man was created to be a hero. Some men have failed in their mission. But many more are unsung heroes ... the good guys who take their responsibilities seriously ... and…

Your husband is late again. He finally walks in the door. But he’s not really there. You’re trying to get dinner on. And the kids are fighting. Again. Your husband doesn’t even notice. Much less pitc…

Your confidence has taken a few hits. Maybe a lot of hits. You assigned meaning to the things that happened. The more hurt you are, the more likely you are to believe the worst and prepare for the wo…

Why focus on the Heroine's Journey here? After more than two decades working in the field of Psychology, I'm still supremely passionate about helping couples and single adults discover more effective…

Are you looking for professional Christian counseling? Discover how two therapists approach their work and some of the techniques they use. Listen in as Dr. Debi discusses professional treatment mode…

What do you believe about God? Your beliefs about Him affect your beliefs about your marriage, too. I believe He created you both, male and female, to partner with and enjoy one another. Therefore, H…

Men and women communicate differently. Consequently, they often have difficulty understanding what the other person is trying to communicate. Men are more sensitive than women realize. Plus, words ha…

Most men have trouble understanding women. No wonder their wives don’t follow their lead. Not all women want to run the show … or their husbands! Yes, there are still women who want to follow their h…