Hey, it's Jack and Cathy, and welcome to our Shit Show. We give you a front-row seat to the roller coaster of love. Marriage. Divorce. Starting again. Finding each other when it seemed impossible. Ever wonder what happens after the dating frenzy? We spill the beans on navigating relationships - the good, the bad, and the hilarious. Join us for real talk, anecdotes, and lessons on keeping the flame alive in the second act. It's not just a podcast; it's a guide to making love last. Subscribe for a laugh and some practical tips on thriving in the messy, beautiful world of lasting love.
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Both of us believe mediation is a better method for divorce having used such an approach for our respective divorces. Such an approach is not for everyone.
Please meet Susan Hanse…
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Jack and Cathy take a break from deep conversations and go all light and breezy (a place Jack feels most comfortable, btw).
Along the way, the two discuss changing Jack's last na…
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A good friend of Cathy's shared that she and her husband occasionally meet with a marriage counselor as a way to continue to connect and get better at their relationship, even when…
In this episode … We spent February and March traveling around much of the south watching Sam and his Iowa Hawkeyes play baseball. Along the way we had a stop in Austin, TX, where we caught up wit…
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During opening weekend of the Iowa University Baseball season, we took a trip to see Jack's youngest, Sam, play in Port Charlotte, FL.
Sam asked us to bring our podcast gear …
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During opening weekend of the Iowa University Baseball season, we took a trip to see Jack's youngest, Sam, play in Port Charlotte, FL.
Sam asked us to bring our podcast gear …
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In January, we took a day-trip to Ripon, WI, and were instantly smitten.
It's a gorgeous town about an hour and a half Northwest of Milwaukee, with amazing food, wonderful shops …
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We get to experience Jack's true colors when he gets sick. And, well, it's a bit over the top.
While it was a flu - and one that knocked him out for a few days - Jack can admit t…
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Erin is one of our most loyal Shit Show Fans. Has been following us on Instagram and listening to the Shit Show the moment we recorded our first podcast.
We have been dying to …
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We meet with new friend, Terri Luna, to discuss her new podcast, The Single Life; 50 and Beyond.
There was a ton to share particularly on the dating front. We all know it's never…
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We celebrate the start of our second season, reminiscing for a bit on how far we've come both as a couple and with this podcast.
It's been an interesting journey creating this p…
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We celebrate a full year of podcasting by answering your questions.
Who woulda thunk we'd actually produce 30 Episodes.
From conversations about our dating lives to challenges w…
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We spent one Saturday morning watching RomComs on the advice of @clairenotdanes (Cathy stumbled into her on TikTok).
A few hours later, we traveled to the Pabst Mansion (enjoyed …
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After watching a TikTok where Abby Wambach and Glennon Doyle discuss pet peeves and whether or not to share towels, we got inspired.
No relationship is perfect and no two peo…
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Cathy wants to create 1-year, 3-year and 10-year plans. Jack can't see past this weekend.
We find a way to talk through planning our future and leaving space for change or whatev…
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We count our time together in the way new parents talk about the age of their infants. We are in our 16th month.
During this time we've taken on quite a bit - if you've listened…
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Jack is hitting a wall. The house remodel is becoming overwhelming and it having its affect on their relationship. It seems - at least to Jack - that every moment is spent dedicat…
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We finally get back on track with our podcasts after a much-needed break for each other (and all the projects in our lives).
So we dive in and talk about what we believe it mean…
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One Sunday afternoon, after dodging rain drops at the Elkhorn Flea Market, we thought the best way to spend the rest of the day was at a bar with friend (and "Shit Show" fan), Eri…