The Circle: The Queer Men's Embodiment Podcast
Welcome to The Circle, an on-going conversation about men’s work, men's embodiment practices, and personal growth from the perspective of two queer men. Hosted by Eric Bomyea and men’s embodiment coach, Tim Bish, together, we investigate the purpose of men’s work, how queer men can participate, what value they might receive, and the unique value they add in the pursuit of growth for all. We also explore the challenges, dynamics, and transformative practices that empower men to show up authentically in the world.
Each episode goes all in on themes like masculine and feminine energies, intuition, purpose, integrity, and brotherhood. We offer in-depth discussions on breaking through societal expectations, healing personal wounds, and developing a sense of presence. Drawing from the teachings of Amir Khalighi, David Deida, John Wineland, and our own experiences, we guide listeners through the journey of leading a conscious, integrated, and impactful life.
Join us as we explore what it means to show up powerfully as queer men, navigate the dynamics of men’s spaces, and offer insights that benefit all men—gay, straight, or otherwise. Whether you're redefining your relationship masculinity, connecting with your intuition, or pushing past your edges, The Circle is your space for growth, connection, and transformation.
- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 55 minutes
- Episodes
- 49
- Years Active
- 2024 - 2025
Moving from Physical to Embodied Intimacy with Tom Bruett
Queer therapist Tom Bruett joins us to explore what it means to move from connection that’s just physical to intimacy that’s truly embodied. We unpack how early messages around fear, secrecy, and per…
When Care Doesn’t Land: Recognizing Love Even When We Don't See It
Why is it that sometimes, even when care is offered freely, it doesn’t land? In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim unpack the messy, beautiful complexity of giving and receiving care.
From famil…
Intimacy Without Sex: A Queer Conversation on Asexuality With Hannah O'Rourke
In this episode of The Circle, we explore asexuality and the many ways intimacy can thrive outside of sexual expression. Eric and Tim are joined by Hannah O’Rourke—a yoga teacher and early childhood …
Softening the Story: Forgiveness, Resentment, and Relational Repair
In this episode of The Circle, we explore forgiveness not as a final destination, but as a living, breathing process. From unspoken resentments to painful memories of being let down, Eric and Tim sha…
Parts Work with Tim Neal: Meeting Your Inner Critic and Finding the Centered Self
In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim are joined by Tim Neal, a men’s transformation coach and embodiment facilitator, to explore the power of parts work. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (…
Belonging vs. Fitting In: How to Stop Abandoning Yourself to Be Liked
What’s the difference between truly belonging and just fitting in? In this raw and resonant episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim unpack the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we abandon ourselves in orde…
The Dominant Way to Avoid Burnout: Ms. Elle X on Rest and Radical Self-Advocacy
What if rest was the most dominant thing you could do?
In this episode of the Circle, trauma-informed BDSM educator, licensed life coach, and former Dominatrix Ms. Elle X joins us to explore the hidde…
Urgency Without the Rush: Moving Quickly with Presence and Purpose | Men’s Work Podcast
Urgency doesn’t have to mean rushing. In this episode of The Circle, Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish explore urgency and embodiment, unpacking how to move quickly with purposeful action instead of react…
Belonging Without the Buzz: Queer Sobriety & Connection
What does it mean to feel free, connected, and authentic in queer spaces—without the crutch of alcohol or drugs?
In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim are joined by Dave Becker, founder of Sobe…
Doing vs. Being: When Growth Becomes Another Grind
In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how personal growth and spiritual practice can quietly slip into another form of hustle. Why do we sometimes treat healing like a to-do list? What …
The Father Wound Part 2 w/ Amir Khalighi: Judgment, the Lone Wolf Trap, and Re-Fathering Yourself
In Part 2 of our conversation with Amir Khalighi, we move from uncovering the father wound to exploring what it takes to heal it. Why are so many men with this wound quick to judge—others, themselves…
Healing the Father Wound Part 1: Reclaiming Power, Presence, and Trust with Amir Khalighi
In this special two part episode of The Circle, we’re joined by our mentor and teacher Amir Khalighi—founder of Embodied Masculine—for a deep conversation about the father wound, masculine lineage, a…
Building Trust: How Consistency, Embodiment, and Surrender Shape Self-Trust and Relationships
In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim go all in on the many dimensions of trust—from how we cultivate trust within ourselves to how we navigate the messy terrain of trusting others, ins…
Circles of Care: Queer Intimacy, Radical Fairies & Healing Through the AIDS Epidemic
In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we’re joined by Jonathan Scott—also known as Wild Blue Yonder and Esther the Village Mermaid—for a deeply moving conversation about queer resilience, the Radica…
Taking It All In: The Art of Receiving Without Shame or Obligation
Why is it so hard to simply take it in—a compliment, a gift, a moment of care, or even a deep breath? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the cultural, emotional, and personal …
The Shaman’s Mind: Jonathan Hammond on Queer Wisdom, Nature’s Intelligence, and the Power to Co-Create Reality
In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim sit down with Jonathan Hammond—author, spiritual teacher, and trained shamanic practitioner—to explore how earth-based spirituality and Hawaiian wisdom can…
Remembering to Pretend: Why Imagination Might Be the Most Important Grown-Up Thing You’ve Forgotten
In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim explore the transformative power of imagination—not as a childhood relic, but as a radical tool for adult healing, creative expression, emotional i…
Rope and Radical Communication: Mr. R on Trust, Consent, and Kink
Curious about kink—but unsure where to start? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim are joined by Mr. R, a rope rigger, dominant, and BDSM educator, to explore how consent, communicatio…
Unpacking the Prickle: Irritation, Annoyance, and the Needs Beneath the Noise
Ever found yourself snapping in traffic or spiraling over something small? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the deeper truth behind irritation and annoyance—and how these em…
Seeing Ourselves in Others: Gregory Ganymedes on The Power of Projection in Dreams and Life
Projection is a fundamental yet often unnoticed aspect of human experience. We see in others what we cannot yet recognize in ourselves, whether in moments of conflict, admiration, or even within the …