Rori Raye Feminine Energy Radio

If you find yourself taking the responsibility for the relationship and the apologeticness of the conflicts that happen all the time… if you’re always trying to solve stuff, excusing him for bad beha…

You already have a script inside you — from your parents, your school, your society, your religion.

But are you actually living your life on your playbook or somebody else’s?

Many women wake up in midl…

If you ever find yourself feeling invisible in a room with your man and his friends, pause and ask: Why am I here?

If this is an everyday pattern, that’s a red flag.

But if he’s otherwise a great guy…

If you are pulling away from him because he’s too handsome or you’re pulling away because he’s not handsome enough, ask yourself, “Okay, this is a free therapy session with a man who showed up. Let’s…

Why do we care what he thinks if you pay or you don’t pay? 

Why are you making a big deal out of it? … This is the old thing about wanting him to like us.

 I’m gonna do this so he’ll like me. 

This is n…

Vulnerability is scary, intimacy is scary—no matter how much we say we want it.
But today, how we shift our words to be soft, to be inviting, to be siren-y, like the Siren concept of creating a heali…

A man who can’t meet you emotionally… can’t. He just can’t.

But he still may be a good partner. Perhaps.

Everywhere I go—and I’ve talked about this before—I meet women who’ve divorced men, left men, or…

Once you are vulnerable and somebody shuts you down because they don’t know what to do with it, you’re going to have double reactions: “Oh, I shouldn’t have done that.”

That is a clue that, number one…

Men will tell you, "Well, how can I trust you if you’re seeing other men?" It's all just just not true.

Your grandmothers had dance cards. 

This is something new that men have concocted.

Exclusivity an…

What we do in our entire lives is we concoct this mental strategy, we have put together a pattern of behavior that we were taught to protect ourselves.

Our parents taught us that, society taught us th…

So often, we acquiesce.

Not because we’re weak, but because it’s easier.

Easier to go along with his mood, his energy, his comfort zone—than to sit with what’s actually alive inside of us.

If I just s…

So let's say out of nowhere, he's defensive.

Out of nowhere, he's just like pissed. He's cranky, right?

And he says something and you immediately feel, I want to get back on track.

I want to be loved.

…

You’re the Siren!

You’re the beacon.

He’s always in search of his emotional center, but he cannot find it unless you are shining.

And you can’t do that from your head!

You have to drop back into your fe…

If this keeps happening over and over again — yes, he may be insensitive. But ask yourself: Did I say anything?

Did I share how I felt? Or did I just get angry, shut down, and silently file it away a…

There’s a reason we love the villainesses in movies!

There’s a part of you that doesn’t want to be the princess — she wants to be the witch.

The one who takes up space.

The one who owns her power, eve…

Some men cry on the first date.

They talk endlessly about their exes. It’s a turnoff. And yet — here they are, showing up in your dating life again and again.

They don’t show up for every woman. But t…

Charlotte was one of the beautiful, high-achieving women in Sex and the City.

She had everything on the outside — great friends, a fabulous lifestyle, success. And yet… she just couldn’t find love th…

The Question: “I’m still having a hard time navigating the sex part with Rori’s advice to touch him and caress him — but it’s hard to do that when we really don’t spend time together.”

I hear from wom…

This is a brilliant question — not for the reason you asked it.

Should a man keep paying even if you’re well into the relationship?
Ask him: “I notice that we’re sort of in a relationship here. Are we…