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Relationships Made Easy

The research says the key to a happy life is happy relationships. But how exactly do you make your relationships better? That’s what this show is all about.

 

I’m Dr. Abby Medcalf, psychologist, best-selling author, TEDx speaker, and (according to my kids) the bossy Jewish mom you didn’t know you needed. With decades of experience and millions of listeners in over 180 countries, I give you the no-fluff, research-backed strategies to make all your relationships better: with your partner, your family, your friends, and (most importantly) yourself.

 

Every week on the Relationships Made Easy podcast, I mix straight talk, humor, and science to help you communicate effectively, set healthy boundaries, and stop second-guessing yourself. Because great relationships aren’t built in a day. Great relationships are built daily.


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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
44 minutes
Episodes
357
Years Active
2018 - 2025
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329. The Science of Friendship: How to Build, Keep, and Let Go of Friends as an Adult

329. The Science of Friendship: How to Build, Keep, and Let Go of Friends as an Adult

Friendship is one of the most essential yet often overlooked aspects of our well-being. Not only does the research show that friendships keep us mentally healthy, but studies also show they keep us p…

00:53:46  |   Mon 07 Apr 2025
328. Stop Feeling Overwhelmed: The Four Steps to Set Healthy Boundaries with Family

328. Stop Feeling Overwhelmed: The Four Steps to Set Healthy Boundaries with Family

Families can be wonderful and supportive, but they can also be experts at overstepping, guilt-tripping, and ignoring personal space, like a TSA agent who really loves their job. If you've ever strugg…

00:56:12  |   Mon 31 Mar 2025
327. Fear of Rejection vs. Fear of Abandonment: How to Tell the Difference and Heal Both

327. Fear of Rejection vs. Fear of Abandonment: How to Tell the Difference and Heal Both

Fear of rejection and fear of abandonment are certainly similar, but they hold some important differences. In fact, what you do to heal your fear of rejection, is not necessarily what you do to heal …

00:51:00  |   Mon 24 Mar 2025
326. What Narcissists Do When Backed into a Corner: Lessons from Celebrities Who Lost Control

326. What Narcissists Do When Backed into a Corner: Lessons from Celebrities Who Lost Control

When narcissistic, controlling people feel backed into a corner, meaning they’re exposed, challenged, or losing control, they tend to react with a range of defensive, aggressive, or manipulative beha…

00:36:33  |   Mon 17 Mar 2025
325. Seven Powerful Techniques to Breathe Yourself to Calm

325. Seven Powerful Techniques to Breathe Yourself to Calm

It’s something you do about 20,000 times a day: breathing. But don’t be fooled by its simplicity. Breathing isn’t just about keeping you alive; it’s a powerful tool that influences your emotions, tho…

00:47:26  |   Mon 10 Mar 2025
324. Emotional Triggers: Understanding Your Brain and How to Keep It in Check

324. Emotional Triggers: Understanding Your Brain and How to Keep It in Check

Ever found yourself snapping at your partner because they left the toilet seat up (again), only to realize later that your reaction was a tad... over the top? Or maybe you’ve just quit your job becau…

01:04:15  |   Tue 04 Mar 2025
323. Reclaiming Yourself: A Step-by-Step Guide to Self-Healing and Reparenting Yourself

323. Reclaiming Yourself: A Step-by-Step Guide to Self-Healing and Reparenting Yourself

If you've ever felt like something was missing in your emotional development, struggled with self-worth, or found yourself repeating unhealthy patterns in relationships, you might need reparenting. I…

00:50:12  |   Tue 25 Feb 2025
322. How to Move Past the Dysfunction or Trauma of Unhealthy Parenting

322. How to Move Past the Dysfunction or Trauma of Unhealthy Parenting

Growing up in a dysfunctional or traumatic home can shape every part of your life: your sense of self, your relationships, your ability to trust, and even how you handle stress. If you’ve ever wonder…

01:09:28  |   Tue 18 Feb 2025
321 Conscious Uncoupling: Eight Steps to Separate Peacefully

321 Conscious Uncoupling: Eight Steps to Separate Peacefully

Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin made conscious uncoupling famous in 2014. But where does it stand a decade later? When couples decide to part ways, the process can feel overwhelming and painful. But…

01:06:22  |   Tue 11 Feb 2025
320. How to Beat Stress and Overwhelm: 8 Research-Backed Tips for a Calmer Life

320. How to Beat Stress and Overwhelm: 8 Research-Backed Tips for a Calmer Life

Let’s be real: life can feel like a never-ending hamster wheel. Between work, family, relationships, and that ever-growing to-do list, it’s easy to feel like you’re drowning in a sea of responsibilit…

01:03:50  |   Tue 04 Feb 2025
319. How to Make Long-Distance (and Live-In) Relationships Work: Proven Tips for Building Connection and Trust

319. How to Make Long-Distance (and Live-In) Relationships Work: Proven Tips for Building Connection and Trust

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Long-distance relationships (LDRs) are more prevalent than ever. With the rise of remote work, study abroad programs, and me…

00:48:17  |   Tue 28 Jan 2025
318. Why Body Image and Acceptance Can Be Tough: Five Steps to Make Peace with Your Body

318. Why Body Image and Acceptance Can Be Tough: Five Steps to Make Peace with Your Body

If you’ve ever caught yourself poking at your belly or scrutinizing your thighs in the mirror, you’re not alone. Body image is something most of us grapple with, especially in a world obsessed with a…

00:59:47  |   Tue 21 Jan 2025
317. Emotional Healing Techniques: Mastering Mindfulness and Self-Acceptance/Compassion

317. Emotional Healing Techniques: Mastering Mindfulness and Self-Acceptance/Compassion

If you want to heal emotionally, you have to focus on what you’re doing now, not what happened in the past. It’s, of course, important to speak about your past and get clear on some of your why, but …

01:07:39  |   Tue 14 Jan 2025
316. How to Heal Yourself Emotionally: Mastering Self-Regulation for a Happier Life

316. How to Heal Yourself Emotionally: Mastering Self-Regulation for a Happier Life

You’ve talked about your past and likely know a lot of the reasons why you’ve got issues (I say with love). The problem is that even though you might know the why (or think you do), you don’t feel be…

00:59:42  |   Tue 07 Jan 2025
315. The Big Mistake You Make When Setting Goals (and How to Actually Achieve Your Goals This Year)

315. The Big Mistake You Make When Setting Goals (and How to Actually Achieve Your Goals This Year)

Let’s face it: setting goals is easy, but sticking to them? That’s a whole different story. How many times have you started the year determined to crush your goals, only to lose steam a few weeks lat…

00:44:41  |   Tue 17 Dec 2024
314. What to Do When They Need Constant Reassurance and Validation

314. What to Do When They Need Constant Reassurance and Validation

We’ve all had that person in our lives who constantly needs reassurance. Whether it’s your partner asking, “Do you really love me?” for the tenth time this week, your mom needing praise every time sh…

00:52:32  |   Tue 10 Dec 2024
313. Entitlement in Relationships: How to Recognize It and Break the Cycle

313. Entitlement in Relationships: How to Recognize It and Break the Cycle

Entitlement. It’s a word we toss around casually, usually about other people. (“Did you see how she cut the line? The entitlement!”) But here’s the thing: entitlement is sneakier than we think. It ca…

01:19:29  |   Tue 03 Dec 2024
312. The Five Steps to Resolving Conflict in Any Relationship

312. The Five Steps to Resolving Conflict in Any Relationship

Conflicts in any relationship are inevitable. Whether it's with a partner, friend, family member, or colleague, disagreements are going to happen as we all have different needs, perspectives, and bou…

00:48:37  |   Tue 26 Nov 2024
311. Overcoming Self-Doubt: Five Steps to Confident Decision-Making

311. Overcoming Self-Doubt: Five Steps to Confident Decision-Making

Self-doubt is that relentless voice in your head that questions your choices, your worth, and your abilities. It can make even the most straightforward decisions feel overwhelming. But here’s the goo…

00:43:10  |   Tue 19 Nov 2024
310. Radical Acceptance: 5 Steps to Embrace Reality for Lasting Peace

310. Radical Acceptance: 5 Steps to Embrace Reality for Lasting Peace

Radical acceptance is about fully acknowledging and accepting reality as it is, especially when it’s something we don’t like or want to change. This approach, popularized by Dr. Marsha Linehan as par…

00:34:03  |   Tue 12 Nov 2024
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