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The final part of the Love Languages miniseries, brought to you from my mum's spare room, in the grand tradition of Christmas.

Whether it's buying my way into relationships, compensating for my compan…

The next episode in the Love Languages miniseries looks at Quality Time: If you care about people, spend time with them. (There's a bit more to it than that but, admittedly, not much.)

Also: Why it's …

Part 3 of the Love Languages miniseries looks at Words of Affirmation: How to craft a compliment, how to make it all about them, and how to take (a compliment) like a pro. 

Also, Jurassic World, Ameri…

Good cuddles don't have to mean adequate diddling.

Physically touching another human is extremely good for your mental health. It's got something to do with sea creatures. Possibly.

Thoughts on non-se…

Love languages: What are they? How do we use them? Can I have some cake? If I do it like this, will you be finished before the next episode starts?

These and other questions will be answered in the f…

Love, laughter and lobbing shoes: The story of a gay couple's journey to start a family, including temper tantrums, sneaky social workers, and a LOT of wine.

Paul's podcast, Adoption Adventures, is a…

Do you come out as Non-Binary? How do you know if you are, or not? Can I get a sponsorship deal after mentioning talking about my genitals so much? 

All these questions and more, answered with a resou…

What makes a hero? Spaceships? Unattainable moral superiority? A goatee? I consider this while speaking to fearless activist Peter Tatchell about the documentary of his life and work. You're welcome …

[CONTENT WARNING: Hallucinogens & other drugs] After hearing my experiences in Smoke, filmmaker, avid listener and Sexual Adventurer Jason Decker wanted to share his experiences. Those experiences in…

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Navigating a life beyond the gender binary can be long and hard. But then, so's my d*ck.

Author and Trans Activist Nevo Zisin shares their stories of coming out (often, just to keep people on their to…

As lockdown restrictions start to ease, social anxieties and a lack of conversation materials cause awkwardness and general confusion. Can you lose your flirting mojo? What happens when you send an a…

After the 'success' of the Bottom episode, it seemed only right to do one about topping. The main thrust (lol) is to make the whole thing a team effort, not just a sprint for the finish. Of course, w…

How to make coming out harder than necessary: a guide to keeping things interesting from the host of My Best Friend's Journal. From family fights to under a literal spotlight, Mike talks us through s…

The pitfalls of putting D in the B and how to avoid them: It's a bit like dancing. Sort of. A quick and silly glance at some of the things about being gay that they don't put in the brochure. Also, u…

[CW: Substance abuse]

Manners, men, and maybe don't listen to this at mealtime... When you're thinking with organs other than your brain, stupid stuff can happen. Cups of tea, for example. Paper towel…

'Tackling' the 'important' issues of queer lockdown. Or just talking about w*nking for a few minutes. Either way, this episode looks at self-medication via masturbation, strategies to avoid boner bur…

Is it possible to be an ethical slut? How can one have multiple boyfriends at the same time? What happens when your Friends With Benefits want to become more than that? All these questions and severa…

The postman sent me off on a bit of an existential spiral, there's stuff coming at my head, and I've got a wizard in my pants. Another normal week in lockdown. A wonky look at the basics of code-swit…