Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast

This week we’re sitting down with professional dominatrix Mistress Shayla Lange. She’s really into topping for CBT, hardsports, and her scenes, while often being silly in nature, almost always take a…

This week we sat down with Dana Valentine to talk about being a genderfluid sadomasochist, which encompasses their “bubbly sadist” side as well as their “pain slut” side. They have a unique relations…

This week Dick, Gwen, and max all sat down to respond to some long overdue email questions from listeners asking for kinky advice. We also respond to a voicemail from a listener. 

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This week we sat down with Master Joshua to talk about Kink Collective, an organization he runs that offers bi-weekly kink education classes. We also talked about his career as a pro dom. 

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This week we sat down with trinkerbelchen to discuss their experience in the German kink community over the past three years, disability (autism, specifically), age play, pet play, doll play, and fet…

This week we sat down with professional dominatrix Chloe Mars, who specializes in topping for intoxication play (specifically with cannabis, which she refers to as CannaDomming). We also talked about…

This week we sat down with KittenFlo and her partner Moogie to discuss their interests in rope and pet play, as well as their living power exchange relationship. We also talked about KittenFlo’s expe…

This week we got max back on the show to talk with us about his time at TES Fest this year! He told us about the two scenes he did at TES Fest—a rough body play/trampling scene, and of course, a humi…

This week we sat down with our friend (and the show’s new booker), Molly Pocket! We dove into a bunch of topics, including memories of our high school sexual education (and lack thereof), making snee…

This week Dick and Gwen sat down without a guest to talk about what they’ve been up to with their sex work! Additionally, we give some updates on some of the kink scenes we’ve recorded recently. We t…

This week we sat down once again with Kate Sloan to discuss her new book, 200 Words to Help You Talk About Sexuality & Gender. We discuss language surrounding gender & sexuality, nuances in sexual id…

This week we’re FINALLY putting out part two of our kinky Q&A from episode 296! Thanks to everyone who submitted questions for patiently awaiting our responses. In this one we talk about horny 90s hi…

This week we sat down with Mortician Barbie, a kinky embalmer, to talk about negotiating about death within kink dynamics. While she’s not interested in kinks related to death, planning for death is …

This week we sat down once again with Sal to talk about kink and fatness. Sal answered listener questions about representation of fat bodies in kink, how to tell if someone is into you or just your b…

This week we sat down with our first in-person guest in a while, our pal Sal! We talked all about their experience as fat queer femme in the kink scene. They gave us practical advice on how to get in…

This week we sat down with sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas! We discussed how to communicate kinky fantasies to your partner, how to find your erotic imagination, and what we all should have le…

This week Dick and Gwen sat down to dedicate an episode to their love of feet! We talked all about our interests and play with foot fetish, socks, nylons, shoes, and anything else we could fit under …

This week we sat down with switchy catgirl findom Kitty Katz! We discussed how her upbringing in the Pentacostal church birthed her interest in masochism, as well as her journey starting out as a sub…

This week we sat down with Tess Devèze to talk about kink and cancer (as well as other disabilities). Tess is diagnosed with cancer themselves, as well as being an occupational therapist who works wi…

This week we sat down with returning guest Deer and Pony Show to talk all about being a furry! We got the low-down on what furries are, what goes down in the furry community, and why people are into …