Not By Chance Podcast
It’s hard to define what a successful and happy family is, much less how to achieve one. Dr. Tim Thayne, a thought-leader in teen treatment and parent coaching, shares inspiring best practices gleaned from decades of his own and other expert’s work related to intentional family living. Whether your family is in the midst of a major struggle or you are looking for fresh ideas to help you prioritize and enhance your home life, this podcast is for you.
- Update frequency
- every 13 days
- Average duration
- 27 minutes
- Episodes
- 92
- Years Active
- 2019 - 2025
Steering the Ship: The Transformative Power of Intentional Parenting
Navigating the ever-evolving landscape of parenting can feel like braving stormy seas without a compass. Promising to be that guiding light, today's podcast explores the concept of intentional parent…
Unraveling Parenthood: Breaking the Chains of Destructive Cycles
Do you ever feel trapped in the cycle of "good cop, bad cop" with your partner when it comes to parenting? Have you wondered how the echoes of your own upbringing have shaped the way you parent? Tag …
The Healthy Results of the Controversial Authoritative Parenting
The trends around parenting swing like a pendulum from authoritarian to permissive. Instinctively we know either extremes isn't ideal, but we may not know the literature around it. Studies show that …
Hillary Weeks: "Keep Going" Musics Ability To Heal
Hilary Weeks, a top 10 Christian Billboard singer, connects with her audience by unlocking and expressing the feelings of the heart through music. Her song "Keep Going" addresses depression and has h…
Eric Turner: Leadership From Marine To COO
Eric Turner shares stories from his life that lead him to work at Trustyy. Coming from a family that often lived paycheck to paycheck, he joined the Marines right after high school. He got to visit h…
Michele Benyo: Good Grief Parenting, How To Help Your Child Deal With Loss
Michel Benyo is a grief coach. She specializes in helping Children deal with loss in their life. Having children of her own and losing one put her through a heart wrenching journey. While grieving, s…
Sherry Fernandez: Love Your Kids Hard
Sherry Fernandez was a hippy turned business woman. With insane drive and
Dianne Kosto: How Neurofeedback Saved Her Sons Life
Dianne Kosto is a mother and CEO of Symmetry Neuro-Pathway Training. Dianne had a son who was kicked out of military school and almost kicked out of a treatment program for teen boys. She fears what …
Pt. 5 How To Be Your Teens Number One Influencer: Story, with Roxanne Thayne
Dr. Thayne interviews his wife, Roxanne, on the power of storytelling. You must be as entertaining and compelling as your competitor (social media) to influence your teen. Become a master storyteller…
Pt. 4 How to Be Your Teen's Number One Influencer: Fear
Dr. Thayne speaks about the role of fear when we are trying to be our teen's number one influencer. Fear is natural and can be healthy in doses, but when it isn't handled right, it can spiral out of …
Pt. 3 How To Be Your Teens Number One Influencer: LISTEN
Listening is one of the most influential things you could do. We might think that listening is too passive to possibly have an influence. Most of the time, however, no one cares to be swayed by som…
Pt. 2 How to Be Your Teen’s Number One Influencer: Values
Along with being a deliberate example, parents need to be aware of the values you are modeling. Today’s episode explores some virtues that seem to be less common in today’s self-centered and fast p…
Pt. 1 How to Be Your Teens Number One Influencer: Example
Would you allow a stranger to sit on your teen's bed and talk to them for hours a day? Never. Yet this is what's happening and this is how you can put yourself back in the number one influencer posit…
Are You Reading the Stories Your Teens are Writing About Themselves?
What if you could read your teen's thoughts about themselves? Would their story of their worth match yours about them? Dr. Thayne talks about how the stories we choose to tell ourselves can lead to…
The Story of My Choice to Leave the Wilderness for Home
Dr. Thayne takes this opportunity to share with Casi Fariello of OPLM why he felt it was time to turn his attention to the needs of families after their teen's out-of-home treatment programs. He sha…
The Power of Parent Support Groups: With Casie Fariello
"As we get stronger, our family gets stronger." In today's episode, Dr. Thayne introduces listeners to Casie Fariello, the CEO of "Other Parents Like Me," a virtual membership platform that went liv…
The Launch: Not by Chance Yearbook, Issue 4
In this episode Dr. Thayne and Roxanne Thayne discuss the latest in the collection of Not by Chance Yearbooks. The purpose of the book is to share stories, quotes, photographs and writing prompts th…
"THIS is Your Boundary"
Today Dr. Thayne discusses the importance of healthy boundaries and how to teach others to respect them in your home and family.
Using the example of his Olde English Bulldogge puppy (Churchill), he…
Dr. Timothy Smith: Connection inside the family
Dr Tim Thayne interviews Dr. Timothy Smith, a psychologist and professor of counseling psychology at Brigham Young University. As social beings, we are wired for connectivity. Dr. Smith and Dr. Thayn…
Introduce Danger Into Their Play
In Psychologist Jordan Peterson's bestselling book, “12 Rules for Life” one rule is, “Don’t bother children when they are skateboarding.” In this episode Dr. Tim Thayne talks about the importance of …