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My Mum's Bad Diaries

You're invited to eavesdrop as a mother reads out her teenage diaries to her daughter. Funny, candid, poignant and brave, this podcast is both living memoir and an investigation into what makes (and breaks) a woman. No scripts, no prep; just 40-year-old (diary) gold being unearthed. Even Jenny doesn't know what's going to come up as she lays bare her inner teen world to her daughter Lilika. Their motto is 'we go there', so what could possibly go wrong?

Documentary Society & Culture Sex Personal Journals Family Funny History Comedy
Update frequency
every 6 days
Average duration
42 minutes
Episodes
141
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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We will tell your mother!!! (Vol.2, 1981)

We will tell your mother!!! (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: we talk about suicide 

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I find out about mum getting high on tiger balm…

Episode 12 sees us in April 1981 as mum finally jots down her escapades on a school trip to Noumea the previous ye…

01:15:23  |   Sun 26 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (wuthering heights, obsession, the forsyte saga, trauma bonding)

SIDE CHAT (wuthering heights, obsession, the forsyte saga, trauma bonding)

Notes for this side chat

On Wuthering Heights, Lily calls it ‘a study in unhappiness’ and ‘obsession without desire’

Did Emily Bronte have any relationship?

Research:

Dorothy Porter – Australian poet and…

00:12:02  |   Sun 26 Dec 2021
The guy in the freezer (Vol.2, 1981)

The guy in the freezer (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: we only talk a little bit about Wuthering heights in this full episode. Head to our Side Chat for more Wuthers!

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I find out about how mum put my boyfriend in the freezer…

This episode we …

01:13:06  |   Sun 26 Dec 2021
SIDE RANT (prince harry & meghan markle, finding freedom... to merch!)

SIDE RANT (prince harry & meghan markle, finding freedom... to merch!)

Content note: we talk a lot about the British Royal Family, you have been warned!

We discuss Oprah’s show made with Prince Harry, The Me You Can’t See, Apple TV

Official trailer

 https://www.youtube.com…

00:14:09  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
Just get a mirror and look (Vol.2, 1981)

Just get a mirror and look (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: lots of body talk (the vagina specifically) and period talk

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I find out that I’ll never be over my height complex… 

It’s Friday night, 30th of January, 1981, precisely 10:10pm and mum get…

00:54:30  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE RANT (leunig, cancel culture, nuance, staying in your lane, wokeness, class, revolution. ft. dennis the handyman)

SIDE RANT (leunig, cancel culture, nuance, staying in your lane, wokeness, class, revolution. ft. dennis the handyman)

Content note: we touch on suicide and self harm in passing


Follow us on Insta @mumsbaddiaries

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00:24:09  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (carpe diem)

SIDE CHAT (carpe diem)

00:06:56  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (hard workers v smart workers)

SIDE CHAT (hard workers v smart workers)

In this side chat we mention Cal Newport's book Deep Work

https://blog.doist.com/deep-work/

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We also mention the palliative care nurse reports about the regrets of the dying, and how no one ever says t…

00:05:27  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
Existentialism (Vol.2, 1981)

Existentialism (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: we talk a lot about body parts and sex 


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This episode, we read about mum considering a career in a big computing firm, her existentialism, and her deep desire to travel (which dw that co…

00:52:18  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (duck rescue)

SIDE CHAT (duck rescue)

Content note: animal violence


Follow us on Insta @mumsbaddiaries

Click to head to our show notes at: mymumsbaddiaries.com

We'd love to read your comments or questions! Send us a text!

00:08:55  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (violence in films, inglourious basterds, kill bill, lars von trier etc)

SIDE CHAT (violence in films, inglourious basterds, kill bill, lars von trier etc)

Content note: we discuss violence in film, sexual violence in film, exploitation in Hollywood, rape, fantasies, sex

We also talk about:

  • Quentin Tarantino and the Inglourious Basterds scene where it’s h…
00:08:55  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
Smells good... (Vol.2, 1981)

Smells good... (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: we discuss abusive relationships; violence and sexual violence in film

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I find out that it’s maybe not normal for your partner to be able to smell you??

It’s January 1981 and mum is 17, g…

00:41:42  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
SIDE CHAT (contraception, hormones, 'crazy' women and the whole damn thing)

SIDE CHAT (contraception, hormones, 'crazy' women and the whole damn thing)

Content note: we mention rape in passing


Follow us on Insta @mumsbaddiaries

Click to head to our show notes at: mymumsbaddiaries.com

We'd love to read your comments or questions! Send us a text!

00:11:08  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
The bad bros (Vol.2, 1981)

The bad bros (Vol.2, 1981)

Content note: in this episode we talk about sexually coercive behaviour/sexual harassment

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I learn that everyone has trauma…not least our parents

This one’s a pretty heavy episode, but a good one as we…

01:05:48  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
Infected nipples (Vol.2, 1981)

Infected nipples (Vol.2, 1981)

I find out about a gnome called Wilfred…

This episode we start volume 2 of mum’s bad diaries, only 39 years to go. We discuss how we both don’t trust people who randomly change their names (why you tr…

00:42:39  |   Sun 19 Dec 2021
The fake marriage (Vol.1, 1981)

The fake marriage (Vol.1, 1981)

Content note: we discuss weight, appearance and diet (resources below)

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Today I find out that my grandad had a fake marriage... 

This episode we unpack the 7th of January, 1981. We read about mum going…

00:40:56  |   Wed 15 Dec 2021
The one with the Friends reunion (Vol.1, 1981)

The one with the Friends reunion (Vol.1, 1981)

Content note: we talk appearance, cosmetic surgery, ageing, negative self-talk and self-image (resources below)

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I find out about the time a random guy grimaced at mum when she smiled at him…(rude!)

It…

00:57:05  |   Wed 15 Dec 2021
It was a sort of booth (Vol.1, 1980)

It was a sort of booth (Vol.1, 1980)

Content note: we discuss negative self talk, and other people's appearances

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Mum’s more scared about doing this podcast than I realised…

Throwback to 28, December 1980 when the summer heat was high and…

00:54:23  |   Sun 12 Dec 2021
Leroy love (Vol.1, 1980)

Leroy love (Vol.1, 1980)

Content note: we mention sexual abuse and violence, in passing (resources below)

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I find out mum's not as good a student as I always thought... 

Join us in October 1980 as we change the format a little…

00:54:42  |   Sun 12 Dec 2021
2 women, 2 mics, 40 years of diaries (Vol.1, 1980)

2 women, 2 mics, 40 years of diaries (Vol.1, 1980)

We went back and listened to our season, especially the first few episodes and thought: we've learned so much, we CAN do better. Also we've learned how to put the beeps in for blanked out names! We h…

01:23:22  |   Sun 12 Dec 2021
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