Married A.F. | Real Talk On Relationships
Married A.F. is the candid, laugh-out-loud podcast about what really goes on after “I do.” Equal parts heartfelt and hilarious, this show explores the highs, lows, and everyday quirks of married life – with nothing off-limits. Each week, Matt and Monica pull back the curtain on marriage, from navigating intimacy and money squabbles to juggling careers, kids, and in-laws. With their engaging blend of personal stories and expert insights, they tackle questions many couples are afraid to ask (yes, even that one) with refreshing honesty. One minute you’ll be wiping away tears of laughter, and the next you might be nodding along in understanding at a truly raw and honest confession.
Whether you’re newly wed, happily ever after, or wondering what you signed up for, Married A.F. offers you a front-row seat to the kind of unfiltered conversations usually reserved for close friends. Matt and Monica share hard-earned lessons to unpack topics like keeping the romance alive, communicating through conflict, and growing together (instead of apart). The tone is always supportive and real. You’ll feel like you’re sitting around the kitchen table with friends who tell it like it is and genuinely want to see your marriage thrive.
Clear-eyed about the challenges but celebratory of the joys, Married A.F. is the ultimate marriage companion podcast that will leave you feeling entertained, understood, and inspired to make your relationship stronger than ever. If you believe marriage can be messy and magnificent, this is the podcast for you.
Tune in, and join a community of listeners who know that staying married is an adventure – one that’s easier (and a lot more fun) when you have a great conversation partner along for the ride.
- Update frequency
- every 10 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 101
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
How To Detect Absence In Your Relationship
Marriage is under scrutiny, with many young adults questioning its relevance today. Does this age-old institution still hold value in our modern lives? Our latest episode of the Married…
Two Fatal Errors Holding You Back
We explore how certain timeless mistakes continue to unravel relationships, particularly when it comes to understanding and validating our partner's feelings. Our conversation is interw…
How To Increase Intimacy and Connection in 2025
We open up about prioritizing our partnership by placing God and each other first, setting a strong foundation for a vibrant marriage that defies societal myths of dullness.
Amidst the d…
Am I Doing Enough?
Join us on the Married AF Podcast as we share our personal revelations, backed by insights from our listeners in Los Angeles and New York City. We reflect on Isaiah 40, which challenges…
A Whoop and A Poop Part 2
Join us as we share our personal journey in exploring the shifting perceptions of marriage and the challenges of representing Christianity with empathy and kindness. We highlight the po…
A Whoop and A Poop Part 1
Monica brings a unique perspective from her transformative journey to Juarez, Mexico, with Hunger House International, where she witnessed firsthand the power of hope and kindness in co…
Social Media, Threesomes, and Falling In Love Daily
We share an intriguing story about a couple who claim that a threesome saved their marriage, sparking a conversation on whether such unconventional solutions offer genuine, long-term be…
Rapid Fire Q&A & High School Love Notes
We share a trip down memory lane, revealing keepsakes from our high school days that remind us of the thoughtful gestures and heartfelt moments that began our relationship. Amidst laugh…
3 Weeks Of Hell
Join us as we explore this provocative question against the backdrop of our own family's trials and triumphs. From the poignant moment our son Cash was mistakenly added to, then removed…
How To Go Deeper
Join us on the Married AF Podcast as we tackle these questions, sharing our personal insights and an adventurous story from our trip to Hawaii. We also introduce a card game that helps …
Late Night Q&A! What Could Go Wrong!
We address a listener's heartfelt concern about regretting their marriage after just four months. With insights drawn from real-life scenarios, we'll offer practical advice on navigatin…
Is You Marriage Worth Saving?
We argue that enduring joy—rather than fleeting happiness—is essential for a fulfilling relationship. Drawing wisdom from John, chapter four, we emphasize the need for lasting joy, much…
How Your Partner FEELS Love (Love Languages Explained)
Love languages are the secret sauce to a happy relationship, and we dive deep into their importance, backed by insights from a study at George Mason University. Discover how expressing …
Why We Need To Break Free From Relationship Expectations
Feeling overwhelmed by the glittering, unattainable ideals of modern marriage? You're not alone. We contrast the humble aspirations of past generations with today's extravagant, social-…
Communication: The Heartbeat of a Successful Marriage
We give a shoutout to our diverse listeners from bustling metropolises like New York, Los Angeles, and Chicago. We challenge you to tell us where you're tuning in from and to weigh in o…
The Episode of Dumb!
We take a moment to celebrate our podcast's success, with 50,000 downloads and nearly 5,000 YouTube subscribers, and ponder whether it's time to shake up our seasonal format.
Switching …
Your Burning Questions Answered: Q&A Time!
Get ready for everyone's ultimate favorite—it's Q&A Time!!! In this exciting and engaging episode, we're diving into your burning questions that you've been curious about and eager to h…
Mistakes Women Make That Drive Men Crazy
We discuss the various things that women do that drive men absolutely crazy. From phones, to expectations, to social media interactions, to talking about past relationships, there is a …
The Disturbing Case of Scott & Laci Peterson
In this gripping episode, we plunge into the shocking and widely publicized case of Laci and Scott Peterson. Discover the chaos of their tumultuous marriage, the tangled web of lies spu…
The Most Memorable Vow Renewal Ever
We retell the story of the greatest vow renewal that has even been given. Monica goes to the next level in giving Matthew the surprise of a lifetime. Watch as we tell the behind the sce…