Love Life With Matthew Hussey

Have you been gaslighted before? Is it happening to you right now?

If you’re not sure what “Gaslighting” means… It’s when someone manipulates you by psychological means into doubting your own sanity.

Question: What’s the #1 secret to powerful, seductive flirting?

For some people, that’s a silly question. “Flirting is simple,” they’ll say. “It’s just something you do when you like someone.”

And ye…

Maybe you’ve always been afraid of rejection. Maybe there was a specific moment in your past where you experienced a devastating rejection that has left you fearing getting hurt again ever since.

The…

You watch the cliché rom-coms and sitcoms.

They tell you to be witty, urbane, “sassy”, sophisticated. And that’s what everyone wants to portray on their profile on Bumble, Tinder, Hinge, Grab-a-mate,…

Ah yeeeeah, it’s that time, friend… a brand new spicy epsiode for you.

This one is about compliments, and there’s some really interesting psychology in it about the compliments you can give to a pers…

If you've ever worried about having the "awkward" conversation, answering the booty call text, or speaking out for your needs, this is for you! 

It's time to start being ok with being weird...

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I can’t tell you how many times a week someone online says to me: “Matthew, I’ve had enough. I’m just going to give up on dating altogether.”

It may be because they are sick of getting their heart br…

It’s hard to find love when you don’t feel loveable yourself.

When you know you’ve made a ton of mistakes. Or you’ve internalized the idea that you’re just not a likeable person.

It becomes a self-pe…

Are you hurting?

Is that hurt leading to overthinking? Rumination? A downward spiral of negative self-talk?

Do you feel trapped inside your own head, desperate for some relief, and anxious for the ti…

We respond to YOUR emails all about the topic of Love Bombing. 

Including:

• Why we get sucked in by love bombing
• What "red flags" to look for early on
• How to be (healthily skeptical) before diving in…

I talk a lot about letting go of the wrong person.

But how do you know if someone is the wrong person? What are the red flags? How can you tell if someone is serious or just stringing you along so th…

You have to help me.

I believe there isn’t a woman (person) alive who doesn’t need to hear this message at least once in her lifetime.

I know, that’s a bold statement.

But when you see it, you’ll kno…

I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.

If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my …

Ever sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more?

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I can’t tell you how many people I’ve coached who can’t let go of the past.

Women who are still hating themselves for dating the wrong guy for so many years.

Women who feel they’ve wasted their caree…

Have you ever had someone come into your life, dazzle you with their initial investment and attention, only to disappear as fast as they came?

This phenomenon has been nicknamed “Love Bombing…

Are the most attractive people always the most confident? Is insecurity always an attraction-killer, or is it more important to own your flaws?

In today's episode Matt gives his take on the topic of …

There are many dangerous qualities of a toxic person, but the worst one of all may be their deceptiveness.

They can be so subtle in their manipulation, you may not even realize what they’re doing to …

What keeps relationships together? And what tears them apart?

I've always been obsessed with looking at patterns of those in happy couples.

Today, we share some research into a single behaviour that …