Kinky Frame of Mind

Episode 50: Vanilla Friend play? Good or Bad?  

So we made it to Episode 50!! In this episode we have two messages we look at, the first is a common problem in the lifestyle how to handle a guy that i…

Episode 49- First play chaos. In this episode we discuss a message about a couples first attempt at solo play. So many rules and communication issues that we reflect on and share our views on what co…

Episode 48 - First date play ? In this episode Don talks about a few exciting upcoming things in their world. Then we look at some emails we got, first is playing on the first date or not? what your …

Episode 47 - Damn that is to BIG. In this Episode we have a listener question about how to tell someone their penis is to BIG. Then we have a discussion about its a new year and a good time to review…

Episode 46 - end of year in this episode we look back at the last year and talk about the good and bad. then we also talk about how we are all part of the same group no matter where we fall in our pl…

Episode 45 - Fair rules. In this episode we look at being fair on rules and keeping a balance. Also we discuss a question that came up on out Facebook group about numbers of partners.  

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Episode 44 - Let's educate new people, in this episode Don goes on a rant about a post he saw on a site about someone getting mad when a new person questioned their dynamic. We talk about how to hand…

Episode 43 : Just not feeling it - In this episode we talk about a message we got about what to do when you are just not feeling it or feeling sexy. Then we have a question about what to do when the …

Episode 42: how to get some interest - in this episode we talk about a question on how can i get people interested in me and we take a look at getting started in your rope journey 

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Episode 41 - Don't Judge In this episode we talk about judging and assuming people on personality 

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Episode 40 - That's a deal breaker Dude! in this episode we look at what is a deal breaker for you and what you can deal we, we both discuss our deal breakers and then we discuss a few answers we go …

Episode 39 - The hard Question - In this episode we look at a couple questions. The first is about what is ok messaging and how to ask what is ok. The second Question is probably one of the hardest t…

Episode 38 - What Party do I go to? in this episode we talk about we are in the busy time of swinger parties Halloween to Mardi Gras is a busy time so many parties and options. We give you a few thin…

In this episode we take a look at age play, we look at different aspects of the kink 

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Episode 36 -Quench that thirst. In this episode we discuss some do's and don'ts of meet and greets. We share incidents that happened at a recent meet and greet with us. Then we also take a look at wh…

Episode 35: Breaking in. In this episode we look at an email question that ask about how to break into the scene and how to get invited to events. The the question also deals a little with body type …

Episode 34: What's on your fuck it list  

In this episode we talk about stuff that makes up or give idea on what's on different peoples fuck it list. We also go into detail about some of our top items…

Episode 33 Hymn 103 Comprehension

In this Episode discuss the importance of communication in our relationships, but not just how to communicate bit making sure our partner comprehends what we are sayi…

In this Episode discuss a couple topics, the first is coming to a party prepared and ready. We discuss pointer on coming to a BDSM party prepared and ready for a scene. In the second half we discuss …

In this episode we discuss our favorite position and why we like them. We chat about asking this question on some Facebook groups and the odd answers we got. This the brings up the discussion of bein…