It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield
Join reality TV queen, entrepreneur and chronic over-sharer, Abbie Chatfield each week as she tackles the deep stuff - from abandonment issues and mental health to important social discourse around feminism and politics.
Plus there’s a reliable dose of sex tips, bad dating stories, and interviews with funny, clever, and wickedly cool people. For guest and topic suggestions or to submit your own Nightmare Fuel email [email protected]. Follow Abbie at @abbiechatfield and follow the podcast at @itsalotpod on Instagram https://bit.ly/itsalot-instagram .
- Update frequency
- every 2 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 581
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2025
ICYMI: "I Worried I was Just the Girl with the Dead Mum" with Toni Lodge
How can a conversation about a dead parent be so funny? Toni Lodge (of the Toni and Ryan podcast) LEGIT makes Abbie piss herself in this one.
If any of the topics discussed are triggering for you, pl…
A Bonus Christmas Present!
Abbie's been asking Cherylyn for a NMF for AGES and the time has finally come...
LINKS
- Subscribe to Cherylyn's YT https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3
- Follow Cherylyn on IG https://bit.ly/3DkUnJ3
- Follow Cherylyn …
ICYMI: My Therapy Session with Esther Perel
Why does a sense of danger make us horny? When is it time to leave a relationship? What to do when you feel ambivalent about your partner? Is there anything worse than being cheated on?
Abbie chats t…
I Finally Swam with Dolphins
Instead of a Nightmare Fuel, Abbie decided to give this positive update and deep dive (lol) into the world of dolphins. It's SCARY how much she knows about them.
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- Visit Dolphin Swim Australia h…
CHRISTMAS ADVICE P1: You're Allowed To Skip Christmas with Family
If your family is being transphobic, fatphobic or bigoted, you're allowed to skip Christmas lunch you know. In part one of this episode, Abbie answers many of the questions you sent through.
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- C…
CHRISTMAS ADVICE P2 WITH ADAM: Shitty Inlaws
Part 2 of Xmas Advice is with ADAM!!! We start off by discussing what Christmas is like with divorced parents but by the end of this episode, we're all laughing our asses off about how risk-averse Ab…
GINGER DOLL NMF: "Your Client Did A P**?"
Ew ew ew ew EW! Ginger Doll's NMF is truly horrifying. We wanted a client story though, right?
LINKS
- Follow Ginger Doll on IG https://www.instagram.com/katiaschwartz/?hl=en
- Follow Ginger Doll on Tik…
GINGER DOLL: Sex Work As A Deaf Person, Brothels, And The Whore-archy
What is it like being a deaf sex worker? How does fetishisation and ableism intersect? And what is Whore-archy?
Deaf sex worker and disability advocate Katia Schwartz (aka Ginger Doll) is this week's…
NMF CONTINUED: The Man On The Run
When a listener told us her story about her "man on the run", Harrison James and Abbie HAD TO get her back on to find out more.
LINKS
- Listen to the original NMF in full https://bit.ly/49ovEQg
- Review…
GSPOT + DEMON DERRIERE: Kinky KINKY Sex
What is the difference between a kink and a fetish? What are some problematic fetishes? What do I do if I'm new to kinky sex? Sex Expert Georgia Grace (GSpot) and Fat activist Demon Derriere sit down…
SOLO NMF: A BJ With A Twist
Short one today but also one that emphasises the need for all of us women to listen to that voice inside us that tells us LEAVE HIM. So many toxic creatures out there. Some of them are smelly too.
LI…
SOLO: The US Is Heading Towards A Theocracy
The last time Abbie spoke about US politics on the podcast, there was hope that Trump would be the one losing. With him back in charge, expect more tariff rants, a chat about theocracy threat, mass d…
BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: A Sex Worker's NIGHTMARE!
Sex Worker and TikTok star Blue Eyed Kayla Jade returns for a Nightmare Fuel featuring a client she calls "Peggy Sue". Peggy LOVES to get pegged by almost ANYTHING. In one of the weirdest sessions wi…
BLUE EYED KAYLA JADE: Bonnie Blue, 4B, & The Girth Master
Sex Worker and TikTok star Kayla Jade (who goes by the name blueeyedkaylajade) has BLOWN UP on TikTok going from 900K followers to 1.4 Million in 2 weeks. People are obsessed with her client stories,…
HARRISON JAMES NMF: The Man On The Run
We haven't received a Nightmare Fuel like this in a WHILE. In a decade-long romantic drama full of twists and turns, this listener gets with a man who ghosts her and then returns from the grave to ha…
HARRISON JAMES: "My Stepmum Fell Pregnant With My Daughter"
In this episode, we discuss child sexual abuse, mental health issues, and sexual assault. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at http…
SOLO NMF: "I Birthed A Condom"
This woman birthed this guy's condom and he had barely anything to say. Are we surprised???
LINKS
- Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH
- Full out the survey for a chance to win …
SOLO P2: US Elections 2024
This is part 2 of a 2 part episode.
MAGA on economics, christian values and all of our result predictions.
LINKS
- Buy Abbie's new Kink Kit with Normal https://bit.ly/3ZZL8HH
- Buy tickets to Abbie's na…
SOLO P1: US Elections 2024
This is part 1 of a 2 part episode.
Abbie.Just.Can't.DEAL!
Her entire TikTok feed is FULL of MAGA randoms talking about women, JD Vance, climate change. It's NUTS. Enjot this 2 parter.
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- Buy Abb…
SOLO NMF: Stress Test At An ED Clinic
In this episode, there is mention of eating disorder. If any of the topics discussed is triggering for you, please seek help by visiting Lifeline's website at https://www.lifeline.org.au/ or by calli…