IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective

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In this enlightening episode,  Ben explores a fundamental concept in parenting that most advice gets wrong – the external focus versus the internal focus. Discover why concentrating …

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Today's episode features Julia Rocque as a special guest, discussing the Pyramid of Influence. 

The Arbinger Institute, known for "Leadership and Self-Deception," authored this concep…

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3 types of Parent Traps you may be falling into:

1. The Controlling Parent Trap: Ever found yourself trying to control every aspect of your teen's life, from their thoughts to their acti…

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Powerful Points

Teens need support from a community of adults. 

You can have an impact on more teens than simply your own teen.

If you want to have an impact on a teens life, simply be …

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You'll Have to Listen To This Episode

This was an awesome interview with Carrie Marshall. 

We had an amazing conversation. 

As always, I don't really do show notes for my interviews bec…

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You'll Have to Listen To This Episode

This was an awesome interview with Natalie Dianne. 

We had an amazing conversation. 

Powerful Points

It's not your job to change your spouse, your t…

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Some of the most common problems with athletes

If you have a teen athlete, this podcast is for you and for them. 

If you don't have a teen athlete, you can still listen because these p…

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Some of the most common problems with athletes

If you have a teen athlete, this podcast is for you and for them. 

If you don't have a teen athlete, you can still listen because these p…

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Are You and/or Your Teen Dreading School?

First off, I think you should know that teens all over the US are dreading returning to school. 

If you're teen is feeling anxious and they ar…

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As the back-to-school season approaches, parents and teens alike experience a mix of emotions. While some parents eagerly anticipate the return to routine, many teens might feel anxi…

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You'll Have to Listen To This Episode

This was an awesome interview with Emily Brown. 

We had an amazing conversation. 

As always, I don't really do show notes for my interviews because…

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Want a Better Relationship with Your Teen?

If you're anything like the parents that I work with, you probably want to improve your relationship with your teen. 

That's awesome, because…

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Powerful Points

In this episode we talked about parenting being the best personal development course ever. 

We talked about how it gives you endless opportunities for personal growth. 

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YOU Have the Power to Make Tough Moments Powerful Moments

Recently in one of my group coaching call, a mom humbly and a little embarrassed admitted that she had recently parented her …

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This is an awesome conversation about trauma and Triggers with Dr. Leanne Hawken

After my recent podcast episode, Leanne reached out to me to further the discussion on trauma and trig…

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Have You Ever Had A "Gut Punch" Realization?

Today, I'm going to tell you about one of the most life altering events of my life. 

It took place during a jog at my local walking park wi…

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What Does Trigger Even Mean? 

For most people, when their talking about triggers, or "being triggered", they're usually talking about some kind of circumstance that triggers them or o…

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Habits Are Underrated and Underutilized 

Every year around New Year's, everyone starts talking about goals. 

This is awesome, I think everyone should have goals.

The problem is, with ou…

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Boundaries are Misunderstood

There are some common mistakes that parents make when setting boundaries.

Boundaries aren't meant to control others.

Boundaries are important for you and yo…

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Trying to Control Your Teen Hurts Your Teen

Just Because Everyone Does It Doesn't Make It Right

Do You Like It When Others Try To Control You?

There's a Better Way

If You Continue to Con…