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IF I MAY BE SO BOLD

If you’re like us, you didn’t grow up in an emotionally honest home. Because of this, having healthy relationships as adults has sometimes felt impossible. On this podcast, be a fly on the wall as we, Dan and Justin (a real life couple), learn how to love each other and ourselves unconditionally. Often it’s messy: we overthink, try to control each other, and fall into old patterns. But each time we work through it, something happens on the other side— more closeness, deepening, humor, and a new understanding of the word “love”.


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Average duration
38 minutes
Episodes
61
Years Active
2021 - 2025
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Tales From Reddit Vol. 2

Tales From Reddit Vol. 2

In this episode Justin describes her transformative evening at the Harry Styles show before she and Dan briefly touch on the concept of "womb envy." After that, they dive back into the "Relationship…
00:32:47  |   Tue 15 Nov 2022
If You're Really Sorry, I Wanna See Some Of That Money In My Bank Account

If You're Really Sorry, I Wanna See Some Of That Money In My Bank Account

In this episode we give you the second half of our chat with Hannah Smith (1:40) exploring the implications of Josh Harris's book I KISSED DATING GOODBYE. We hear how Justin and and Hannah have cont…
00:56:42  |   Tue 08 Nov 2022
We Kiss,

We Kiss, "I Kissed Dating Goodbye," Goodbye

In the first half of our two-part discussion, we welcome our friend Hannah Smith: host of the hit true-crime podcast THE OPPORTUNIST. As teens, Justin and Hannah both read the books of Joshua Harris…
00:57:11  |   Tue 01 Nov 2022
Security AND Erotic Vitality

Security AND Erotic Vitality

As relationships become more familiar over time, can we continue to cultivate passion, vitality, and sexual desire? With Justin's move-in date just around the corner, we give you first installment o…
00:46:13  |   Tue 13 Sep 2022
The Religious Expectation That You Have Your Sh*t Together

The Religious Expectation That You Have Your Sh*t Together

In this special episode, Justin sits down with her mom, artist and teacher Rebecca Waring, to talk about the evolution of their relationship. They discuss their religious upbringings, what has kept t…
00:48:13  |   Tue 30 Aug 2022
Tales From Reddit

Tales From Reddit

On todays episode, we weigh in on some entries from the Relationship Advice subreddit having to do with friendship tensions around dating.  Then you'll hear as we ask our friend Mike Hammond (actor, …
00:35:56  |   Tue 23 Aug 2022
Our Ancestors Want Us To Be Happy

Our Ancestors Want Us To Be Happy

In this episode we speak with author and family constellation therapy facilitator Meenadchi.  We have all kinds of questions about this type of therapy and the kinds of healing it can bring. We also …
00:41:35  |   Tue 16 Aug 2022
I Do Things FOR My Body, Not TO My Body (With Aaron Flores)

I Do Things FOR My Body, Not TO My Body (With Aaron Flores)

We sit down with Dietician Nutritionist and Certified Body Trust® provider Aaron Flores to talk about fat-phobia, fat-stigma, and Health At Every Size (HAES). We discuss why it's important for men t…
00:43:27  |   Tue 09 Aug 2022
Terrified to Merge

Terrified to Merge

Hey we're back! In our season premiere, we interview each other re: the hopes and fears that are coming up as as we anticipate moving in together. We also dig into the viral "Tony Pizza" post from …

00:33:44  |   Tue 02 Aug 2022
Season 2 is Coming!  What Was Your First Kiss?

Season 2 is Coming! What Was Your First Kiss?

Holy crud we are back to tease the upcoming season! What are Justin and Dan most excited about this time around? Will they survive moving in together? Also listen as they each tell the story of th…

00:23:20  |   Mon 25 Jul 2022
The Ex Files (Season Finale!)

The Ex Files (Season Finale!)

Lately we have been pondering the ways in which the story of a relationship can evolve over time. In Episode 10, Dan and Justin each tell the story of one of their significant past relationships: how…

00:52:05  |   Tue 12 Apr 2022
I Would Say That it’s Not Super Chill to be a Virgo, with Ally Gluckman

I Would Say That it’s Not Super Chill to be a Virgo, with Ally Gluckman

We are joined by the very wise Ally Gluckman (skin therapist, learned astrology student, and Dan's cousin) as we dance with the zodiac. Ally explains why she doesn't like to use astrology in a predi…

00:48:44  |   Tue 05 Apr 2022
I'm Not OK

I'm Not OK

In this episode, we talk about the impulse to cover up or not cover up your own suffering. Justin describes some mental health difficulties she's been dealing with and her fears around letting it aff…

00:32:50  |   Tue 29 Mar 2022
I Know We Just Met But...  Want to Move to Sudan?  with Rebecca Waring Crane and Ken Crane

I Know We Just Met But... Want to Move to Sudan? with Rebecca Waring Crane and Ken Crane

In episode 7 we speak with Justin's parents! We explore the idea of being friends, or even best friends with your romantic partner. Ken and Rebecca recount the tumult of getting married after only …

00:53:45  |   Tue 22 Mar 2022
Can I Boop Your Nose 3 Times?  with Mia Schachter

Can I Boop Your Nose 3 Times? with Mia Schachter

In this episode we are lucky enough to speak with The Consent Wizard themself: Mia Schachter. We discuss the important distinction between wanting to do something vs. being willing to do it, and lea…

01:04:33  |   Tue 15 Mar 2022
Monogamy is Not a Fix for Jealousy, with Emily Paul

Monogamy is Not a Fix for Jealousy, with Emily Paul

On this episode Mutual Aid Organizer and Technologist Emily Paul joins us as we discuss common misconceptions about Non-monogamy. We also explore how addressing smaller, "less important" tensions in…

00:34:00  |   Tue 01 Mar 2022
The Comfortable Lie of

The Comfortable Lie of "I'm Not Like That"

A relationship doesn't exist in a vacuum, but when you're in it, it can be hard to see the larger cultural context. After some uncomfortable and illuminating dialogue with listeners and friends, Dan…
00:28:16  |   Tue 22 Feb 2022
Permission To Not Be Warm and Fuzzy

Permission To Not Be Warm and Fuzzy

This episode drops you into a tense moment between Justin and Dan. One thing led to another and they both ended up TRIGGERED. Listen as they process their respective inner monologues, feelings, and…
00:39:24  |   Tue 15 Feb 2022
Life Makes You A Leader, with Ramesh Srivastava

Life Makes You A Leader, with Ramesh Srivastava

Our friend and brilliant musician Ramesh Srivastava joins us as we dive into his journey launching the band VOXTROT in his early 20s. We explore the roles he's played in relationships, what it means…
00:42:28  |   Tue 08 Feb 2022
You're Stuck There Forever Until You Acknowledge The Feeling

You're Stuck There Forever Until You Acknowledge The Feeling

In their first episode, Dan and Justin interview each other about how each of them developed ideas of healthy vs unhealthy relationships early on in life.  They explore Justin's confusion as a teen a…
00:34:15  |   Tue 01 Feb 2022
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