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Honey, We Need to Chat

Honey, We Need to Chat is the podcast for couples who want to fight less, connect more, and actually enjoy talking again.

We’re Amy and Blair, a real-life couple sharing honest conversations, relatable stories, and practical tools to help you navigate conflict, deepen communication, and build a relationship that feels good, not just looks good.

We dive into wild Reddit threads, expert interviews, real-life coaching, and hard-earned lessons, offering fresh insights and actionable steps you can use today! Because when communication dies, bad things happen. So... let’s chat!

Relationships Society & Culture
Update frequency
every 4 days
Average duration
39 minutes
Episodes
94
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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23. Weaponised Incompetence – Is It Ruining Your Relationship? | REDDIT STORIES

23. Weaponised Incompetence – Is It Ruining Your Relationship? | REDDIT STORIES

Have you ever felt like your partner conveniently doesn’t know how to do basic household tasks? Does your significant other suddenly become “bad” at something so you’ll just do it for them? This is w…

00:49:15  |   Sun 28 Jul 2024
Bonus Ep. 12 - Staying Connected in Relationships

Bonus Ep. 12 - Staying Connected in Relationships

A bonus story following on from Stay Connected in Your Relationship for our Chatter Community! We dive deep into the feedback from YOU, so this episode is specifically aimed at our Chatter community…

00:16:54  |   Sun 21 Jul 2024
22. Chit-Chat: How to Stay Connected in Relationships (Even When Life Gets Busy)

22. Chit-Chat: How to Stay Connected in Relationships (Even When Life Gets Busy)

In this episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we're diving into the everyday challenges of maintaining connection in relationships when life is chaotic. From navigating different interests and hobbies t…

00:36:38  |   Sun 21 Jul 2024
Is Contempt Killing Your Marriage? How to Spot It and Turn Things Around | Honey, We Need to Chat

Is Contempt Killing Your Marriage? How to Spot It and Turn Things Around | Honey, We Need to Chat

In this bonus chat, we unpack a listener's story about contempt in their relationship and how it's affecting their marriage. We discuss practical ways to identify, address, and heal contempt, explore…

00:16:07  |   Sun 14 Jul 2024
21. The #1 Predictor of Breakups: What Contempt Is & How to Overcome It |REE

21. The #1 Predictor of Breakups: What Contempt Is & How to Overcome It |REE

Contempt is one of the most toxic communication patterns in a relationship, but what exactly is it, and how does it show up? In this episode, we break down the Gottman Institute’s Four Horsemen frame…

01:01:06  |   Sun 14 Jul 2024
What's Really Helping OUR Relationship Right Now? | Bonus Drop for Our Story & Resources

What's Really Helping OUR Relationship Right Now? | Bonus Drop for Our Story & Resources

Want to know what resources have genuinely improved our relationship lately? In this bonus episode of "Honey, We Need to Chat," we celebrate 20 episodes by sharing the biggest personal insights, book…

00:19:55  |   Sun 07 Jul 2024
20. Chit-Chat: Our Story- How We Built a Strong Relationship Through Communication

20. Chit-Chat: Our Story- How We Built a Strong Relationship Through Communication

In this milestone 20th episode, we take a step back and share our story—how we met, what shaped our relationship, and how intentional communication has played a huge role in making our marriage stron…

00:57:10  |   Sun 07 Jul 2024
Are Your Insecurities Hurting Your Relationship? | Bonus drop for Dealing with Anxiety & Self-Doubt

Are Your Insecurities Hurting Your Relationship? | Bonus drop for Dealing with Anxiety & Self-Doubt

Do your insecurities ever create tension or confusion with your partner? In this bonus episode of "Honey, We Need to Chat," we explore a vulnerable Reddit story about relationship insecurities, anxie…

00:10:40  |   Mon 01 Jul 2024
19. How Insecurities Affect Relationships. Navigating Self-Doubt & Connection | REDDIT STORIES

19. How Insecurities Affect Relationships. Navigating Self-Doubt & Connection | REDDIT STORIES

💬 Do insecurities sabotage your relationship? Whether it’s comparing yourself to your partner, feeling unheard, or struggling with self-doubt, insecurities can creep into even the strongest relations…

00:59:39  |   Mon 01 Jul 2024
Can Retelling Your Trauma Really Heal You? | Bonus Drop Reflections On Our Debrief Intensive Trip

Can Retelling Your Trauma Really Heal You? | Bonus Drop Reflections On Our Debrief Intensive Trip

Ever wondered if reliving your past traumas could actually lead to deeper healing? In this bonus episode of "Honey, We Need to Chat," we share honest reflections from our intensive debriefing retreat…

00:11:54  |   Tue 25 Jun 2024
18. Chit-Chat: How Our Intensive Debrief Strengthened Our Marriage – Reflections from New Zealand

18. Chit-Chat: How Our Intensive Debrief Strengthened Our Marriage – Reflections from New Zealand

In this special chit-chat episode, we reflect on our transformative intensive debrief retreat in New Zealand. This deep-dive experience helped us unpack personal and relational challenges, understand…

00:23:28  |   Sun 23 Jun 2024
Is Your Partner's Health Your Responsibility? | Bonus Drop for Those Good Ol' Hard Conversations

Is Your Partner's Health Your Responsibility? | Bonus Drop for Those Good Ol' Hard Conversations

How do you approach sensitive health issues with your partner without causing hurt? In this bonus episode of Honey, We Need to Chat, we dive deep into a Reddit story where a husband struggles to disc…

00:17:50  |   Sun 16 Jun 2024
17: Navigating Tough Conversations in Relationships | REDDIT STORIES

17: Navigating Tough Conversations in Relationships | REDDIT STORIES

Ever found yourself struggling to bring up a difficult topic with your partner? In this episode, we dive into how to navigate hard conversations in relationships—without making things worse. From mis…

01:04:22  |   Sun 16 Jun 2024
Do You Know Your Partner’s REAL Love Language? | Bonus Drop for Five Love Languages Explained

Do You Know Your Partner’s REAL Love Language? | Bonus Drop for Five Love Languages Explained

Ever wondered why your partner doesn’t appreciate your thoughtful gestures as much as you'd expect? In this bonus episode of "Honey, We Need to Chat," we dive into our own Five Love Languages results…

00:18:26  |   Sun 09 Jun 2024
16. Chit-Chat: How Love Languages Can Make or Break Your Relationship

16. Chit-Chat: How Love Languages Can Make or Break Your Relationship

Do you know how your partner actually feels loved? The Five Love Languages could be the key to understanding why your efforts aren’t landing—or why your partner’s gestures don’t always feel meaningfu…

00:34:33  |   Sun 09 Jun 2024
Are You Being Emotionally Shut Out? | Bonus Drop for When Stonewalling Hurts the Relationship

Are You Being Emotionally Shut Out? | Bonus Drop for When Stonewalling Hurts the Relationship

What happens when your partner shuts down, goes cold, or walks away—especially when you're desperate for connection?

In this previously subscriber-only bonus drop, we read a raw Reddit story from some…

00:18:01  |   Wed 05 Jun 2024
15. Are You Being Ignored? The Truth About Stonewalling in Relationships | REDDIT STORIES

15. Are You Being Ignored? The Truth About Stonewalling in Relationships | REDDIT STORIES

Ever felt like your partner just shuts down during an argument? You might be dealing with stonewalling, one of the most toxic communication patterns in relationships. In this episode of Honey, We Nee…

01:09:03  |   Sun 02 Jun 2024
14. Chit-Chat: Stop Assuming Your Partner Feels Loved! | How to Improve Communication in Relationships

14. Chit-Chat: Stop Assuming Your Partner Feels Loved! | How to Improve Communication in Relationships

In this week’s chit-chat episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest relationship pitfalls: assumptions. It’s easy to assume that your partner feels loved, understood, or valued, but what if they don’…

00:26:34  |   Sun 26 May 2024
What If You're the One Not Pulling Your Weight? | Bonus Drop for Feeling Alone in Your Relationship

What If You're the One Not Pulling Your Weight? | Bonus Drop for Feeling Alone in Your Relationship

What if the mental load in your relationship is actually on your partner—and you're not sure how to help?

This bonus drop was previously for subscribers only, but now it's available to everyone. In th…

00:09:23  |   Tue 21 May 2024
Are You Carrying the Invisible Mental Load in Your Relationship? | Bonus Drop to Balancing the Mental Load

Are You Carrying the Invisible Mental Load in Your Relationship? | Bonus Drop to Balancing the Mental Load

Ever feel like you're the only one who sees the mess, remembers the appointments, or notices what needs to be done?

This bonus drop was originally a subscriber-only extra, but now it's available to ev…

00:18:22  |   Tue 21 May 2024
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