A lively conversation on the joys and challenges of parenting and marriage. A dose of humor, humility, honesty and creative solutions for normal people who want to be amazing parents and spouses.
We are talking about the words and heart around how to make sure both wives and husbands are getting a chance to really enjoy their kids (because our kids need to feel enjoyed).
It's a common theme -…
Parenting can be stressful, and we can all lose our temper. And, yelling can be hurtful for our kids. So, how do we manage our feelings and care for our children well (knowing we are going to mess up…
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We are having…
Happy New Year! While 2020 is over, many of us are still struggling with loneliness caused (or made worse) by a global pandemic. Even in the best of times, parenting can be isolating.
So, we are talki…
December and especially school break can be stressful. Here are a few ideas to avoid the worst of it and come out on the other side alive and thriving!
This episode is about how to get on the same team as parents.
***But first, a warning: This episode includes a lot of male body part innuendo (inspired by the "Schweddy Balls" SNL Skit ("NPR's Delicio…
The third and final week in a series about discipline. We discuss ideas for leading our "older kids" (from mid-elementary to middle school) through coaching, imploring, and responsibility.
This is our second week in a series about discipline. We take on the early years (say, under 8) and focus on three words that describe how to think about the challenge of leading and teaching our yo…
This week we are taking on discipline. A tough, and expansive, topic. We can't cover it all, so we take a look at four words that help frame how we can approach disciplining our children well: intent…
We all know that boundaries are good, but sometimes it is so hard to discern the right boundaries to have with our children. Today we reminder ourselves about the benefits of healthy boundaries, and …
It's been a stressful time, and we have been fighting slightly more than usual. So, it seems like a good time to talk about how our fights can be opportunities to model healthy and loving conflict wi…
We want our children to understand the natural consequences of their actions on other people so they can grow up to be caring and independent adults. We want them to be generous towards others and be…
Developing grit and perseverance as a child will help produce self-confident adults who can face challenges, overcome suffering and setbacks, and keep moving forward.
On this episode we talk about ha…
"You are over the line!"
We all remember agitating our siblings when we were kids (and maybe even now that we are adults). And, all us parents see our kids needling and agitating their sister(s) and b…
Our family had a big birthday this weekend, and so we planned on telling you all how you could do a better job of celebrating your children.
Well...
We didn't do as good a job as we thought we would. T…
We are a little discouraged right now. So, we thought we would share with you in hopes of encouraging you (at least a little). If COVID continues to be hard for you and your family, please know that …
Sharing your true feelings--even the negative ones--is a gift to your spouse. True intimacy is built on both the positive and the negative things we think and feel.
This week we tackle how it is impor…
There are many stages of parenthood that feel like they will never end, especially when our children are young. Two examples: sleep training and potty training.
This episode we talk about how to take …
What is the truth about screen time? Who knows. There is no shortage of people telling you about the intense dangers of screen time. There is so much drama and stress for parents around this topic, s…