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giving (un)bothered

Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
37 minutes
Episodes
46
Years Active
2024 - 2025
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sapphic sex : strap-ons & scissoring

sapphic sex : strap-ons & scissoring

In this episode of Let’s Get Naked, we’re getting real about sapphic sex! We dive into all the juicy details—strap-ons, scissoring, tantric sex, and some hilariously awkward sex stories. Whether you’…

00:36:28  |   Wed 12 Mar 2025
navigating your 20s: people pleasing and post break-up glow ups

navigating your 20s: people pleasing and post break-up glow ups

Your 20s are a wild ride, and in this week's episode, we’re spilling all the hard-earned lessons we’ve learned along the way. From navigating friendship breakups, realizing the importance of family t…

00:46:04  |   Wed 05 Mar 2025
LGBT+ Mental Health : OCD, Anxiety & Depression

LGBT+ Mental Health : OCD, Anxiety & Depression

In this week’s episode, Alana shares her journey of self-discovery, mental health, and embracing her identity. From being diagnosed with OCD, anxiety, and depression as a teenager to understanding ho…

00:36:42  |   Wed 26 Feb 2025
I’m not cheating, I’m networking (with Chloe Barker)

I’m not cheating, I’m networking (with Chloe Barker)

Would you stay unbothered if your partner was still close with their ex? What about “networking” on dating apps? In this episode, we’re playing a game of Bothered or Unbothered? with our guest Chloe …

00:37:16  |   Wed 19 Feb 2025
let's get naked: foot fetishes, virginity stories & sex life struggles

let's get naked: foot fetishes, virginity stories & sex life struggles

This week, we get real about everything related to sex, relationships, and all those juicy topics we’re told to avoid with another round of Let’s Get Naked. We’re talking about sex drought struggles,…

00:26:22  |   Wed 12 Feb 2025
sapphic signals: is she friendly or flirting?

sapphic signals: is she friendly or flirting?

Is she making you a mixtape… or just being nice? Does that deep eye contact mean she’s into you, or is she just an intense listener? This week, we’re diving into the chaotic world of decoding sapphic…

00:33:46  |   Wed 05 Feb 2025
Hinge icks: threesomes, thirst traps & short-term relationships

Hinge icks: threesomes, thirst traps & short-term relationships

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on the icks and dealbreakers that make us swipe left on dating apps like Hinge, Raya and Tinder. Join us as we reveal our top dating app pet peeves, discuss ho…
00:41:51  |   Wed 29 Jan 2025
why is trump obsessed with what's in our pants?

why is trump obsessed with what's in our pants?

In this episode, we unpack Trump’s two-gender policy and our thoughts on it. We also get real about homophobic encounters, how to handle them, and why some people still feel the need to show up at Pr…
00:27:20  |   Wed 22 Jan 2025
let’s get naked : sex parties, orgasms & open relationships

let’s get naked : sex parties, orgasms & open relationships

This week, we’re raising the temperature with another round of Let’s Get Naked—the ultimate card game that sparks bold, unfiltered conversations about sex, intimacy, and modern relationships. From ja…

00:39:04  |   Wed 15 Jan 2025
did I ruin the relationship?

did I ruin the relationship?

In this episode, we’re getting brutally honest about the biggest relationship mistakes we’ve made and how they’ve shaped us: 

  • That time we stayed in a toxic relationship (oops)
  • How our attachment sty…
00:34:33  |   Wed 08 Jan 2025
2024 was a hot mess, but we’re still trying

2024 was a hot mess, but we’re still trying

In this episode, we’re reflecting on the highs and lows of 2024—turning all those hot mess moments into valuable lessons. From setting boundaries to leaving behind toxic habits, we’re sharing our res…

00:35:33  |   Wed 01 Jan 2025
2024 dating unwrapped : who said dating women is easier?

2024 dating unwrapped : who said dating women is easier?

As 2024 comes to a close, we’re taking a stroll down memory lane—or should we say, the dating battlefield. In this episode, we break down our “Dating Wrapped” stats: the best moments, worst dates, un…

00:40:06  |   Thu 26 Dec 2024
let's get naked

let's get naked

This week, we’re turning up the heat with Let’s Get Naked—a provocative card game that dives into all things bedroom! We answer juicy, hilarious, and downright awkward questions about intimacy, sex, …

00:28:35  |   Wed 18 Dec 2024
attachment styles and texting: how they impact your romantic connections

attachment styles and texting: how they impact your romantic connections

In this episode of giving (un)bothered, we took a quiz to uncover our own attachment styles and reflect how they shape the way we communicate through texts. We share our personal reactions, dive into…

00:35:41  |   Wed 11 Dec 2024
Nail gun to my head & sleeping with the boss

Nail gun to my head & sleeping with the boss

In this episode, we’re sharing some of our most shocking and uncomfortable workplace experiences. Alana opens up about the time her boss crossed all kinds of boundaries. Meanwhile, Jelka spills on th…

00:42:00  |   Wed 04 Dec 2024
Weird icks & turn ons

Weird icks & turn ons

In this episode, we’re diving into the little things that give us the “ick” and the surprising quirks that make us swoon. From awkward first-date habits to oddly specific turn-ons, we’re sharing the …

00:26:36  |   Wed 27 Nov 2024
Commitment in the age of casual swipes

Commitment in the age of casual swipes

In this episode, we’re diving into what it’s like to love intensely in a world that often mistakes passion for love-bombing. Is there such a thing as being too much in modern dating? We share our own…

00:40:19  |   Thu 21 Nov 2024
Part 2: Our sexuality stories

Part 2: Our sexuality stories

Part 2: In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises…

00:34:04  |   Thu 14 Nov 2024
Part 1: Our sexuality stories

Part 1: Our sexuality stories

In this episode we're peeling back the layers and diving into our personal stories of discovering, exploring, and embracing our sexualities. Each of us shares the twists, turns, and surprises that ha…

00:35:19  |   Fri 08 Nov 2024
Bewitched or bothered?

Bewitched or bothered?

In this Halloween special, we’re mixing spooky fun with our usual girly banter! Join us as we play "Bewitched or Bothered?" where each host shares dating stories and personal experiences with a Hallo…

00:25:57  |   Wed 30 Oct 2024
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