Girls Gone Deep

Elle and Vee dive into the work of Esther Perel, a relationship expert, on relationship dynamics, how to keep things sexy and how to foster erotic desire:

1. When your partner is in their element and con…

Elle and Vee have two special guests in today's episode, Ace and Jess who share their lifestyle practices with edging and other kinky  experiences

2:32 Why edge an orgasm? What does edging do for Ace?…

Elle and Vee share their experiences and challenges of bringing a third to a weekend getaway and how they worked through being triggered.

Vee shares her fears, desires and boundaries for this episode.…

In this episode, Elle and Vee debrief on the highlights, challenges and takeaways from their most recent weekend away with their ENM friends.  

“A glimpse into a lifestyle party,” and one of the chall…

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with M, the squirt master. He shares his tips and tricks on how to make a girl squirt and the girls share their perspectives and experiences.

Vee shares her fears wi…

What is an Intimacy Inventory, and why is it important for our relationships? (1:52) Get Access  here… 

What strengths do you bring to your relationships? What is a dilemma that you carry with you? (5…

Elle and Vee chat with their friend Kit, who grew up in a strict religious home. The girls chat about their formative sexual experiences and messages they received about sex early on in their lives, …

In this episode, the girls sit down with Slutlana, who is Elle and her husband M's best friend and girlfriend.  They cover a range of topics, including:

What’s it like being a third for a married coup…

What happens when you’ve had the same group of ENM friends for years? 

In this episode, Vee and Elle sit down with M to chat about the catch-22 of having sex with your friends: how sometimes you sacri…

In this episode, Elle and Vee talk all things CUM, including 

Ejaculating vs Squirting: and is there pee in squirt juice? (2:54)

Taste: modifying your own taste, and what affects it. (10:36)

Male ejacul…

In this episode, Elle and Vee cover a range of topics, from dealing with the emotions of multiple partners in threesomes and foursomes, questioning how to be an ethical porn consumer, and recapping V…

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things pornography, from their use of it to their first exposure to it, including: 

How do you use porn? Authenticity in porn, “daddy” and age play, searching…

In this episode, Elle and Vee and their monogamous friends answer each others’ questions, including: 

What does the word vanilla mean to you, and is it offensive? (2:40)

What do you think of when you t…

In this episode, Elle and Vee recap their weekend at Baconfest 2023 at their friends' house at the Jersey Shore. It was a mixture of ENM and vanilla couples, which lead to some interesting dynamics. …

In this episode, Elle and Vee sit down with Tricia Wise, aka Safe.Slut, who is a sex activist (Instagram @safe.slut), an OnlyFans content creator (safeslvt), and sex toy business owner (safeslut.shop…

In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Holly, who gives the perspective of a single twenty-something in the ethically non-monogamous dating scene in NYC, juxtaposing the girls’ married and partnered…

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss all things boundaries and agreements in open relationships, from the early rules they had when they entered the lifestyle, to how they evolved them.  They get in…

In this episode, Elle and Vee were inspired to chat about the alternative dating apps and websites that have worked for them in the lifestyle, including:

Feeld: what’s so special about this dating app…

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up on Elle’s trip to Florida with the Joy Fam, while Vee was at a monogamous friend’s wedding… which prompts the girls to go deep on weddings, divorce, and what it…

In this episode, Elle and Vee discuss what turns them on based on Dr. Emily Morse’s (@sexwithemily) article, “These Are the 5 Arousal Styles, Which One Are You?” The girls also go super deep and shar…