Finding the Guardian of Your Soul
Listen, as love coach and heart-opening expert, Lisa Shield, shares the revolutionary approach she gives her successful female clients to attract an amazing partner who is on their level and wants to enjoy everything life has to offer with them. Lisa and her husband, Benjamin Shield Ph.D., have been passionately in love for 19 years. Every Tuesday DWD offers Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind, where the two of them bust common dating myths, give you a window into their unconditionally loving relationship, and show you how to attract a Guardian of Your Soul for the rest of your life.
Thursday episodes, Lisa explores topics, and answers those burning q's from listeners longing to become emotionally naked daters!
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- Update frequency
- every 7 days
- Average duration
- 38 minutes
- Episodes
- 216
- Years Active
- 2021 - 2025
GITRMM ep 31: What Taking 100% Personal Responsibility in Your Relationship REALLY Looks Like
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Why would Lisa do away with the therapeutic model of dating?
- What does it mean to take 100% personal responsibility in your relationship?
- Taking personal responsibili…
When You Aren’t Ready For Him, That Greatest Guy Will Simply Be Your Latest Guy
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- We want to be optimistic and tell ourselves that we are growth-minded, but if we don’t have the right tools, we will keep needing to learn the same lessons over and o…
Do You Lose YourSELF in Relationships?
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- How do we maintain our autonomy in a relationship?
- What does it look like to lose yourself and your identity in a relationship, and how do hormones and anxiety play a…
Why It's So Hard to Meet the Right Guy
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- What are some of the top excuses women give for not finding the right man?
- How do you know if YOU are emotionally and spiritually ready to call in The Guardian of YOU…
What Hollywood and Disney Movies Forgot To Tell You About Love
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- When we look at most relationships, we don’t see the kind of love that TV and the movies have told us we deserve.
- How does the fantasy of love leave people disappoint…
Self-Sabotage and Overcoming Your Fear of Dating
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- What are the ways we self-sabotage our own success, whether it’s in a career, or finding and keeping a good man.
- How can you get past self-sabotage?
- Why do we even se…
A Few Good Men: The Importance of Dating Multiple Guys At Once!
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- From The Four Agreements, not taking anything personally and not making assumptions are such powerful habits for dating.
- Why women find it so difficult to date multip…
What a Guardian Of Your Soul Can Bring To Your Life, If You Let Them.
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- When looking for a coach or mentor, be sure to choose someone who has something you want, who can model how they got there and they do it in a style that speaks to yo…
GITRMM ep 29: This One’s For the Men!
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Instead of realizing that it is their pattern and their doing, avoidant men will often lead women to believe it’s their fault.
- The cycle of a man leaving when he feel…
Special Guests Debbie & Marc Share How They Found Each Other, Why it Works, & How Their Age Difference Isn’t a Factor
This week, Lisa welcomes Debbie, a shining example of what happens when you follow the steps in Lisa’s 12-week Emotionally Naked Dating coaching program and put in the work. You find the Guardian of …
GITRMM ep 28: How to Rev Him Up, Slow Him Down, and Get Your Playful Side On
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Can a man really feel the subtle energies of masculine and feminine on a date?
- A dream date that lasted for hours, yet he never called! What’s up with that?
- What is b…
The Tale of Two Women
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- The first woman showed signs of an emotional bypass. What exactly is that?
- Acknowledging your feelings doesn’t mean you have to spiral into a dark place. It just mean…
GITRMM ep 27: Making Room For An Amazing Relationship
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Yes, it’s possible to have a full life with hobbies, family, and friends, but the Guardian of Your Soul will desire a relationship as a priority.
- How does your inabil…
Should You Stay Friends With Your Ex?
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Yes, it really does matter why you broke up when determining if you should still be friends with your ex.
- The clear boundaries to set when staying friends - not frien…
GITRMM ep 26: Translating the 5 Love Languages and Adding a Few More!
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Why has this book and movement struck a chord in so many people?
- Lisa and Benjamin break down the 5 Love Languages: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of servic…
When Searching for a Partner, Expect the Unexpected
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Is your version of how your man “should be” holding you back from meeting a really great guy?
- Why you should broaden your view of what a successful, spiritual, and we…
GITRMM ep 25- Analysis Paralysis: How Over-Strategizing Is Sabotaging You and Your Love Life!
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- What does over-strategizing look like? How does it show up in ways you may not have thought about or noticed?
- Dating feels so stressful! How can I have fun and actual…
Meeting a Man IRL - Yes It’s Still Possible!
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Okay, so where can you really meet people out in the real world?
- How can you and your other single friends help set each other up? What about your friends already in …
GITRMM ep 24: But What Does “Doing the Work” Mean Exactly?
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Why “working on yourself” doesn’t always guarantee that the work will translate over to your relationship.
- What most people have wrong about “doing the work” and why …
Why It's Important to Stay Present As You Age
What You’ll Hear In This Episode:
- Instead of denying the aging process, how can you embrace it?
- What has Lisa learned in her 60 years that she wishes she could tell her younger self?
- Ask yourself - wh…