et cetera with Bouge & Rouge

Your girl is back and doing this a little differently today! You've asked for the tea, so I served you Long Island Iced Tea. In this extended episode, I share with you why I've been MIA for 4 months …

There are two things that are always & forever: 1) the To All The Boys saga tugging at my heart strings 2) needing help with dating woes. In episode 17, I talk about the different phases you go throu…

Tale as old as time, there's always the story of a beauty and the beast. But in modern times, the love story seems to be between their D and their m-f-ing audacity. The highly requested dating episod…

It's crazy just how much we still obsess over our image and reputation when we know what others see online or in passing are not accurate representations of who we are as individuals. As nice as it i…

Today we talk about conflicts in the workplace, with friends, with family, and when dealing with politics. While I don't go into the topics of this election, I use the conflicts that politics in 2020…

Raise your hand if you've ever been personally victimized by your own art self-sabotaging? In the second episode of season two, we catch up on what's been going on around me the last two weeks and ab…

BIENVENUE TO SEASON TWO! Season one was cute and all, but I'm back and doing things a little differently this time. Let's be honest: polish is for my shoes and my 9-to-5 job, NOT for my creative plat…

Whoops, I'm like 6 weeks late here but we're finally at the season one finale episode! (Don't worry, because I took a long break I will launch season two very soon.) Today's episode is a shorter one.…

**NOTE: This episode was recorded on SUNDAY, MAY 31, 2020 and my thoughts on the events up until that day. For my current stance, please visit the BLM highlights on my Instagram @bougeandrouge.** Tod…

In today's short episode, I catch you guys up a little on what I've been doing this quarantine, the skills I'm trying to learn, and what new content I will be creating on my other platforms. After th…

Drink every time I say "you know?" in this podcast... Sorry guys haha! Anyways, Lara Jean isn't the only one with lovers of the past! Quarantine is bringing out some of our subconscious thoughts or t…

March Madness just took on a whole new meaning in 2020. In this special episode, I open the conversation on current events for the first time on the podcast. We are witnessing history repeat itself i…

In light of all the events that have occurred both in the world and personal life thus far in 2020, we are continuing to keep it light here on et cetera. Today let's spend just a few minutes addressi…

Bonjour mes chéries, Bianca here. Erica needed a break from the bullsh*t so she asked me to take over this week for a fun story time episode. Thanks to follower submissions, we are ranking our spirit…

We spend our whole lives feeling controlled by time whether it's too much of it or not enough of it, yet we are the ones that created the concept of it. We always want more of it but waste it frequen…

It's almost Valentine's Day, also known as Single Awareness Day or the most hated day of the year! You know what topic is coming...dating. Dating in New York City is an Olympic sport of its own. For …

Happy Lunar New Year/新年快樂 everyone! After a two week hiatus, we are back to chat about mental health. In this episode, I share my mental health journey thus far from childhood till adulthood. As you …

Happy New Year, mes chéries! Let's kick off the new year with my resolutions. In this episode, I'm elaborating on my most recent blog post: https://www.bougeandrouge.com/newyear2020. We'll chat about…

For the last episode of the year/decade (depending on how dramatic you want to be), I sit down and do my year in review. After a long few years filled with strings of heartbreaks and breakdowns, 2019…

Unlike previous episodes, I did not have notes or hit pause once during this stream of consciousness so listen at your own caution! In this very raw and unfiltered episode, I share with you the retur…