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This episode was therapy for me. It took actual therapy, a failed Jack'd encounter, and some introspection for me to see one of my deepest issues in dating. Enjoy.

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Saturday night at a sex party-->Sunday morning at church-->Monday afternoon epiphany moments.

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It's crazy that a trip to the mall, ten years ago, with my ex-boyfriend Thomas would lead me to this aha moment at my big-big-age.

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I had horrible s*x with two people that taught me some huge lessons.

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I asked a simple question about sex in the group and we jumped in the comments to give our pair of pennies. But what came up was a discussion about self, connection and relationship that I didn't ex…

Have you ever heard something that sounded right, but it took you a little while before you actually got the lesson? That was me in this conversation with Hakim Asadi. He talked about closure in on…

I asked this question the other day about first dates, hopefully attempting to get some clarity on how to have better ones. Then I remember, "I'm the FIRST DATE GURU".

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First, thank you to all our listeners and subscribers. We're coming up on 7500 monthly downloads. For a new show that's only 15 minutes long, that's a BIG DEAL.

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I asked this question in our Dear Black Gay Men Insiders group and the conversation was...interesting. Somehow "talking to" became the plot...perpetrated by Millenials...to get us caught up IN THE B…

I asked this question about talking to someone and got so many responses about commitment. Reading through got me to thinking about a particular minister that I used to crush on...and why I used to …

I've interviewed bottoms asking them what they wish tops understood. Then last week, I talked to a top who had his own "things bottoms should know". But, this is my take as a vers who doesn't bottom …

You go out on a date, what do you expect the next day? A good morning text? Some sweet nothings in your DMs? That was me, secretly wanting him to fawn over me on date two. But this date with "Brandon…

I advocate for the single life because a purposeful single life leads to purposeful, fulfilling relationships. I learned that lesson from a whole host of failed dating attempts. These are the nugge…

If nothing else, I am consistent. Stood up for a date so I started a podcast. Stood up again by the same dude, must mean season 2. Another failed dating attempt, must mean it's time to get back to…

It was an ass appointment that reminded me of a preacher with a Jheri curl. Long story, but a good lesson.

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If you’ve ever been ghosted, it can be hard to pick up the pieces especially if you were really cutting for this man. When I got ghosted, luckily, I knew it was his loss, but it still hurt. This is m…

I’ve dated men who were EXCITING and that made me EXCITED to be around them. Then I dated men who were just a date. Because I’ve been on both ends of the excited-ness spectrum, I’m pretty good at pul…

Even though I’m healed now, I’m guilty as anyone else of hurting people in my past. This episode is my story of figuring out what gaslighting is, how I gaslit my ex, and what I did to overcome it—my …

After recording this one, I've realized that I dedicated a lot of energy to "Joe" for one reason. This episode, I'm talking through how I learned that it's way past time to move on.

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