Dating Unsettled

Listen to this episode if you hate "going with the flow." or if the phrase "let's just see what happens" triggers you when dating. Also listen to the sound of Joy's distant chewing/mukbang, lunch was…

In this ridiculously titled episode, Joy kekes enthusiastically with Renise Alexander (that's that curly girl rae!) from The Black Roses and Married At First Sight "Unmatchables." They discuss the up…

In this episode about Black Men in History, we pay homage to the finest black men who have made a lasting impact on American society. From civil rights leaders, to entrepreneurs --- JK! Hahahah this …

In this week's episode, Joy sits down with Instagram and TikTok creator and human being Andrew Licout (@andrewlicout) to discuss how to maintain a strong sense of self and hold onto your personal pre…

Where do straight men go looking for love? What do they struggle with? Joy sits down with Shayne, the short form comedy-loving single straight Black and notable Hispanic man who's decided to take his…

In this episode of the Dating Unsettled show, host Joy shares her personal experience with hardballing in dating and how it ultimately led to finding a partner. She explains the concept of hardballin…

In this episode of the Dating Unsettled show, we speak with Zoya about the coveted culture around Pakistani-American dating. Zoya shares her personal experiences navigating the traditional expectatio…

In this episode, Joy sits down with Jacque to discuss her experience dating in America as a Nigerian immigrant-kid and how it differs from Western dating culture. Jacque opens up about her experience…

In this episode, Joy responds to an Unsettler's DM about tips for starting a long distance relationship. Long distance relationships can SUCK, but they can also be rewarding and fulfilling if everyon…

Are you a late bloomer in the dating world? Do you feel like you're constantly playing catch-up with your peers when it comes to finding love and romance? In this episode, we'll be joined by special …

Making herself a target of the femcels, Joy falls on a sword to wiggle into that tiny cavity of your brain that has convinced you shooting your shot with men is unacceptable. She responds to a letter…

Joy interviews @hopelessromanticsociety host and creator Jahad (J.C.) Carter - J.C. has reached over 33 million people with his on-the-street interviews of New Yorkers who may or may not be down bad …

Joy interviews a friend who experienced infidelity during her engagement and surprisingly wanted to stay. Until she didn't. Meet Brijet Finister (The Faith Filled Femme). She writes in a recent blog …

In this bonus episode, Joy responds to an Unsettler's DM. This Unsettler is concerned about prioritizing someone while studying for a master's degree.

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Have you been developing a pros and cons list about a complete stranger you met on a dating app? In the talking stage and wondering if your interaction is failing or bound for relationship greatness?…

This week, Joy reminds you that you are NOT a Clock and you don’t owe anybody an overstay of their time in your dating life. Join her as she examines societal demands on underrepresented daters to be…

Welcome Unsettlers! This week’s episode is all about Joy’s online dating origin story. Join her as she discusses why she plunged into the online dating scene in the middle of the pandemic, how her tr…

Welcome to the Dating Unsettled Show where we dare to date differently hosted by Joy Ofodu, a Creative Executive who has reached millions of people with my original comedy content, voiceover and orig…