Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men

Do you ever feel like your wife doesn’t notice all you do? You work hard, provide, show up - and yet you’re left feeling unseen and unappreciated.

This episode is all about unspoken expectations in m…

Back rubs aren’t working anymore - and deep down, you know why.

In this episode, I’ll break down why back rubs have stopped leading to sex, the damaging myth that “she’d enjoy it if she just gave in,…

If you and your wife are living like roommates - or even sleeping in separate bedrooms - you probably feel shut out, rejected, and discouraged. But the truth is, the bedroom isn’t the problem. It’s a…

If your go-to line is “It’s fine, I’ll handle it,” you might be slipping into martyr mode - the pouty, moody bid for care that actually pushes her away. In this episode, I break down why that move er…

Your wife isn’t just asking you to do more chores - she’s asking you to be her partner. In this episode, I talk about what it really means to show up in your marriage beyond providing financially.

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Feel like your wife is always criticizing you?

Like you can’t say anything without it turning into a fight?

This episode will challenge that instinct to defend - and help you see what’s really going …

For a lot of men, sex becomes the only place they feel truly wanted - where they feel liked, seen, or appreciated. But when intimacy only shows up in the bedroom, and it’s tied to performance or pres…

You’re helping out, being thoughtful, trying to be a good man—so why does sex still feel distant, cold, or transactional?

In this episode, I unpack why obligation sex leaves both partners feeling wor…

If your marriage feels stuck, cold, or disconnected, this episode will help you see why.
The truth? Your wife isn’t the only issue. Even if she’s distant, critical, or shut down, there’s more going o…

You work hard. You provide. You push yourself to do more—because deep down, you’ve been taught that your worth is tied to your productivity.

But what happens when doing more still doesn’t feel like e…

She says you should just know.
You ask what’s wrong, and she says, “If I have to tell you, it doesn’t count.”
You’re trying. You’re not trying to fail. But it feels like you can never get it right.

I…

If you’ve ever thought, “This would be so much easier if she would just change,” this episode is for you.

You’ve backed off. You’ve done more. You’ve kept the peace.
And still - you feel unseen, unwa…

You were never taught how to feel - only how to hide.

Maybe it was your dad, your coach, or just the way people looked at you when you got upset… but at some point, you got the message loud and clear…

Some couples fight. Others go silent.

Either way - conflict without connection just leaves you both feeling more alone.

In this episode, we’ll break down what’s really happening when your arguments g…

If you keep hoping your wife will change - how she responds, what she gives, how close she feels - you’ll keep getting stuck.

The truth is, waiting for her to shift first usually leads to resentment,…

Let’s talk about emotional immaturity - and how it’s showing up in the way you communicate.

If you give your wife the silent treatment, if you crack jokes that are actually criticism, if you pull awa…

If you’ve ever felt disappointed on Father’s Day - or any day that was supposed to be about you - this episode is for you.

We’re talking about the quiet frustration that comes from feeling overlooked…

Ever find yourself snapping at your wife - or pulling away - then wondering, “Why did I react like that?”

You don’t want to lose it, but it keeps happening. And afterward, the silence or shame just d…

In this short opening episode, I want to talk to the man who’s been carrying a quiet frustration.

The one doing his best - but still feeling like the intimacy is gone.

Maybe you’re barely having sex …

You want more appreciation, more intimacy, more connection…
But what does she want?

In this episode, we’re breaking down the three things your wife actually wants from you - not just in theory, but i…