Crash Courses in Communication with Alex Perry

Have you ever wondered how you're "supposed" to respond to a compliment? Do you have to give one back? What if you don't know what to say? It's OK to wonder, and I'm here to help.

Saying thank you is…

Today we’re talking about a question that will help you make better decisions and build resiliency.  I’m guessing you're a bit like me, I think. You're interested in personal development, on a perpet…

Good to great doesn't happen overnight, with a silver bullet, or in one magical manifested moment.  Dang it. Wish I had a magic wand for that one!  Average only becomes excellent with consistency.  …

I don’t know who originally said this, but hell is getting to the end of your life and meeting the person you could've become.  

Think about that for a moment. 

I think about how much I don’t want to…

"It's better not to say anything." Man, oh man, does this lie keep us from some important conversations. Before we dive into why we tell ourselves (or others) this lie let's make sure it’s really a l…

The lie that gets uttered across workplaces across the world "I do all the work, and they get all the credit." It seems like a simple, clear-cut statement on the surface; someone else is getting cred…

Today we are tackling the question…is it ever OK to ramble? 

OK, now I can't get the Rambling Man out of my head. Thanks, Allman Brothers. I mean, it's a different kind of rambling. But still. Have …

Asking is awkward. We stumble around our words or avoid asking because sometimes it seems easier to do without. There are times when I say to myself... "I don't really need help; I can handle this o…

I thought it was time to do a little series, and I'm excited to talk with you about the lies we tell at work because we lie, ya know? Now there are all kinds of lies that we tell, but I think some of…

Today we’re talking about whether you should use notes when you present.

The struggle is real. If you’ve presented, you’ve probably wondered how is it OK to use notes? Am I going to look like a dork …

If you want to be direct, lead with what you need. (how's that for direct?)  It sounds simple, yet it can be a struggle for many. It's difficult to lead with what we need because it feels risky.  It …

Today we’re talking about one reason you’re misunderstood. This one is going to smack you in the head like “duh”.

One reason you’re misunderstood is because you’re using words that people don’t under…

Giving your boss feedback can be scary. Your boss makes decisions that impact your pay, job responsibilities, and promotions.

Your boss is human, too. They're bound to make mistakes and operate in im…

How do you handle humiliation at work? A client emailed me asking about handling humiliation at work. He described how he's been working hard on his presence with his team. He's been personally and p…

When was the last time you heard a phrase like this?  "The meeting was a complete train wreck." "Bob is a disaster in front of clients."  "I'll never find the right candidate."  Really? Did a tr…

Today's topic comes from my client Kiley who is passionate about her speaking and presentation skills. Kiley coaches sales professionals and wanted to know what filler words are, why we use them, and…

How do you say no when it "feels" like you're going to disappoint your boss?

Here are three tips that will help;

Prioritize your schedule and workload

You can't do everything. Block off time for cri…

Sometimes, it's hard to know what to do with your handy dandy hands when you’re talking. Especially when you’re doing something that feels important, like presenting, interviewing, or networking with…

Here are three things to consider before you add humor to your presentation.

1.) Am I a funny person?

Some folks feel or get pressure to "be funny." They think, "If I'm funny, my audience will like m…