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Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find Love

Welcome to the Charisma Quotient hosted by dating, makeover and confidence expert, Kimmy Seltzer. Each week, learn from Kimmy and other experts about how to build confidence from the outside, in. She’s consulted thousands of people to revamp their style, boost their confidence and most importantly, find love. Her lighthearted, down-to-earth and practical approach brings a fun and knowledgeable style to the podcast. She alternates the podcast with solo episodes highlighting various topics, interviewing experts, reading questions and answering them with surprising answers and live coaching sessions.

Relationships Arts Society & Culture Dating Love Fashion & Beauty
Update frequency
every 7 days
Average duration
37 minutes
Episodes
411
Years Active
2017 - 2025
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Intentional Dating at Any Age: Coaching with Kimmy

Intentional Dating at Any Age: Coaching with Kimmy

Have you ever wondered what it truly means to date with intention—and not just to find a partner, but to rediscover playfulness, joy, and your own self-worth?  In Episode 409 of The Charisma Quotient…

00:44:47  |   Fri 05 Sep 2025
Communication Secrets That Spark Attraction: Interview with Jess Jensen

Communication Secrets That Spark Attraction: Interview with Jess Jensen

Do you ever wonder why first impressions spark connections—or cause instant shut-downs? Are you struggling to translate your real-life personality into your digital presence?  In Episode 408 of The C…

00:41:44  |   Thu 28 Aug 2025
Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce & The Secret to Love: Compersion vs. Jealousy

Taylor Swift, Travis Kelce & The Secret to Love: Compersion vs. Jealousy

Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce made headlines this week thanks to the heartwarming reaction of Travis and his brother, Jason Kelce, as they celebrated Taylor’s new album, The Life of a Showgirl. Relat…

00:29:35  |   Fri 22 Aug 2025
The 6 Dirty “F” words and Identifying Red Flags in Relationships: Interview with Sarah Intelligator

The 6 Dirty “F” words and Identifying Red Flags in Relationships: Interview with Sarah Intelligator

Have you ever looked back at a breakup and wondered: Did I really miss those red flags, or was I ignoring what I didn’t want to see? Do your relationships seem to fall into similar patterns—leaving y…

00:41:23  |   Fri 15 Aug 2025
Dating In Your 40s (And Beyond):  Special Dateable Edition

Dating In Your 40s (And Beyond): Special Dateable Edition

Are you navigating the dating world in your 40s—or beyond—and wondering why things feel so different? You’re not alone! In Episode 406 of The Charisma Quotient, “Dating In Your 40's (And Beyond):  Sp…

00:51:33  |   Fri 08 Aug 2025
ICYMI: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game

ICYMI: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game

Feeling like your dating life is stuck in a rut? You’re not alone! In Episode 405 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: Top 6 Tips to Up Your Dating Game” Kimmy guides you through the essential steps to …

00:26:51  |   Fri 01 Aug 2025
Cosmic Compatibility:  Secrets to Lasting Love with Carol Allen

Cosmic Compatibility: Secrets to Lasting Love with Carol Allen

Have you ever felt pulled toward someone by an invisible force, only to watch the connection fizzle out over time? Or wondered why you keep attracting the same type of partner, despite your best inte…

00:43:20  |   Wed 23 Jul 2025
Empowered Dating: Interview with Brad Walsh

Empowered Dating: Interview with Brad Walsh

What does it really mean to be empowered as a woman in today’s world—and how does it show up in your relationships, dating life, and even your own sense of self?  In Episode 403 of The Charisma Quoti…

00:40:49  |   Fri 18 Jul 2025
When Sex Feels Like Love: Breaking the Cycle of Fast-Tracked Intimacy

When Sex Feels Like Love: Breaking the Cycle of Fast-Tracked Intimacy

Sometimes sex feels like love or chemistry but that is not the only kind of intimacy there is.  But you might get caught in a cycle where you are leading with sex to get a connection and in the end n…

00:50:30  |   Thu 10 Jul 2025
Dating Without Attachment: Lisa’s Dating Transformation Journey

Dating Without Attachment: Lisa’s Dating Transformation Journey

Have you ever felt like you were on the outside looking in—guarded by fear, overwhelmed by old patterns, or unsure how to take that first step back into dating after heartbreak or disappointment? In …

00:49:40  |   Wed 02 Jul 2025
400th Episode Special: Confidence Hacks That Turn Dates Into Love

400th Episode Special: Confidence Hacks That Turn Dates Into Love

Join Kimmy as she celebrates 400 episodes of client coaching calls, solo episodes, talking with experts, and hearing success stories from people who have worked with Kimmy In Episode 400 of The Chari…

01:19:23  |   Mon 23 Jun 2025
Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley

Beyond the Swipe: How to Meet People in Real Life with Jena Kingsley

Have you ever wanted to strike up a conversation with a stranger—at a coffee shop, in line at the store, or on a first date—but felt totally tongue-tied or worried you’d seem awkward? In Episode 399 …

00:41:41  |   Fri 13 Jun 2025
How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life:  Coaching with Kimmy

How Self-Worth Sabotages Your Dating Life: Coaching with Kimmy

Do you ever wonder how your self-worth is secretly impacting your dating life? Are you stuck in the same painful patterns—chasing the unavailable, feeling unworthy, or never quite connecting with the…

00:38:57  |   Thu 05 Jun 2025
Why you keep attracting the wrong people:  Uncovering your love blocks with Orna and Matthew Walters

Why you keep attracting the wrong people: Uncovering your love blocks with Orna and Matthew Walters

Have you ever found yourself thinking, “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?” Or maybe you’re out there dating, putting yourself out there, but it just never seems to click or you think there a…

00:49:06  |   Thu 29 May 2025
5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40

5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40

Ever feel like no matter how much you’ve accomplished, lasting love is still just out of reach? In Episode 396 of The Charisma Quotient, “5 Hidden Shields That Block Love After 40" Kimmy peels back t…

00:29:24  |   Fri 23 May 2025
Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Jeff

Finding Love After Divorce: Where Are They Now with Jeff

Are you ready to hear a transformative love story that will light a spark of hope and motivation in your own dating journey—no matter where you’re starting from?  In Episode 395 of The Charisma Quoti…

00:36:25  |   Thu 15 May 2025
Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman

Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Danielle Harel & Celeste Hirschman

Did you know intimacy is a skill that is a learnable, empowering skill?  In Episode 394 of The Charisma Quotient, “Why Intimacy Is a Skill—Not Just Chemistry: Reclaiming Desire & Connection with Dani…

00:39:27  |   Thu 08 May 2025
ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?

ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?

Why do we keep finding ourselves in the same frustrating dating patterns, no matter how much we try to shake things up? In Episode 393 of The Charisma Quotient, “ICYMI: What Is Your Dating Archetype?…

00:40:50  |   Thu 01 May 2025
Stop Dating the Wrong People: Decode Your Conflict Style with Dr. John Elliot

Stop Dating the Wrong People: Decode Your Conflict Style with Dr. John Elliot

The key to lasting love is more than just chemistry, it’s really knowing how you (and your partner) handle conflict. It’s communication, emotional intelligence and how you handle stress that builds a…

00:39:04  |   Thu 17 Apr 2025
Fear of Abandonment in Dating: Why You Push Love Away ~ Coaching With Kimmy

Fear of Abandonment in Dating: Why You Push Love Away ~ Coaching With Kimmy

Are your past experiences getting in your way when it comes to dating? Specifically you may have a fear of abandonment that stems from childhood which is the reason you push people away subconsciousl…

00:53:55  |   Wed 09 Apr 2025
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