Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast
I've been told my whole life that I'm a little blunt, not sharp, blunt. I simply lack the finesse required for sharpness. Maybe it's because I'm a Sagittarius or the fact that I am a sensitive bitch, nonetheless my mind is both a scary and enlightened place, sometimes my mind is kind to me, sometimes it hates me. I sometimes like it here, I sometimes don't, and the older I get the more I'm fucking okay with that. I don't have all the answers, nor do I claim to (well to be fair sometimes I really do have the answers, I just don't like them). I'm on a learning, discovering, and enlightenment journey. I have questions, many questions, for life and the experiences it encompasses. Something I say a lot is the expression "that makes no sense" and usually it slips, sometimes I scream it out, sometimes under my breath when I come to the realization that there is a bigger picture. That many of the things we are raised to believe make sense really don't. I love love these moments because it means I've been given a chance to learn, listen, and grow from someone's story, experiences, and existence. In these moments my mind got bigger, my capacity for understanding and knowledge expounded and my empathy beamed. So this podcast will simply be me asking a lot of questions, talking, and learning about whatever I want. So come along! You may agree or you may disagree BUT just remember life is full of glitter and glue and we ebb and we flow!
Relationships
Sexuality
Parenting
Music
Love
Dating
Philosophy
Culture
Fun
Sex
Religion
Women
Books
Growth
Life
Society
Careers
Empowerment
Pop Culture
Anxiety
Money
Mental Health
Marriage
Psychology
Society & Culture
Personal Journals
Stories
- Update frequency
- every 6 days
- Average duration
- 64 minutes
- Episodes
- 30
- Years Active
- 2020 - 2022
The Final Episode: Ending the Podcast, Starting Anew and Walking In The Flow of My Purpose
Saying goodbye is never an easy thing, and saying goodbye to something that was created by my own hands, for my own survival and growth is even more difficult. But it's time to let go and move on to …
00:39:09 |
Wed 19 Jan 2022
Ep. #29| Booktober Series: The Book That Saved My Life Ft Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a worl…
00:50:38 |
Fri 15 Oct 2021
Ep. #28|Lessons I've Learned From My Favorite Books Ft 12 Rules For Life By Jordan B Peterson
It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a worl…
00:54:16 |
Fri 08 Oct 2021
Ep. #27|Ft Kemelo “Kemi” Sehlapelo: Reconstructing a Sexual Identity After Sexual Assault, Navigating Self-Healing Amidst Echoes of Stigma
As a woman, perhaps my biggest fear is having something sexual or violent been done to my body without my consent, on the backdrops of the #metoo movement, the continuous degradation and disregard fo…
01:59:11 |
Fri 01 Oct 2021
Ep. #26| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Wendy Weng: Between Two Worlds, Growing Up In A Traditional Conservative Chinese Family In The US
Growing up between two worlds with clear-cut and distinguishable differences in values, cultural norms and expectations can be a jarring game of navigation and simultaneous assimilation. This is true…
01:20:41 |
Fri 24 Sep 2021
Ep. #25| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 2: Sexual Liberation & Understanding Dialogue Nuance Within Sex Positivity
There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one …
01:15:00 |
Fri 17 Sep 2021
Ep. #24| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 1: Discovering Sexual Identity Against the Backdrops of Religion & African Conservativism
There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one …
01:18:31 |
Fri 10 Sep 2021
Ep. #23| Sexy September Sex Series: Growing Up With a Sex Complex, My Hoe Phase and Discovering My Sexual Voice
Growing up my mum used to always tell us that "you never taste the penis, if you do you won't be able to stop because it's so good". Random right? She instilled both fear and desire at the same time.…
00:45:13 |
Fri 03 Sep 2021
Ep. #22| Value and Worth, Where Does Your Value and Worth Come From, I'm Finding Society Attributes and Attaches These To Some Of The More Arbitrary Stuff
Perfection is truly the disease of our society and like Queen, B said "it's the soul that needs a surgery". In today's episode I talk about worth and value, where does my worth and value come from? C…
00:42:18 |
Fri 27 Aug 2021
Ep. #21| Mental Health: I'm Trying To Not Be Dealing With The Same Shit and Trauma Into My 30s, Trying To Kill My Ego, The Ego Death Experience
There is a beauty I have come to find in suffering. The other day I sat on my toilet seat 🤣😎 (TMI) but whatever), reminiscing, and found myself being actually appreciative and grateful for the very d…
00:48:15 |
Wed 25 Aug 2021
Ep. #20 | Discipline, How I lack It and How It's Holding Me Back. Gosh Should I Just Confess That I Do Laziness Better?
It's FRIDAY the 13TH and I have decided to HAUNT myself today 😂😂😂. I just feel like I have made a life choice to soak, dwell and bathe in laziness. Yes, I am on Spring break after wrapping up a very …
00:49:49 |
Thu 12 Aug 2021
Ep. #19.2 | Miscarriages: The Difficult Healing Process, What Men and Spouses Go Through, Coming Out the Other Side Ft Ndamu
The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's al…
01:24:36 |
Sat 07 Aug 2021
Ep. #19.1 | Miscarriages: The Shame That Follows and Why Women Don’t Talk About It, A Harmful Reality Ft Ndamu
The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's al…
01:30:23 |
Tue 27 Jul 2021
Ep. #18.2 | The Devaluation of Anger, Cancel Culture, Objective Truths vs Subjective Realities Ft Natale
Has society always been this angry? Or is something else at play? Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has a…
01:15:21 |
Sat 24 Jul 2021
Ep. #18.1 | Cancel Culture, The Current Illusion of Moral Superiority & The Devaluation of Anger Ft Natale
Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has also seen a rise in online social wars, echo-chamber debates and co…
01:33:19 |
Tue 20 Jul 2021
Ep. #17 | Oh South Africa, This is What Happens When The Chickens Come Home To Roost, Why Are We So Surprised?
The truth shall set you free, but first, it will piss you off. So, here we are...this episode was not on my episode list, I could not have prepared for this episode until this week, nonetheless, the …
00:59:07 |
Fri 16 Jul 2021
Ep. #16 | Sex for Grades A case study on Ghana, On the backdrops of African traditional gender roles, internalized misogyny, female genital mutilation Ft. Tshima
She's back! Welcome back! My sister and I are back in this two-episode special. In this episode, we dig into how sex-for grades have become a thing in Africa and how men are using their positions of …
01:54:43 |
Fri 09 Jul 2021
Ep. #15 | The Objectification and Over-sexualization of Women, the Role Social Media Plays and the Power of the Male Gaze ft Tshima
This episode is one for the books, featuring arguably my favorite person in the world talking about a topic that we are both very curious and interested in. You know you cannot scroll through Instagr…
01:43:11 |
Tue 06 Jul 2021
Ep. #14 | Free Britney, We fucked all the way up on Britney Spears, Society's stigmatization of Mental Health, We FAILED.
It's Britney Bitch! That very saying proves that the Princess of POP has been conquering and overcoming all the bullshit thrown her way for decades. The pop-culture expression "if Britney Spears coul…
01:11:55 |
Fri 25 Jun 2021
Ep. #10 | Adulting Is Destroying My Life, When You Realize You Are Toxic and Your Toxic Traits & Recognizing Duality
It's been three weeks since the last podcast and that's because life has been kicking my ass. In today's topic, I discuss what adulting means to me, what is adulting? Am I successfully adulting? How …
00:57:11 |
Mon 17 May 2021
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