According To Wes
Finding the humor in everyday life and trying to understand what that means to me.
Join me on this never ending journey of self improvement and reflection with the help of friends.
- Update frequency
- every 11 days
- Average duration
- 59 minutes
- Episodes
- 60
- Years Active
- 2023 - 2025
Wes & DeLaw | My Robot Husband
Have you ever been compared to someone else in your relationship? That sinking feeling when your partner suggests you should be "more like" someone from their past is something many of …
The Unglamorous Superpower That Will Change Everything
Ever wondered why some people seem to navigate life's challenges with grace while others constantly bounce from one crisis to another? The difference might be a virtue we rarely discuss…
Brick By Painful Brick
What lies behind the walls we build around our hearts? Why do we sometimes push away the very connection we crave most deeply? This exploration of emotional barriers goes straight to th…
Wes & DeLaw | The Unexpected Tribal Chief
Relationships require proper acknowledgment and clear boundaries, whether in marriages, parent-child relationships, or financial arrangements.
• The importance of making your partner fee…
Wes & DeLaw | Passive Simpin'
We introduce the concept of "passive simping" - knowingly acting like a simp to get what you want - and discuss how this strategy plays out in everything from casual dating to marriage.
The Duty of Physical Excellence
We explore the profound meaning behind the quote "No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training; it is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty…
Wes & DeLaw | Grinding, Lying & Other 30-Something Survival Tactics
We explore what our 25-year-old selves would think about our current career paths and discuss how traditional career advice has failed our generation.
We encourage you to share your own …
Meeting Tomorrow With Today's Strength
Ancient wisdom reminds us not to let future anxieties rob us of present peace. Our capacity for reason and problem-solving remains constant, providing the tools we need to face whatever…
When Intimacy Goes Wrong and Money Goes Missing
We dive deep into the uncomfortable realities of dating, relationships, and personal hygiene that nobody wants to talk about but everyone needs to hear. From mortifying intimate encount…
The Power and Illusion of Control
We explore the complex balance between personal autonomy and partnership in marriage, examining how control, boundaries, and mutual respect shape our daily happiness.
• Keeping certain p…
Risking It All For A Relationship
Tim Allen's transformation from cocaine dealer to Hollywood star reveals stark privilege in the justice system. His cooperation with authorities after being caught with 650 grams of coc…
When Life Hands You Bills, There's A Wife Involved
Wes and DeLaw tackle the financial pressures of modern life, from the shocking $80 price tag for pay-per-view boxing matches to the complex question of whether one spouse should pay for…
Charm The Toothbrush Out Her Mouth
We venture into the dynamics of charm and communication within lasting relationships. With humor and honesty, we reflect on what it means to maintain attraction and strengthen bonds in …
Eggs, Chainsaws, & Gym Jitters 🎧
Balancing humor and honesty, this episode navigates the complexities of relationships and everyday challenges couples face. From a Valentine's Day spending spree to the tension surround…
Foul Play and Romantic Riddles
My love language is expensive car parts but I'll settle for a new video game and some good food
I Swallowed It 🎧
How big does your circle of friends need to be? The dynamics of friendships and relationships provides never-ending stories of loyalty, trust, and the evolving nature of personal values…
New Year, Same Money Issues
What really happens when you mix gambling winnings with personal spending? Balancing the love we have for our wives and our check books, nothing has changed on our end. Happy New Year!
Election Day, The Marriage Maze, & Smoothies 🎙️
Election Day and marriage advice from random guys on the internet, what could go wrong ?
Chasing Contentment or Caught in the Success Trap?
Can contentment truly be the greatest form of wealth? Inspired by the wisdom of Socrates, I embark on a personal journey to unravel the pressures of modern life. Through a tapestry of p…
Boy Scout To Man Child
Boundaries need to be set no longer will you be obligated to be a team player, help people in need or pay child support.