Key Techniques to Effectively Win People Over

Techniques

1. Self-Deprecate
2. Mirror their Vocabulary
3. Expand with Questions, Avoid Interview/Interrogation
4. Raise them with a Compliment
5. Share a Laugh

Books

• Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert B. Cialdini, Ph.D.
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• Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People by Vanessa Van Edwards
  • https://amzn.to/3GaRvfE
• How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships by Leil Lowndes
  • https://amzn.to/3ihbH7O
• How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie
  • https://amzn.to/3VM6xy7

Quotes

• "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." - Theodore Roosevelt

Idea derived from previous Medium article https://brucedasilva.medium.com/key-techniques-to-effectively-win-people-over-ab48c0dbeb50