Show Me Love (Part 3: Points 24–30)Episode 260

In the final part of Show Me Love, MCM walks through points 24–30, showing you how to state what you want clearly, protect your energy, and stop measuring your worth by reply speed. You’ll also learn how to weigh happiness vs. money in opportunities, make love a choice instead of a lifeline, and heal old wounds before building new connections.

Show Notes with Timestamps

00:00 – Opening
MCM welcomes listeners to the final installment of the Show Me Love series. A reminder: if you’re new, go back to Episodes 258 & 259 to hear the first 23 points before finishing here.

01:01 – Point 24: Stop Being Unclear → State What You Want
Why silence and hint-dropping cause confusion, and how clear communication creates alignment instead of heartbreak.

04:46 – Point 25: Stop Confusing Busyness with Value → Protect Your Energy
Why being overextended doesn’t make you valuable—and how to budget, cap, and recharge your energy so you show up fully.

07:38 – Point 26: Stop Measuring Your Worth by Reply Speed → Build Inner Stability
How to break the habit of tying your self-worth to how quickly someone replies, and how to fill the waiting time with growth.

09:49 – Point 27: Stop Chasing Opportunities That Use You → Weigh Happiness vs. Money
How to filter shiny offers—jobs, relationships, or attention—and choose peace over payoffs that drain you.

13:43 – Point 28: Stop Treating Love Like a Lifeline → Make It a Choice
Why real love is chosen, not clung to—and how to keep your goals, identity, and partnerships balanced.

15:09 – Point 29: Stop Trying to Be ‘Enough’ → Focus on Alignment
The shift from proving yourself to checking for alignment: values, rhythms, and mutual effort matter more than “enoughness.”

16:55 – Point 30: Stop Ignoring Old Wounds → Heal Before You Build
The final shift: unhealed wounds leak into new relationships. Learn how to acknowledge pain, seek help, and self-soothe so you stop repeating cycles.

19:16 – Recap of All 30 Points
MCM reviews the entire journey, from chasing to choosing, from desperation to dignity, and from panic to peace.

22:26 – Core Reminder
Love isn’t proven by begging, chasing, or sacrificing. It’s shown in alignment, respect, and mutual effort—and the only way to find love like that is to first give it to yourself.

23:41 – Thank You & Sign-Off
Closing reflections on finishing the 3-part series, appreciation for listeners, and encouragement to share, subscribe, and stay connected.

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Points 24–27Points 28–30Final Recap & Closing